Pan Guiyu is a typical rural uneducated woman. Both her family and her husband's family are rural. The idea of son preference is deeply rooted. In Pan Guiyu's idea, only a son can continue the incense, so when she gave birth to her fourth daughter, she instinctively chose to throw away this burden. So even if the room is like brocade, she survived by luck. In her opinion, her position at home is like a sandwich biscuit, which is redundant at home, punching bag at home and to everyone.
It is said that children from poor families are the only chance to change their fate, and their grades are very good, so parents should be happy. But when Pan Guiyu knew that the room was the first in the whole school and even admitted to a key university, there was no trace of happiness on her face. She was worried that the room would cost her family money. Later, she tore up the notice of the room and even shut it at home. If it was really because her family was too poor, she could have.
Fang's idea escaped from Pan Guiyu's hand and went to school with grandpa's help. Although Fang didn't go to school as she hoped, she completed the college course by auditing. Although she didn't have a diploma, the accumulation of this knowledge paved the way for her later take-off. After work, the house is like a brocade. Pan Guiyu didn't intend to spare the daughter, and kept asking her for money. The reason for opening my mouth is to buy a house for my son and marry a wife. To this end, she even almost lost her job and lost her reputation.
Even in the name of Fang Yijin, who was most concerned by his grandfather, he cheated Fang Yijin to send money to his family. When Fang Yijin learned the truth, Pan Guiyu had no regrets and boasted. Why should I lie to you, not because you dig, but because you want to give something, just like squeezing toothpaste? . Seeing this, I believe many people have the same idea as me. It turns out that not every woman in this world deserves to be a mother!
In fact, if you look at Pan Guiyu, this is a woman from a bad industry. Aunt Xu's words, if it weren't for the support of Pan Guiyu, the house would have collapsed! Pan Guiyu married a worthless husband and gave birth to a worthless son. Pan Guiyu is very controlling. She is used to tying her son's future with her daughters, so she cultivated her son into a character who enjoys it and does not fight. Although she is an adult, she is still a giant baby. In Pan Guiyu's eyes, his man is a loser, his father-in-law is an old deathlessly, and his son is a debt collector? Growing up in such a family for a long time, Fang Jiadong will also become unconfident and always deny himself.
In Pan Guiyu's idea, a woman should pay for her family before marriage and for her husband's family after marriage. It is the best destination for a woman to work hard all her life. The first three daughters all followed Pan Guiyu's path, but the room was like brocade, but they jumped out of Pan Guiyu's cognition. If Pan Guiyu wants to bring the room back to her own world, women should suffer and not live a good life. The more relaxed the room is, the harder it is for Pan Guiyu to put it down. Therefore, even though Pan Guiyu was seriously ill in bed later, he still didn't want to let go and still hurt it with the most vicious words.
Have you ever seen such a passage? Are parents and children really practicing? Is there an old saying? Children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren? Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents should do their duty. Children grow up, don't interfere too much. Don't always think about interfering in their lives. When they let go of their children, they are also fulfilling themselves, aren't they?