Methods 1: Keep the physiological romance.
1, express your love with your body, starting every day. Kiss your lover on the cheek as soon as you wake up in the morning to show your love. Studies show that warm greetings and physical contact in the morning set a pleasant tone and are full of energy for the next whole day. Wake up a few minutes earlier than your lover, turn off the alarm clock, kiss your lover on both cheeks and wake him up.
If you are in a foreign land and can't express your love with your body, you might as well send some romantic messages to your lover to wake her up in sweetness.
Expert tips
"You may want to prepare coffee or breakfast for your partner at the bedside regularly to make him feel different."
MFT MosherLarsen, PCC
MosheRatson, a marriage and family therapist, is a guidance and therapy clinic in new york, USA. Executive director of family therapy. He holds a master's degree in marriage and family therapy from Iona College, and has been engaged in this field for over 10 years.
MFT MosherLarsen, PCC
Marriage and family therapist
2. tease your lover. Walking around the room wrapped in a towel, touching your lover's back when you pass by. Do some little tricks to tease your lover, and slowly let him have hope and yearning for your touch. Full body massage is also a good way to enhance feelings and affinity.
3. Show your love publicly. Touching not only shows pity, but also conveys trust and stability. Touching your lover in public will add more sweetness, because it shows that you dare to show your love to your lover and want everyone to know that you are a fairy couple. Open the door for your lover, wait for her to enter the door, and put your arms around her gently.
When waiting in line at the bank, face each other and hug gently.
Of course, you should pay attention to your behavior in public. It's not good to do too much or even break the law.
4. Buy a book of love. For a long-term happy love, sex is essential and extremely important. Let's learn romantic gestures of love together, learn new gestures in love books, and please our lovers. Talk about the likes and dislikes between two beds. Understand your lover's sensitive points and try your best to please each other.
5. Prepare a "whimsical bottle". Record all sexual fantasies you want to try with your lover, including role-playing or intimate behavior in public. Sharing your sexual fantasies with your lover and showing them a deeper and more secret self can increase their feelings and affinity. When lovers share sexual fantasies with you, don't judge each other, but work together. Both of them should devote themselves wholeheartedly, practice their fantasies and increase their happiness.
Method 2: Enhance emotional connection.
1, frank communication. Open communication is the cornerstone of happy and romantic love. Tell your lover what you really think, including your likes and dislikes, which will increase your understanding of each other and maintain the overall happiness. Spend at least five minutes every day talking about your current emotional state, how you feel about something, or what you want to change. When chatting with your lover, try to put things on the bright side. For example, you don't like your lover to let you go to work without asking for advice. Don't say "don't make a decision for me", but say "I'd like to support your work very much, but you'd better discuss it with me before you go."
2. Leave some romantic notes at home to surprise your lover. These small acts of kindness will let your lover know that even if you are not at home, you care about each other very much, and your lover will be very happy and deeply loved for it. Other acts of kindness include sending romantic messages at work, writing "You are beautiful" on the mirror, packing lunch for the next day in advance, or cleaning the room.
3. Appreciate your lover. Appreciation makes love glow and love shine. Express your appreciation for your lover's whole person or body, and let her feel love and respect. Pay more attention to advantages, such as hair, humor or generosity.
4. tolerate your partner's shortcomings and shortcomings. No one is perfect, you know, so learn to be tolerant when the other person doesn't put the tableware away or is always late. Don't try to change the other person, but develop her bright spots, such as intelligence or ability, and make the room shine! Paying attention to your own shortcomings and knowing your own imperfections will make you more tolerant.
Respect your lover and his imperfections. If the other party is habitually late, respect the other party's choice, but be punctual.
Method 3: Change daily life.
1, plan a novel and romantic date night. Don't go to the usual French restaurant on every date. Try something new, such as playing paintball or drifting. Science shows that couples who enjoy exciting dates are often more satisfied than those who date regularly. When dating, do something that both parties can participate in, such as dancing, drifting or building a castle.
2. Treat every date as the first date. On the first date, everyone wants to surprise each other. If you dress up carefully and pay attention to your appearance on every date, then both of you will enjoy it and be satisfied.
Choose a weekend to go out every month. Leave home for two days a month and explore places you have never been with your lover. Carefully planned or spontaneous, you can take a trip back and forth. If you are short of money or have children, you can also walk around your home where you rarely set foot. Change the environment frequently. In different environments, you may see a lover with different styles.
Travel can also test love, see if you get along well, and show all-weather life.
4. Set aside time alone. It is wise to enjoy solitude in love, so that both sides are more independent and add mystery. If you want to visit an art gallery, but your lover doesn't want to go, you might as well go by yourself, or you can add a little more self-love to your love. Get together with your friends and enjoy a "girl or boy night". Talking to friends about topics that you don't usually talk to your lover will enhance your independence.
5. Give your lover a gift to show your love. Everyone likes to receive gifts! You don't have to give gifts only on birthdays or Christmas. If you see something suitable for your lover when shopping, buy it, wrap it carefully and give it to your lover at dinner. My wife will be surprised. I appreciate your kindness and generosity. Give gifts in moderation, and don't give anything that comes to mind.
You should also live within your means when buying gifts. It is unrealistic to give your lover a red Mercedes, which will bring trouble to your finances.
Expert tips
"If you like romance, give the other person a gift as a surprise, or arrange a romantic activity full of surprises."
MFT MosherLarsen, PCC
MosheRatson, a marriage and family therapist, is a guidance and therapy clinic in new york, USA. Executive director of family therapy. He holds a master's degree in marriage and family therapy from Iona College, and has been engaged in this field for over 10 years.
MFT MosherLarsen, PCC
Marriage and family therapist
Tip: Maintaining love requires all your efforts. You can't expect love to heat up automatically, so try to make every day meaningful and romantic.
Making good use of words such as "please" and "thank you" can make people feel happy and have many benefits.
Warning: If there is still a lack of romance between you, and you think there is something wrong with your's love, you might as well see a counselor or seek professional help to solve the problem.