There are always people who resign easily, preferring long-term unemployment rather than bowing their heads to work.
There is a saying called "running with a bucket". I understand it this way. A person finishes a job, puts his luggage in a bucket, and then goes to the next place to do the next job.
In busy cities, people who run away with buckets are often seen. They may come to look for a job, or they may move to the next city. There are always some people who leave their jobs because they are not high enough or low enough, dissatisfied with their jobs and aggrieved.
People who look down on their current jobs, leave their jobs at will, and run around the streets with buckets are really incompetent. A capable person would rather rely on others than let himself wander the streets.
My cousin Zhu Xiao went to work in Dongguan after graduating from vocational school last year. During the Spring Festival, I asked Zhu Xiao, "Where do you work in Dongguan? If I go to Dongguan on business next time, I will come to you. "
Zhu Xiao said, "Don't mention it. I changed five or six jobs last year, and I didn't adapt. Now that I am unemployed, I will look for a job after the New Year. "
I don't understand. It is not appropriate to change five or six jobs in half a year. Whether the job is not suitable, or the ability is limited, or complaining too much, you really need to think seriously.
Many young people, who are not deeply involved in the world, always think that they are swift horses and there is no Bole in society. As everyone knows, he is not a swift horse at all, but a person who urgently needs to make money to eat.
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Adults, no job is satisfactory, and no job is unwilling to quit.
When a person reaches a certain age and finds that his income is never enough, his family is always in a state of making ends meet.
I am busy every day, but I don't know what I am busy with. I get paid at the end of the month and find myself busy all the time. I also found that the harder I work, the more wealth I create for others, and I can't get rich at all.
I don't know from which day, the voice of complaints is getting louder and louder. At work, I have no good mood at all and always want to resign.
I really want to resign, only to find that I can't do anything. I had to give up the idea of resigning, continue to complain about my work and continue to work hard. I wonder when.
Seeing that people of the same age have succeeded in starting a business, they will think, "Why did he succeed? Why can't I? " . His method of starting a business is simple. I thought of it at first, but I didn't act. What a pity. "
As the saying goes, "people have to bow their heads under the eaves." As an adult, shouldering the pressure of life, I dare not resign casually, and think twice before jumping ship. "Being a man with his tail between his legs" seems to be the standard of life.
A boss said: "In today's society, middle-aged employees are the most obedient and dare not resign, because the whole family is supported by him, and mortgage is also a big burden."
How many adults, in the workplace, are not happy at all, but have to work hard, and there is no better way.
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In the workplace, people learn to "behave with their tails between their legs" and accumulate strength in silence.
My colleague Xiao Liao resigned the afternoon before yesterday. He paid off his salary and left with a stack of books without saying goodbye to his colleagues one by one.
I chatted with Xiao Liao for a long time in the evening. Xiao Liao said, "I've always wanted to resign, but I'm incapable. I participated in electrician training this year, which is a skill. I'm going to work in Dongguan as an electrician in a big factory. I have already contacted. "
It turns out that Xiao Liao works as a warehouse manager in our unit with a monthly salary of about 2000 yuan. He can barely support himself, and it is impossible to buy a house or a car. However, Xiao Liao did not complain, nor did he always say that he resigned. He seized the opportunity of learning and changed himself.
People in the workplace, who don't want to be wronged, have to learn to "roll with the punches", try to improve their employability, learn a skill, or prepare for starting a business in advance and set foot in a certain industry when others are not paying attention.
"Being a man with his tail between his legs" looks very pitiful, but it is actually a kind of wisdom. I will keep a low profile and become inconspicuous, and I will also make time to do something else.
Some people who do sideline business tend to keep a low profile. He moonlighted for several years without the knowledge of his colleagues. When he earned enough money and began to turn his sideline business into a real business, his colleagues suddenly realized.
High-profile people look great, but they are not at all. They just blow their own horn and design a "pie" for life, but it will never come true.
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Today's bow is for tomorrow's rise.
"Being a man with his tail between his legs" is not to let himself live humbly all his life, let alone to become a "soft persimmon", but to learn to weigh the pros and cons, try to balance the pros and cons and not offend anyone.
It is not surprising that people are bullied in the workplace, especially some new employees are bossed around by old employees. In a unit, any department, there are old employees and new employees, which will inevitably be "seniority." Usually, new employees are not qualified to refuse to work or make their own suggestions.
If you want to gain a foothold in the workplace, you will always be wronged for a while. You will always "run with a bucket", and you will always be on the way to find a job and accomplish nothing.
It seems domineering to resign and fire the boss casually, but you have lost a job and an opportunity to preserve your strength. One day, you will not be domineering.
People who can hold their horses in the workplace are either famous in this unit and loyal to their wives; Either have the ability to resign and move to a higher position, or start your own business.
Someone said, "It's easier to find a swift horse by riding a donkey than by walking."
In other words, it is easier to find a breakthrough in life while working than to find a job aimlessly. After all, life still has a way out, not the last stop.
"Man struggles upwards" has additional conditions, and there is really no need for willfulness.