Chest development
Generally, at the age of 8- 1 1, the girl's chest begins to develop, the areola darkens, the nipple begins to protrude, and there may be slight protrusion when wearing clothes.
However, many girls are shy when they are just developing, and dare not directly tell adults that they need to wear underwear for development. Therefore, as a mother, we should pay more attention to her daughter's development and prepare underwear for her daughter in advance.
menophania
Menstruation usually comes at the age of 1 1- 15, so you can learn about menstruation with your daughter in advance.
Menstrual cycle, menstrual flow, sanitary towel use, etc. You can also help her put some sanitary napkins in her bag for later use. In addition, menstruation means that you have the ability to conceive, so you should pay special attention to improving your daughter's self-protection awareness ~
Hair (of human body and head)
During adolescence, because of the changes in hormone levels, some hair will begin to grow under the armpits and private parts.
This may make them feel strange, anxious and embarrassed to tell their families because it involves privacy. As mothers, they can buy some related books for their daughters.
Help her prepare for knowledge and understand the correct treatment, and don't be ashamed of this normal physiological phenomenon.
acne
Similarly, because of hormonal changes in the body, many adolescent girls also develop acne.
People who are particularly concerned about their appearance may feel inferior in the face of red acne. If they want to alleviate it, they can refer to these suggestions: stay up late less in daily life, pay attention to cleanliness, and minimize the intake of milk and sugar in sunscreen foods. If it is too serious, it is recommended to consult a doctor first.
Prepare the project
Many adolescent girls are embarrassed to say their needs in the face of physical changes.
Because everyone develops at different ages, if they are well developed, they can actually wear small vests, menstrual necessities, sanitary napkins, physiological underwear and other basic skin care products.
Such as facial cleanser, sunscreen and so on. Mothers should not think that they are still young. They don't need these things. In fact, you can listen more, respect their needs and help them get through this stage more comfortably ~
Timely guidance
Adolescence, because of the immature mind, it is often difficult to distinguish right from wrong on the internet and lack the vigilance of self-information protection. Out of curiosity, you may post some information.
Or it is more important to easily establish contact with strangers on the internet, give correct guidance in time, and let them learn to protect themselves in the network than to scold.
Understanding and companionship
Because development is faster/slower than others, parents don't understand, friends don't care, learning pressure is great, and so on.
Adolescent girls are also prone to emotional instability, and sometimes even cry for no reason, which may be incomprehensible to adults.
But many factors are beyond their control, so they may wish to understand more and accompany more.