On September 20 12, Teacher Zhang received a letter from a middle school student. The content of the letter is

Reason: 1, adolescent rebellious psychology; 2, the generation gap, the understanding of the problem is inconsistent; 3. Whether there is a problem with parents' parenting style; 4. There are problems in communication between the two parties.

Solve:

1, most teenagers in the rebellious period have these problems, whether normal or pathological;

2. Try to look at things from the standpoint of parents;

3. Actively improving the relationship between the two sides can increase some concern for parents and make them feel that they have grown up and are sensible, so they can rest assured and reduce their interference;

4, complain less, lose your temper less, learn to restrain your impulsive emotions and become a mature person;

5. To improve the communication between the two parties, various forms of communication can be adopted, such as oral communication, telephone communication, written communication and third party communication. Pay attention to listening.

6. Enhance the ability to control emotions and reduce the impact on study and life.