? I believe you still remember the Ode to Joy broadcast last night. Fan He made a scene in the sales department because of the name of the real estate license. This kind of scene is also very common in life. However, is the name on the real estate license really important?
Due to the promulgation of the new marriage law, more and more women now require their own names to be added to the real estate license, so that they will not leave home cleanly in the case of divorce. I still don't say that this practice is cursing my marriage, but where is the real meaning of a name?
The so-called sense of security
Fan cried bitterly when he went back. She told the little earthworm and Guan Guan that she didn't have a home of her own since she was a child, and she wanted to have a real home, so that she would feel safe.
To some extent, Fan equates marriage with a house. Without a house, there is no marriage and no sense of security. It is better to marry than to marry a house.
? Maybe you will say that I am too ideal. In today's society, a material foundation is necessary. How can you get married without a house? Yes, so Wang Baichuan has been trying to buy a house, but now that she has a house, she is unhappy because of the name.
Wang Baichuan can't make decisions, because the money is given by his parents, and he must take care of his parents' feelings. Fan, on the other hand, takes it for granted that the house should write its own name and pay back the loan together, so it should be added by itself. There is nothing wrong with this, but there is a lack of communication between two people. Wang Baichuan's self-righteous Nuo Nuo and Fan Meisheng caused this farce.
The sense of security is created by oneself, not from men or houses.
From the beginning, Fan was in a passive position. Her income is higher than Guan Guan and Xiao earthworm, but she doesn't have the courage to live independently. She places all her hopes on men.
? She can stand up when she meets friends, but when it comes to herself, she chooses to escape. She has always wanted to find a man who can solve everything for her, so that two 3/kloc-0-year-old girls without roommates can have independence and courage in life.
Why bet on a man when you know you can live a good life? When you know that two people are unhappy together, you still dare not leave. When you know that you can create a sense of security, you are afraid.
Growth is regardless of time and age.
Fan's surprise and the growth of small earthworms are sometimes very simple. Two people are together when they are happy, but not together when they are unhappy. At the age of 3 1, she has not fully understood such a simple truth.
There are several narrators in the play, and Fan Meisheng is asking himself and answering himself. Whether she loves Wang Baichuan or not, she is questioning herself. The answer is not all.
From the beginning, the starting point of Fan and love was unequal. Wang Baichuan began to pay attention to what Fan Meisheng was, beautiful, capable and goddess, who could not be moved in those days. Fan just started to pay attention to what it is, and started a small company, driving a BMW and materials.
But when the truth came out, Fan valued unswerving loyalty. Actually, I want to say, do these have anything to do with love? I can't find a fragment.
On the contrary, she and Chen have a feeling of mutual appreciation. At that time, she was very independent and refused to accept gifts, live high.
It's really unfortunate to have a family that drags you down, but with Fan's strength, living independently in Shanghai is no problem! She can live a good life. Guan Guan said that one plus one is definitely greater than two, so it makes sense to be together. Obviously, I can't see this from the love between Mei Sheng and Wang Baichuan. I feel tired for them because of mutual torture.
Fate is so sad to play tricks on people, and it is difficult to buy a house, but the name of the real estate license has become a disagreement between two people. What if you don't have a name? What if you have a name? After all, you still don't have enough love, trust and security.
Marriages that don't start with pure love are probably like this! It is also a kind of sorrow to live in mutual calculation! Those who have no money are the way to have no money, and those who have money are the way to have money. Really feel tired, if so, a person is also quite good, self-sufficient and happy!
Ode to Joy will be over soon. There are so many topics this season, just like our life, every day is different and there are new plots every day!