1. Correctly treat and scientifically guide children's communication. Primary and secondary school students need friendship more than people of any age, and the friendship during this period is often unforgettable. Parents should fully understand their children's needs, often guide their children's communication activities, give timely and patient guidance when they find that their children have bad friends, encourage their children to communicate with classmates and teachers, and form good interpersonal relationships. Don't interfere or criticize rudely, otherwise they will fall into communication difficulties, unable to adapt to various changes in society and life, and even go astray or have tragedies.
2. Care and love should be moderate. Primary and secondary school students are young and have a strong sense of attachment (especially primary school students), and they need someone to care for them. Parents should give them basic protection, at the same time, they should give them correct guidance and education, cultivate their self-care ability, and lay a foundation for them to move towards society and adapt to society. Excessive protection will make children feel dependent, indecisive and weak in social competition. Parents should pay attention to this.
3. Educate children to establish correct values and guide them to establish a scientific concept of consumption. Parents' appropriate investment in changing their children's learning and living conditions is a concrete manifestation of caring for the next generation, but children should be allowed to establish correct values. Guide children to spend reasonably in a planned way and enhance their awareness of saving; Make children realize that money is obtained through hard work and is the material embodiment of labor value, and then know how to cherish and cherish the labor achievements of themselves and others. Their happiness and beautiful life are created by their own hands, wisdom and hard work, thus inspiring their enterprising spirit.
4. Communicate in time and establish an equal relationship. Parents should exchange ideas with their children on the basis of mutual respect, understanding and sincerity, and keep abreast of their psychological state and ideological trends. Analyze the problems found in communication with children in time, cooperate with the school to carry out correct guidance and education, so that children can correctly understand themselves, objectively evaluate themselves, adjust their emotions, and prevent muddling through. At the same time, in communication, children should gradually master the ability to distinguish right from wrong and gain the ability and psychological preparation to deal with emergencies.
5. Pay attention to the cultivation of education and self-education ability. Parents should take the initiative to communicate with the school, give scientific guidance to their children, establish their awareness of seeking help on physical and psychological issues, initially face the enterprising attitude of graduation and further studies, gradually adapt to various changes in life and society, cultivate their children's tolerance for setbacks, and lay a solid foundation for their lifelong development.
6. Teach children to survive. The process of children's growth is the process of their socialization. He should learn the skills of living in a crowd and communicating with others. However, many children who grow up under the doting of their parents show that they are greedy for pleasure, do not know how to be frugal, do not love labor, and even waste money. Their living ability is extremely poor, it is difficult to put their position in the crowd, and their interpersonal compatibility is poor, so they can't cope with all kinds of complicated relationships. Various surveys and statistics show that most primary and secondary school students have poor self-care ability and communication ability. Even some students admitted to universities run away from home, unable to adapt to the new environment of the school, unable to take care of themselves and get along with others. As a result, many psychological problems appeared, and some had to drop out of school.
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