Heart is the source of all pain, emotion, personality, happiness, success and freedom in life. If we avoid mental problems, external success and self-righteous happiness are short-lived and fleeting. If we don't solve the problem of the mind, people will not get the freedom of the mind, and suffering and tragedy are doomed: because human life is limited after all.
On the other hand, as Dr. WayneW Dyer said, "Every life problem has a psychological solution". No matter whether your problems are worries about survival, emotional troubles, marital troubles, career setbacks, physical pain, psychological obstacles, personality defects, or confusion about life, only by starting with the growth of mind can we solve the problems encountered in life, which is the fundamental solution. Otherwise, it just goes to the root cause, cures headaches and pains, and treats the symptoms rather than the root cause.
The mind is a combination of mind and wisdom. The heart is the spirit of the universe and the creation of time and space. She is so inscrutable and difficult to describe that language has lost its ability to express her, just as Laozi explained "Tao": "Tao can be Tao, but it is extraordinary; Famous, very famous. " Once you give her a name, she loses her meaning.
Thought and mentality
Mentality refers to the attitude and state of facing life or someone or something. Mind refers more to mental wisdom, which refers to the sum of people's thinking abilities such as feeling, observation, understanding, judgment, choice, memory, imagination, hypothesis and reasoning, and guides their behavior accordingly.
For example, someone has strong logical thinking ability, good interpersonal relationship, strong ability to handle affairs, smart and witty, but sometimes he is eager for quick success and instant benefit. We will say that this person is mentally mature, but has a bad attitude.
For example, some people are kind-hearted, simple and lovely, and look heartless. One day, he smiled and laughed, always forgetting things, sometimes dragging his feet and offending people, but he knew how to be practical and enterprising, and stupid birds flew first. We will say that she is immature, but she has a good attitude.
will
In English, mind means will and ambition. From Mozi Michit.
Yes; Ambition "Mozi Michit": "It is the violent king of the past three generations. I don't leak his eyes and ears, and I don't care about his mind. " "Mencius Gaozi Shang": "Therefore, the heaven will descend to a great position, and people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, and empty their bodies." Su Song's "The Second Style of Giving up a Book": "I am worried about myself, but I have given up my pen and ink stone. Although I am reluctant now, my mind has declined. " The Romance of the Three Kingdoms, the fifth chapter: "Prosperity is the folly of building a palace; Send more beautiful women to have fun and entertain their eyes and ears. " Liang Bin's "The Story of Burning Love" trinity: "Everyone has this intention, please finish this glass of wine!"
Cultivation of mind
In the final analysis, it is success or not. Mainly depends on what kind of heart. Sometimes an idea can decide everything about you. Everyone will have this experience: if you are determined to do something, you will go all out in the process of doing it, do your best, not afraid of difficulties, stick to it to the end, and most of the results will be successful; If you waver from the beginning, can't do it, or think that you can't do it, you will lack energy in the process of doing it, and you will easily be out of breath and give up halfway, and most things will not be done. So Tolstoy said, "Determination is strength, and confidence is success." This is why Austin said, "There is no failure in this world except psychological failure." Doing one thing is like this, and so is life. Only those who think they can win, and only those who think they can be great can get what they want.
Spiritual energy determines all aspects. For example, the mind determines academic success. "If you don't learn, you can't be versatile. If you don't want to learn, you can't learn." (Zhuge Liang) As long as we solve the problem of kindness-enthusiasm, interest and will for learning, we can learn automatically and actively from "I want to learn" to "I want to learn", which will be particularly prominent in learning. Generally speaking, successful family education, school education and self-education have done a particularly good job in developing spiritual energy. Those great masters, whose parents' education is not high, spend less energy on tutoring, have no "accompanying students" and no tutors, why can they be very successful? The reason is that they have developed children's mental energy and cultivated their ambition, interest, self-confidence and will.
Spiritual cultivation
The mind is the soul and the foundation of growth and success. The worst is mental disability, and the most feared is mental death. In Focus Interview, it was said that a disabled person came back from the brink of death, paralyzed and unable to move his hands and feet. The same person, when he was disheartened and desperate for himself, refused all treatment and thought of suicide. Later, through psychotherapy, I aroused hope, restored my psychological strength, overcame all difficulties, translated one book after another, and learned to draw with my mouth, which I could not do as a healthy person before! In life, we often see many disabled people whose conditions are much worse than normal people, but they are more successful than us, which is really shameful. Because there is only one 3: they are physically and mentally disabled. Although some normal people have hands and feet, many people are disabled in thought and ambition. Such people are often more pathetic than disabled people who are physically and mentally disabled. Such people are truly "disabled".
Now there is a saying called "brainwashing" and "changing brains". The heart has more control and influence on people than the brain. Corresponding to "brainwashing" and "changing the brain", there should be "washing the heart" and "changing the heart". Wash your face and feet every morning and evening, and take a bath regularly. Who can "wash the heart" regularly-wash away the dark, pessimistic and negative things in the heart? Thoroughly cleaning yourself should be not only a physical cleaning, but also a spiritual cleaning.
If just washing your heart can't solve the problem, it's necessary to change your heart. When you change your negative and contented mind, throw it into the trash can and replace it with a positive, dissatisfied, progressive and rushing heart. This is the heart of a successful person. With such a heart, you will succeed. Now there is a theory of transplanting memory and brain. If science is developed enough to transplant human hearts, copy the hearts of successful and great people and install them for mediocre people, many people will be successful and great! Of course, it is impossible to change our minds at present. What we can grasp is to practice our hearts every day and work hard to cultivate them into the hearts of successful people.
The core of mental cultivation is "ambition"-ambition and will, which occupy the most important position in the whole psychological energy. If you master ambition, ambition, spirit and will, you can master most of your mind.
Cultivate flowers with your heart, and flowers are fragrant; Cooking with heart, Caicai is delicious. As long as you work hard, everyone is a good person. Make friends with your heart. Friends are noble. Love with your heart, everyone is a relative. If you work hard, everything will be fine; It is a merit to recite Buddha with your heart. Learn the method by heart, and both methods can be understood; Attend Zen with your heart, and both Zen and Zen can be seen. From the heart of submission, demons can be eliminated. Make good use of his heart, but he has one.
The highest state of life
I don't argue with anyone. I don't care who I argue with.
Simple life, noble soul,