Couples in their twenties and thirties may not be able to keep sleeping in separate rooms for a few days, because both of them definitely want to end this state of sleeping in separate rooms as soon as possible, both in terms of physiological needs and marital feelings.
Couples after the age of 45 will definitely sleep in separate rooms, so can women persist after sleeping in separate rooms at this age? Will women feel lonely when they sleep in separate rooms for a long time? Are you worried about this relationship? A man who has been there told the truth.
"Of course I can insist."
Wang Yun, 45, "My husband and I have never been separated, and we have always had a good relationship. It turns out that we have been living in the same room. "
"About this year, sometimes we started sleeping in different rooms with him. In fact, our feelings have not changed much from the original ones, and there have been no cracks. The main reason for sleeping in separate rooms with him is that he has become too sloppy. After he reached this age. Don't take a bath, don't wash your feet, sleep and even start snoring. "
"I really don't want to sleep with him, so I sleep in a different room with him. At the same time, I warned him very sternly that if he didn't get rid of these bad habits, I would sleep in separate rooms with him forever. For a while, he changed, but then he made another mistake, so I continued to sleep in separate rooms with him. "
"Sleeping in separate rooms with him, of course, can persist, and our relationship will not be a problem. Just sleep in two rooms."
In Wang Yun's view, after the age of 45, if a woman sleeps in separate rooms with a man, she will certainly persist. Wang Yun thinks so because she and her husband have a good emotional foundation, so she feels that even if she sleeps in separate rooms for a long time, there is no need to worry about any problems in her relationship.
"I can't hold on"
Zhang Juan, 47 years old. Zhang Juan said, "From the first day I talked about love with my husband, I knew that he had a particularly stubborn temper. In fact, he is not bad. He is a good man and treats me well. He also works hard and is bent on making more money. However, he has a particularly bad shortcoming, that is, his temper is particularly stubborn. "
"To tell you the truth, at my age, my temper got bigger in menopause. At this age, my temper has become much bigger. We didn't quarrel much, so we started to quarrel. After the quarrel, we naturally have to sleep in separate rooms. "
"After I persisted for a period of time, I couldn't persist in sleeping with him in separate rooms. There is no other reason, just because he is stubborn. I think if I don't take the initiative to be nice to him, with his temper, he will be so deadlocked with me forever. "
"If we continue like this for a long time, things between us will really change, and our words will be less and less. After a while, we will become strangers. I know his stubborn temper. I don't know that he can't take the initiative to admit his mistake, so I can't persist. "
After Zhang Juan and her husband slept in separate rooms, she couldn't hold on, mainly because her husband's temper was too stubborn. Her husband's temper is doomed that he can't apologize to her on his own initiative, which means that if she doesn't take the initiative to be nice to her husband, then the marriage will become very bad.
"I think I can stick to it."
Wang Fang, 45, said, "For many years, my husband and I hardly slept in separate rooms because we really wanted to have a fight."
"But if we really sleep in separate rooms, I think I can stick to it. I think I must stick to it. Only in this way can I punish him. Sleeping in separate rooms is to punish him, that is, to let him know that he has done something wrong. If a woman can't persist, she can't achieve her goal. "
If a woman doesn't insist, her man will push his luck and his temper will get bigger and bigger, so the status of a woman in this family will get lower and lower. If a woman does not insist, it is equivalent to conniving at her husband.
In Wang Fang's eyes, she thinks that after the husband and wife sleep in separate rooms, the woman must insist. By doing so, she is punishing her husband. He thinks that by doing this, her husband will remember this lesson and won't dare to lose his temper with himself next time.
In fact, different women will have different answers to this question. Some women think they will insist, while others think they can't. At the same time, the answer to the length of time is definitely different.
As for whether or not to insist, a woman can make a proper decision by considering her husband's temper and personality, the depth of husband and wife's feelings and so on.