"I want to be a gentle person, because I have been treated like that by gentle people, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated like that."
There are always some people in life who will feel warm at first sight. In them, you will always find something that makes you feel comfortable.
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Be nice to others.
A netizen in Zhihu told her story:
She and her friend chartered a private car to go back to their hometown, and the baby suddenly cried on the road. She couldn't help it for a long time.
The driver silently drove the car to the service area and said, "You nurse!" I got off the bus.
In fact, this netizen is wearing a breastfeeding suit and will not go out when feeding the baby. Besides, she sat in the back row and didn't mind that the driver had to get off.
At that time, the sun was very strong, and the concrete floor in the service area was boiling hot. The driver stayed outside for half an hour, and he didn't get on the bus until his friend called him for the third time.
I would rather expose myself to the sun, but also leave room for others to protect their privacy. This kindness for others touched netizens.
Several colleagues in the unit live in the same community. Liu drives to and from work every day and often takes other colleagues with him.
Once on my way to work, I saw Liu's car in front of me, but it was driving very slowly. I wonder, Liu usually drives very fast. What happened today?
When I arrived at the parking lot, I saw my colleague Lingling get off the bus and suddenly understood why he was driving so slowly today.
Lingling has been pregnant for several months, and her stomach is getting bigger every day. Liu slowed down the car to make pregnant women sit more stable and comfortable.
We talked about this at lunch with Lingling. She said that she felt that Liu's speed had slowed down recently, and she felt quite warm in her heart. Another colleague who was riding with her kept praising Liu for his thoughtfulness.
Considering others is not only a kind of unpaid care, but also a kind of small wisdom, and that kind of shining wisdom can communicate the kindness of human nature and graft each other's warmth.
People who feel warm have these three qualities.
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Full of positive energy
Xiaoping is the most interesting girl I know. She used to be the front desk of the company. She is the first to come to the company every day, always smiling at people and starting everyone's day's work.
But behind this optimistic girl, there are stories that we can't imagine.
My parents divorced and my mother was paralyzed in a car accident for many years. She goes to the hospital to accompany her mother after work every day. No matter how busy and tired she is at work, she still smiles and chats with her mother.
On holidays, when many of us are reunited with our families, only she and her mother live in the hospital. Year after year, every mother's birthday and her own birthday, she would buy a big cake and take it to the ward to enjoy with her mother.
Such a sense of ceremony, she felt very necessary, she said: Life is not how many days you live, but how many days you remember. She thanked her mother for giving her life, so she tried her best to repay her mother and would not give up. She enjoys every day of her life.
In Xiaoping, I saw full positive energy, optimism, strength and progress, and she was also infected.