Sister Lizi commented that if you don't meet a more suitable woman around you, you can continue to make a spare tire for your so-called girlfriend. When you meet the right woman, break up with her. Because she doesn't think you are not motivated, she thinks you are poor.
Counseling my sister, my boyfriend only talks about his future and never talks about ours. Does he love me?
Sister chestnut comments on chestnut powder. Let's talk about it This problem seems simple, but it is actually quite complicated.
Hello, sister chestnut, here's the thing: a man has been pestering my girlfriend for two years. My girlfriend and I met two months ago, and then we naturally got together. We are in different places at present. My girlfriend told me about this guy. This man is not in the same place as my girlfriend, but he has been pestering her for two years, and it seems extreme: the last time my girlfriend hacked him, this guy flew back to find her. My girlfriend is a little afraid of this man, because of my relationship with my girlfriend's industry, the mobile phone number should be made public, and the micro signal can't be hidden. My girlfriend is afraid of him doing extreme things, so she has been afraid to delete his micro-signal (the phone number has long been blacked out). She showed me the chat record of this man harassing her, which gave people the feeling that he was unwise, annoying and funny. Last night, the man may have been drunk and lost his mind. He called my girlfriend on WeChat video and WeChat voice in a crazy way, and after hanging up, he said that he would come back to find her to make him angry, so as to threaten her (this guy seems to have some black forces in his area with my girlfriend). I'm not around my girlfriend, so I have to give her advice on WeChat, ask her to reply to the man, and then let her stay calm and don't be angry (because my girlfriend said that the more angry he is, the happier he will be). But this man is really shameless. My girlfriend was angry last night. I was angry (though funnier) when she sent me the chat record. The girlfriend told the man that she had a boyfriend and told him to leave it alone. That man actually came and said, I'm not married anyway. When I saw it, I thought, Wow, this man is shameless. People are more afraid of shame than ghosts. Of course, I trust my girlfriend, and my girlfriend trusts me. Neither of us will mess around, but this man has been pestering her, which is not good for her mental state. So, Sister Chestnut, is there any way to make this man stop harassing my girlfriend?
If there are special reasons, you can't change your mobile phone number or micro signal. You can set this man's WeChat message not to be disturbed, which means that there will be no voice prompts for this man to send any messages or video calls. In the face of such a more abnormal man, there can be no response in any form. Otherwise, the other party will become more and more entangled. Even if this person comes to find her trouble, there will definitely be no reply.
Hello, Miss Chestnut! Counseling with my boyfriend, and I have been with my boyfriend for more than two years. When we were together for more than a year, I mentioned breaking up once because the man's parents didn't agree, and then I couldn't let him go together. He also tried to communicate with his mother for more than a year. Every time he tells his mother about me, he quarrels with his mother, and her mother is also very strong, threatening him to do something he regrets if he doesn't break up with me. Yesterday, he explained the separation to me. He said
Sister Lizi commented, if you can't put it down, what can you do? Your boyfriend's mother doesn't like you, and he doesn't want to break up because you quarrel with your family. How long can you last alone? What's more, it doesn't make sense for two people to stick to their feelings alone. Learning to accept the reality, sorting out the lost emotions and leaving quietly may be another way to maintain dignity.
Hello, Sister Chestnut! I am 30 years old. My husband and I realized that it has been eight years now. 20 1 18. 20 18 After having a son, we got married. No wedding ceremony, no wedding dress, no bride price, because he has no money in business, and I don't care about these. After all, after so many years together, our feelings have gone beyond those so-called rituals. After so many years together, we have suffered a lot. I opened a small restaurant, and although there were quarrels, two people could be together almost 24 hours a day. I feel that he sticks to me and I stick to him. He didn't have any friends at that time, and then I knew what he did every day. Although life is hard, two people can feel it together. Since he had a son last year, his business has improved. I feel that we are not as close as before. Now that his business has improved, he will come back in the middle of the night. I slept until noon and woke up and went out. Because I have a son, he won't go to bed when he comes back. He said the bed was too small, so he slept in the living room, got dressed when he woke up, and went out to say that he had something to do. After coming back, we have nothing to say. He always watches Tik Tok and stays out late every day. He said he would have tea and chat with his business partners in the company and have a snack. I send him several videos every day to see what he is doing. He almost always picks up the video. Since he met a group of business bosses, I found that he occasionally went to entertainment places with them to find a lady to spend money. Of course, he denied it and only said that he would wash his feet. He didn't go to those places before. Before, I thought his world was just me. I never thought he would find a lady. Of course, his feelings for me are not so good now. After giving birth to the baby, the chest sagged and became smaller. He often jokes that I am mediocre. I often joke that I am old. Is 30 old? I feel that I can maintain and dress up now, which is much better than when I was suffering with him before. He didn't say that before. Although he is joking, I am very concerned about it. Although life is much better now than before, I feel uncertain and think he has changed. I feel uneasy every day. I don't know whether he is looking for a woman outside or what to do.
Sister Lizi commented that men become worse when they are rich, and women become rich when they become worse. Numerous facts have confirmed the truth of this sentence. You and your husband have been through a lot. You have an emotional foundation, but these feelings have now turned into family ties. Family ties alone are not enough to resist the temptation of the outside world. Don't worry too much every day It is the right way to manage children and family money. Taking care of a man's penis is the most meaningless thing.
I don't know whether my boss likes me or not, but I found that I liked him when I left my job. But because I did something that hurt the company and bothered him every day. Finally, he hacked my WeChat and phone. Now I'm really in pain. Before, he was very kind to me, loved me very much, accommodated me very much, and could tolerate all my willfulness. I miss him very much, so I want to see him again. In fact, he should never have liked me.
Sister Lizi commented that this boss has a family, right? You were a mistress for a while, spoiled and fired from the company, right? You know he never liked you at all, and you don't have to add drama to yourself. In business, men will never be soft in the face of interests. Therefore, if you learn a lesson and work hard next time, girls who want to take shortcuts need to have super emotional intelligence. Women whose two companies are not online should take the right path honestly.
Hello, Sister Chestnut! I am a 43-year-old woman. In the last six months, I always feel that someone is targeting me. There was a new vice president at the beginning of this year. In addition to the dean and two men who are about to retire, more than 30 employees in our unit are women. I've been absent from work every time since the new vice president took office. Of course, I asked for leave first. I have always been colleagues with this new vice president, and I have no intersection with her. The vice president has a good personal relationship with a female colleague. A female colleague and I used to work in a department for several years and had a good relationship. They were loyal and concerned about me, but then they suddenly became cold and ignored me. I thought I had a clear conscience. I remember that the relationship started with buying a house together. The year before last, we booked a room in a new property together. Later, because we couldn't afford the opening price, we all withdrew. She then booked a facade room, paid half of the house price, and the remaining half could not be made up. I don't agree to go to other places to see the house, and I feel that I have a bad feeling from now on. After the vice president took office, every time I got off work, sometimes I went out for 20 minutes, and no one said anything about being late and leaving early every day. I am very depressed. I have no choice but to photograph the sign-in form as evidence every day. How should Sister Lizi seek advice?
Sister Lizi's comments: Therefore, in the workplace, female colleagues are the most difficult to communicate, and female leaders are the least likely to offend. Since I think the new female leader is targeting at you, I can't just be cautious, because an open gun is easier to hide than an open enemy. You might as well find relatives and friends, see if you have a personal relationship with the husband of the new leader, and then treat you as a gift and play emotional cards.