Listen to the teacher, how to check and supervise the teacher, and keep in touch with the teacher at all times. As long as children are not stupid and parents can accompany them, children will be educated well.
There are many young parents who are self-righteous and unwilling to study with their children because of frequent communication. They always think that picking up and dropping off children is for the elderly, learning is for teachers, and learning well is for children themselves. There seems to be nothing wrong with the parents here, and even some mothers show off everywhere. The child just had a dip in his stomach, and there was nothing wrong with it.
It looks very chic, but in fact it doesn't fulfill the responsibility of being a parent. The ancients said that it is wrong to raise a godfather instead of a godfather, and it is wrong to teach a lazy teacher without teaching you. Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds affect their children's life. Secondly, the role of teachers, what kind of teachers educate what kind of children. Meeting a mentor will benefit children for life.
The most common thing is that parents often use their low educational level as an excuse to make a shield for their irresponsibility. In fact, it has nothing to do with academic qualifications. Children's entrance class is basically a blank sheet of paper. As a parent, you described him as square, round, positive and negative. Attaching importance to learning and neglecting learning have taught children two completely different learning attitudes.
What is the correct posture? I think we should listen to the teacher and do as the teacher asks. For example, after children go home to eat, they should be urged to finish their homework quickly and improve efficiency. Children in primary schools are sloppy, busy and inefficient, which is related to their physical and mental development characteristics at this time.
At this moment, it is particularly important for parents to accompany the inspection and supervision. Don't lose your temper because of procrastination, and don't lose patience and let yourself go. With the growth of age, children's understanding of the external world and the inner world is getting richer and richer, and their understanding of learning is getting deeper and deeper, so they naturally attach importance to learning.
Children's learning is a long process. It is impossible to keep a straight line, and there will always be deviations to the left or right in the process of moving forward. This requires parents to closely contact teachers and help their children correct their direction by means of home-school cooperation. Otherwise, once there are bad signs, it will take a long time to find out and it will be difficult to correct a bad habit.
This long process requires the selfless dedication of parents, because it is their own children, and this selflessness is worthwhile. Many children admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, whose parents are farmers or workers, have a low level of education, or even are slow, and can't say a few complete words. They do it with their heart, accompany them with their heart, and use their enthusiasm to move and inspire their children to study hard.
Therefore, educating children is just an excuse, because children have low academic qualifications.
Yes, it is a teacher's specialty to let children learn cultural knowledge. What parents need to do is to let their children learn life skills and learn to be human. These have nothing to do with education.
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Children receive a good education, with "all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor" as the standard.
The first is good character and correct thinking, which has nothing to do with the level of education.
Reeducation through labor and good health have nothing to do with parents' education.
As long as we establish the idea of self-improvement and rely on our own efforts, children "don't have to whip themselves."
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The core of family education is to supervise children's principled and sustainable growth behavior. Because the knowledge of educating children can be obtained from teachers and society, only parents are the final decision-makers in the supervision of children's growth behavior, just as all enterprises can learn from the mature human, financial and material management systems in society, just like the differences in experience between enterprises and the top leaders. Similarly, the quality of family education has a low correlation with parents' academic qualifications and a strong correlation with the continuity of family education management principles.
Teacher theory
Ancient scholars must have teachers. Teacher, so preach and teach to solve doubts. People are not born knowing, who can have no doubt? If you are confused and don't follow the teacher, you will be confused and you will never understand. Before I was born, I studied Tao before I was born, so I learned from Tao. After I was born, I studied Taoism first, so I studied Taoism. I am a teacher, and I don't know that years were born in me. Therefore, there is no nobility, no inferiority, no length, no shortage, and the existence of Tao and the existence of teachers.
Ha ha! It's been a long time since the teacher passed on the Tao! It's hard to be confused! The ancient sages are far away, and they are still in the teacher's question; Today's people are far from saints, and they are ashamed to learn from their teachers. So saints are good for saints, and fools are good for fools. What makes saints holy and fools stupid? Love his son, choose a teacher and teach him; If you are in your body, you will feel ashamed and confused. The boy's teacher, the sentence of teaching and learning books, is not the person I am talking about telling his story and solving his confusion. I don't know, I don't understand, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. Witch doctors and musicians are skilled workers, and they are not ashamed to learn from each other. The families of the scholar-officials called their teacher disciple Yun, and they got together and talked and laughed. When asked, he said, "He is almost the same as that year, and in the same way. Humble and shameful, officials are close. " Oh! The teacher's way is unknown. Witch doctors are highly skilled musicians, and gentlemen disdain them. Today, his wisdom is out of reach, strange and embarrassing!
Saint impermanence teacher. Confucius studied under Tan Zi, Changhong, Shi Xiang and Lao Dan. Scorpions' disciples are not as clever as Confucius. Confucius said: If there are three people, there must be a teacher. So disciples don't have to be inferior to teachers, and teachers don't have to be superior to disciples. They have a good understanding of Taoism and specialize in their skills. That's all.
Seventeen-year-old Li is good at ancient prose and knows all six arts. He has unlimited time to learn from Yu Yu. Yu Jiaqi can follow the ancient road and write Shi Shuo to make it last forever.
Disciples need not be inferior to teachers, and teachers need not be superior to disciples. They have a good understanding of Taoism and specialize in their skills. That's all. Similarly, parents with low academic qualifications can educate good children at any time. Because human social civilization originates from productive labor and life practice, and academic qualifications are only the product of the popularization of modern vocational school education. To be sure, according to modern academic standards, Laozi, Confucius, Li Bai, Du Fu, Su Shi, Wang Xizhi, Qi Baishi and so on. You may not get your diploma. Because, according to the existing history, they all have serious partiality.
