They touched me too much, but today, the fever of twins has dropped, and fewer people know about them.
Someone even asked: Who is Gillian? The fat actress?
Asa clarified for the first time that Gillian is healthy and fat because of hormonal imbalance. Please don't pressure her. Happiness is the most important.
Others asked: Who is Asa? William Chan's predecessor?
After Ah sa and William Chan broke up, they became the target of public opinion. Gillian accompanied her sisters for the first time, and Su Yan invited Asa to eat hot pot, not afraid of being followed by the media.
Twins are the dream of girls in the eighties and nineties. Sunny Asa and beautiful Gillian are still on my pencil box sticker, notebook cover and MP3 song list.
How many girls envy them and want to be them and have friends like them.
From peak to trough, twins have been helping each other, holding hands and caring for each other.
Just like two young generals who are outnumbered, they still smile at each other in the face of thousands of troops and knowing that the road ahead is bumpy.
Guns, fighting, killing.
If I were not twins, I wouldn't know how strong a girl's friendship can be; How warm a woman's heart can be.
This immortal friendship is so precious that I can't envy it.
Someone in Zhihu asked: Are twins lesbians?
Some fans replied: I like them for ten years. The affection between twins is purer than love, deeper than friendship and stronger than family ties.
When they first started out, someone asked them how their relationship was.
The two proudly replied that they should take a bath together back to back, not so familiar.
They never fell in love at first sight. At first, they couldn't play together, talk together, and be at arm's length.
Gillian, who lost her father in her early years, grew up eating "a hundred meals" and transferred to school eight times in three years, completely insecure;
Asa, whose parents are divorced, has been white since childhood. Her father held her in the palm of his hand and unconditionally met all her requirements.
Two people who have experienced worlds apart have very different personalities. Gillian can't talk, and she often makes trouble. Asa is delicate and has to help her settle it.
But when the circle is round, the feelings change.
In 2008, Gillian's private photos were leaked, which made her fall out of the altar of "Jade Girl" once banned by the media, and also brought trouble to the reputation of the twins.
Everyone advised Ah sa to fly solo, but she refused.
She's betting that she can feed the twins and Gillian will come back.
Gillian almost collapsed in the overwhelming abuse. Ah sa's persistence became her last straw.
Her heart is fragile and not strong enough, but her sister's affection and trust can't be let go.
Two years later, Gillian returned to twins. Two people together again, although the heat is far less than during the day, but the relationship between * * * after the trouble is more tacit understanding.
Making movies, TV series, making records, receiving advertisements, singing ... They know that they have no confidence to choose, and they try their best to prove that we are still the best women's group in China.
But just this year, Asa's "hidden marriage" was exposed. In order to apologize, she and her ex-husband Zheng Zhongji publicly announced their divorce.
That year, Ah sa was almost ruined by public opinion. Gillian's support became her loudest solidarity.
She has a stupid mouth, so she proved it by action: she cried in the background when she was injured in a song and dance concert; Many times, I support Ah sa in public and transfer the fire of public opinion to myself.
Ah sa is uncomfortable, and Gillian helps her massage; Asa cried and Gillian was the first to open her arms.
They are close friends of each other, witnessing the isolation of one person and the mutual support of two people. It doesn't matter even if the gunfire goes up into the sky. Back to back, you can lay a city.
They are also healing partners of each other. You help me with the medicine, and I'll help you heal. Weakness is not terrible. Hand in hand can build mountains.
They let me see that the good and bad in my heart, after the baptism of feelings, will turn into gems and shine in the sun.
Healing is a friend and the most powerful support when life is at a low ebb.
Crying in the middle of the night, the doorbell rang, and my friend stood outside the door and said with a smile, "Don't cry, I'm here";
Just when I was at my wit's end, the phone rang and my friend said that everything was settled and you should have a good rest.
Too busy to eat, WeChat rang, and friends appeared with special dishes and watched you eat and drink.
They all say, "If you love someone, you have to pay for him." Many times, love is not just "love", but also affection and friendship.
"Giving" is not money, but companionship, consideration, respect and gentleness.
If you have a friend who can cure diseases, you can understand: what is dew falling from the sky like spring breeze.
Shel in The Big Bang Theory is a "healing friend".
He is inarticulate, his emotional intelligence is extremely low, and he often jokes to make his friends laugh and cry.
But he will make a cup of hot tea for his friends when he is sad; When a friend has no money, take out his savings and let her take it casually;
I will also listen to my friends, patiently enlighten each other, put down my serious cleanliness and hug them awkwardly with open arms.
In life, Sheldon needs everyone's care; But emotionally, he has been learning to take care of everyone.
This brings healing and growth to everyone.
At the wedding, Schell, who never expressed her feelings directly, confided to her friend Leonard for the first time: You are extremely important to me.
Leonard, who felt inferior, was moved to tears. Knowing that he was not good enough, he thought Sheldon looked down on him and wanted to break up countless times.
But in the end, he thought that a bad relationship precipitated the heaviest strength and cured him.
Just like two prickly cacti, in the process of approaching, they slowly take off their thorns and learn how to heal each other and themselves.
Eddie is my "Shel". We like to compete with each other since college, and no one will obey.
Praise from girlfriends, placed on us, will wonder if the other party "took the wrong medicine?"
I often complain to my husband: Eddie is really annoying. No matter where I travel, she will bring me gifts. She is really rich and has no place to spend it.
Because of my poor health, I have to cook a table and invite me to dinner. I'm really full.
But so am i. I buy two copies every time I buy something, give her one and say, "This is too much."
I honestly exposed my worst, most willful and most inferior side to Eddie, and so did she.
Our relationship is very real, so we never feel that the other party will hurt me; This safe relationship gives me the strength to face more anxiety.
Yes, the world is not safe, but friends with a healing department are so cute.
Human nature is always intertwined with good and evil. Instead of showing your "good",
Healing is a friend, and it is more acceptable to accept the "bad" of friends.
We get along with friends in the healing department and don't hide it, so there will be quarrels; Uncompromising, so full of conflict; There is no apology, so they always hurt each other.
But this relationship allows us to put all our feelings, including those depressed parts.
No matter how good the parent-child relationship is, some words will appear "unfilial"; No matter how harmonious the relationship between husband and wife is, some temper will be "disillusioned".
Healing friends is the best place to live.
They are sincere, true and true, just like a messy room full of dirty clothes that can't be cleaned in time, but no one hates ugly people.
Those "dirty clothes" are our emotions and feelings that have not been accepted yet. Most of the time we hide them and only expose them to people who understand each other.
There are seven grandmothers in Japan who buy houses for the elderly. Whoever is short of onions and doesn't cook, make a phone call and the sisters will deliver it to your door.
This harmonious relationship is not without any conflict. A sister is in hospital. She refused to visit other sisters until she was well, and she didn't say why:
For her sick in bed, a group of energetic sisters are under too much pressure, and they feel unhappy at the thought of their own pain.
The two sisters held an emergency meeting and drew up a "self-reliance document", asking them to help each other while keeping their favorite distance; At the same time, we should also pay attention to taking care of our sisters' self-esteem.
Sisters feel what happens in their hearts. Many times, we don't want to face the unbearable side of our hearts, but we can accept it through the eyes of our friends.
The sincerity and frankness of friends seem to tell us:
Yes, I saw your heart and those messy "dirty clothes", but I still love you.
Because of you, I can put down my psychological burden and be myself with peace of mind;
Because of me, you can take off your social mask and love yourself happily and safely.
The imperfection in our eyes is the rose in full bloom in our friends' eyes.
This is the value brought by the relationship and the growth brought by the cure.