In addition to romance and passion, married life also includes many trivial contents, among which housework is the most important? Rich? The composition of.
Speaking of housework, I think many women will jump out and complain about the injustice of life. After all, most of the housework in life is undertaken by women.
A friend once mentioned her family life. Her husband comes home from work every day, either playing mobile phone or watching TV. When the meal was ready, he went to the table to eat, wiped his mouth and went on with his own business. He can't do any housework at all. He can't even play with his children or help them with their homework.
In this regard, friends often quarrel with their husbands, and husbands always say? Should women do housework? Reason, accusing this friend of being unreasonable. What is even more exasperating is that I will point fingers at my friends' labor achievements, either dissatisfied here or unclean there.
So, should women really undertake most or even all of the housework? Of course not. Many people think so because they are often misled by these three misunderstandings.
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The first type: men are outside and women are inside.
Many people in life are still suffering? Men are outside and women are inside? Influenced by traditional ideas, housework should be done by women.
It is understandable to say that decades ago, women had no social status and were confined to their own small families all their lives.
However, today's society is different from the past, and women are not confined to their homes. They have become an indispensable part of economy, culture and other fields, playing an important social significance.
In this case, on the one hand, women have to bear social responsibilities and realize their social values, on the other hand, they have to bear a lot or even all of housework, which is obviously unfair and unjust.
The second type: men are coarse and women are fine.
Men and women have their own advantages and disadvantages. We can't deny that men are often careless in housework, while women are more meticulous. But it is obviously unreasonable for women to take on more housework because they are more careful than men.
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We often hear some wives complaining. Why are you so stupid? Forget it. Let me do it. Is this it? Let me do it? Attitude, so that men will not do housework, over time has become a habit.
Everything, where did we come from? Can't do it? At first, after repeated efforts and attempts, it gradually became? Can you do it? , finally arrived? Do it well? The point is. So when husband and wife are dealing with housework, shouldn't they hug each other? Can work hard, can't work hard? Attitude.
The third type: women are diligent at home, which is a sign of love.
This wrong idea is often more likely to be committed by women. In their eyes, women do housework, keep their small homes in order, be good wives themselves, and prevent men from spending too much time and energy on family chores, which is a sign of love for men.
What marriage needs is a kind of balance, and too much effort by either party will lead to disharmony in marriage. If a woman regards hard work at home as a sign of love, she may eventually lose her original love because of it.
Because people often have some bad habits, such as inertia, such as numbness. If women are too diligent, men will naturally become lazier. If women just keep giving, men often regard it as a habit, don't understand women's giving, and even become numb to such love.
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In married life, housework is not a woman's? Patents? Don't be misled by these three misconceptions!
In the face of numerous housework in marriage, both men and women need to share responsibilities and contribute to this small family. Only in this way, life will be full of fun and our feelings will be closer.
And those couples who share housework, boring family chores will also become a kind of fun in the family, which will make them trust and rely on each other more in cooperation and make their marriage happier and more willful for a long time.