Teacher, preach, teach, and solve doubts. Education is a comprehensive behavioral art that parents and teachers use the known and mature achievements of social civilization of human society to give children the ability to live independently through behavioral practices such as essential explanation, behavioral demonstration and practical guidance. Education is like the enlightenment guide of children's wisdom in their life journey. The core work of education is to "inherit sages and enlighten wisdom", that is, to use the mature civilized wisdom of human society to open children's infinite wisdom potential. Taking civil engineering education as an example, education must be based on relevant technical specifications and teach learners how to build houses or bridges according to technical specifications and actual site environment. Without education, future engineers will be required to build houses and bridges.
Qu Yuan's Buju in the Chu Ci of the Warring States Period: "The feet are short, the inches are strong, and the materials are insufficient. If you don't know your wisdom, you can't catch it, and God is unreasonable. " Xiang Yu, who was brave and good at fighting, was finally defeated by Han Xin, who was good at commanding soldiers. Han Xin, who is good at commanding soldiers, is under Liu Bang, who is good at commanding generals; Liu bang, who was good at commanding generals, was besieged by Xiongnu for seven days ... There is no absolute difference between strength and weakness in real human society. Similarly, teachers with high academic qualifications may not be able to teach well, and teachers with poor academic qualifications may not be able to teach well. Education is different from industrial standardized production. Teachers and educatees in education are both people with subjective thinking consciousness, and only by achieving the efficiency of educational information transmission with the same frequency can they do their best. Therefore, in the real education process, many highly educated teachers speak very professionally. However, children don't understand and are not interested; Some teachers are superficial and unprofessional. However, the children are very interested and can really understand the truth.
Ship lock, a kind of "navigation structure". In natural rivers, due to the regulation of flow, channelization and navigation, as well as the limitation of topographic conditions and water slope on the channel, it is necessary to have stepped longitudinal sections to form a concentrated water level drop. Therefore, it is necessary to adopt a special navigation structure to make the ship directly pass through the drop. Ship lock is the most widely used one in modern navigation structure. It is a box structure, which consists of upper and lower approach channels and lock chambers located at the upper and lower lock heads. The lock chamber of a ship lock is a box-shaped lock chamber for ships (or fleets) to berth. Adjust the water level in the lock chamber by means of indoor irrigation or drainage, so that the ship can vertically rise and fall between the upstream and downstream water levels, thus passing through the concentrated water level drop of the waterway. When the ship travels from downstream to upstream, the indoor water level drops to be flush with the downstream water level, and then the gate of the downstream gate head is opened, and the ship enters the lock chamber, closes the gate and injects water. When the water level rises to the level of the upstream water level, the upstream gate head is opened, and the ship can leave the gate and sail upstream through the upstream approach channel. When the ship travels from upstream to downstream, the operation procedure of crossing the gate is the opposite.
The roles of teachers and students are similar to those of two adjacent lock chambers in a ship lock. Teachers belong to the high-level lock room, and students belong to the low-level lock room. Only by lowering the water level of the lock chamber with high water level to be equal to that of the lock chamber with low water level can the ship with knowledge and information run smoothly. Therefore, in the real human society, the master's disciples are almost inferior to him, and the masters are all disciples of nobody. Because it is impossible for every master to tell the whole story when teaching his disciples, every master should learn from many teachers with an open mind &; Learn from life practice.
Architects can build high-rise buildings after mastering the usage norms of steel bars, cement and sand. Similarly, education begins with literacy and writing. With literacy skills, many children can build smart buildings by themselves. Of course, in the process of learning, the most boring and difficult moment is to master the usage norms of basic words. No matter in what historical period, learning discipline is the most difficult to teach and manage in basic education. Therefore, good teachers in the basic education stage are experts in the management of class learning discipline. Therefore, the quality of family education has a low correlation with parents' academic qualifications and a strong correlation with the principles of family education management.
My little uncle, my father's brother, is a laid-off worker. After he was laid off, he worked as a handyman outside. My cousin graduated from Zhejiang University with a doctorate. Talent introduction in Shenzhen last year. My uncle's youngest son was admitted to the college entrance examination last year, but he didn't care much. My aunt doesn't care much about it. This is really hard to say. My cousin is the head teacher in junior high school, but he likes drinking. He takes care of himself every day and goes home when he is drunk. My cousin graduated from elementary school to junior high school, ranking first in class and top three in grade, and never attended cram school. He also likes to sneak out of Internet cafes to play games, sleep in class or sneak out to surf the Internet. He passed Yali in the middle school entrance examination and was admitted to the University of Hong Kong in the college entrance examination. I graduated from the postgraduate stage of Hong Kong University this year. According to my cousin, the doctor of HKU has also been insured and is going to study for a doctor. So this is really hard to say. Let's see the children's luck.
It's hard to say. His parents don't know a word, and the woman 1982 went to a good university. Now both of them are college students, and their son has been admitted to a good university to work in a private enterprise.
Whether there is a high degree of education is different from educating children.
Although Chen Yonggui is a native farmer, he can become a deputy prime minister. Yin Tiesheng, who failed in the college entrance examination, can still be admitted to the university. So just stick to it.
It's easy to be a man, but difficult to be a woman.