I have attended this coach twice, and there is nothing to say in the class, but is anyone there? My influence is a little arrogant.
The reason why this teacher is arrogant is because I just entered this industry when I was in her class. On the first day of class, she disliked me, and the teaching method was so cynical. I felt this way at that time, but now I think it's mainly because I can't keep up with the class, so the teacher naturally has no patience to teach. In short, the feeling of experiencing the class for the first time is completely out of state. After class that day, several students added teachers and I was in front of them. Out of courtesy, I took the initiative to add them.
Later, I went to her class again, and the class style remained the same, and the arrogance between words became more and more serious. As an educator, I can't accept this teaching method. At that time, the students in the yoga class were basically around 50, and most of them had not been in contact with this industry for a long time and their professional foundation was weak. In the face of such students, cynicism cannot solve the problem!
As a teacher, the minimum professional quality is to be able to correctly estimate the professional level of the students he teaches, and truly make education as entertaining as the right medicine. Teaching and learning learn from each other, and it is not a problem that can be solved in one sentence. Must be the result of long-term persistence in running-in
In addition, in my opinion, the arrogant aspect should be the network. Since adding her WeChat, there has been no interaction in any form between us, including the circle of friends. It is also my unilateral praise and comment, and she has never left any footprints in my circle of friends. We have many friends, and I haven't seen her praise or comments on anyone. Now I think she should block all our students' circle of friends! So she sent me a message, and I can reasonably infer that this is purely a sales behavior. I hate this way of employing people in advance and putting them aside when they are useless. Even if we don't have any intersection on weekdays, I am at least her potential customer. Realistic?
I am also a somewhat lofty person. I seldom take the initiative to associate with people, but I will be humble to potential customers because of my work. On weekdays, I will give a compliment, comment, maintain a good friend relationship, send a blessing during the Chinese New Year and express my existence from time to time. In addition, if someone has something to ask me, I will try my best to reply enthusiastically. At least I don't like her. Too realistic.
People who are too arrogant tend to be lofty and inaccessible. I refuse such a person from my heart. Although I sometimes condescend, I still like to deal with easy-going people, so I try to be an easy-going person. I think people who are too lofty are not because of talent, but because of character.
There is someone outside, and there is a day behind. Lofty people can't see the advantages of others, but care too much about their own advantages. Such people can't face their own shortcomings correctly, can't restrain their own shortcomings, and can't learn from the advantages of others, which often leads to their own growth.
When I was young, I simply thought that lofty people often get along carefully because they have goods in their bellies. Later, when I came into contact with some lofty people, I found that the shortcomings were more obvious than the advantages, so I began to introspect, and gradually found that I was not lofty, but inferior, did not strive for progress, hid under the lofty shell, and refused to grow up. This is a manifestation of closure and cowardice.
Su Cen once said: "In the journey of life, everyone is busy meeting all kinds of people, thinking that this will enrich life. But in fact, the most valuable meeting is to meet yourself again at some point. At that moment, you will understand that traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart. "
A person has been trying to find himself all his life. We can often see other people's problems at a glance, but we can't face up to our own problems. This is the difficulty of our life. Some people are used to avoiding this difficulty easily and not reflecting on themselves. But only learn to shine a flashlight on people and criticize others. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. We shouldn't compare our strengths with others' weaknesses, so you have an advantage and nothing to be proud of. Of course, we don't need to compare our own shortcomings with the advantages of others. Excessive self-denial is also not conducive to growth. Correctly estimating and facing ourselves are the two most difficult things for us to do when we grow up.
Some people say that living is nothing more than struggling in entanglement and pain, waiting for one ending after another.
If you know, it's also a cold and warm process. It doesn't matter whether you change or give up. When you ran to hope, you fell and got up. Maybe you got a stone's advice.
Maybe, we all do. In the morning and evening, we work hard and love our work. Life seems to be warmed by our obsession.
There has never been a life that is all-round. It is the most beautiful fireworks to appreciate the goodness of the world with the goodness of life.
As Mo Yan said, "A person should know his position just as a person knows his face. This is the most sober consciousness. "
Perhaps, we have been stubbornly in love with something, such as the rising sun.
Ma De said: Too high-profile will definitely make people feel disgusted, but too low-key will also make people feel disgusted. Excessive alienation will keep people away from it.
Among thousands of people, meeting a low-key person is like hearing a quiet piece of music in a quiet alley, and meeting a flowing spring in the desolate desert Jedi. You are happy.
This is an endless joy and comfort. Only three or two banquets. Although there are few low-key people, it is a rare scenery in this world, which makes people shine at the moment, with bright ears and bright eyes. Only in low-key people can you find a trace of elegant introversion, a little noble tranquility and a beautiful tranquility in the noisy world.
Low-key people, if you hold a feather, if you hold everything, if you hold a mustard tuber, if you think innocently, if you are not crazy, if you don't act rashly, if you don't have eyebrows, you will continue.
Many times, we all like people who live a transparent life. We believe that only transparent people have no special people to make friends, nothing to get and nothing to resist. Clean, simple, pleasing to the eye, that's all.
Some people say: if you want to show off to the upper class, give up this idea, and they will still look down on you. If you want to show off yourself to the bottom of society, please give up this idea, they will only envy you. Identity and status often leave you at a loss. Only an honest heart can make you calmly face the whole society.
Like a person, it is not that this person is particularly likable, but that this person is in line with your appetite and temper. In this person, you found your own shadow and found the same connotation as you. The same connotation is easy to vibrate, so you like it.
The greatest love is love. Loving a person is not that this person is particularly worthy of love, but that in getting along with this person, you find your cuteness and feel your value, so you like it, and if you like it for a long time, it becomes love that you can't give up.
Hate a person, not that this person is particularly annoying, but that this person has no eye for you. You can't find the same place as you in the other person, and you can't find the characteristics that resonate with you, so over time, you have a nasty mood. Don't believe it? Just because you hate it doesn't mean others hate it. What you hate is that others like it. So sometimes we often have such a question in communication: "How can he (she) like (love) such a person?"
So, whether we like it or hate it, we actually like ourselves, and what we hate is that we can't find ourselves. To put it bluntly, our emotional axis is ourselves, and our emotional direction is ourselves. In reality, we are constantly looking for ourselves, proving ourselves and realizing ourselves. The process of our perception of the world is the process of self-perception.
This is a realistic society. On the one hand, we want to live the life we expect. On the one hand, life forces us to live in the most realistic way. So we often need a little personality, but we also need some life skills to adapt to this era.