When a woman has a child, the child becomes everything to her. The child's joys and sorrows are all in her heart, and she is worried that he will not have enough to eat, sleep well or play well. I can't watch the child be wronged by a vertex.
A woman's promotion to mother is an unspeakable pride, pride and satisfaction. I hope I can spend more time with my children and don't want to miss every minute of their growth.
Every little progress and change of children, mothers are so happy that they can't wait to share them with people they know and don't know at once. I think this is also the reason why many women like to bask in the baby now!
As for why there are so few men drying babies, it's because mom is the one who takes babies, and dad basically doesn't take babies, so naturally he doesn't have so many feelings.
Personally, I think it is understandable that women like to bask in their children, just like soldiers bask in their own trophies. But if women like to bask in their sons, I think there are the following factors:
First of all, family members prefer boys to girls.
Some women have a special preference for their sons because their families prefer boys to girls. Coupled with the family atmosphere, I always want to share my favorite things with you, and I can't help basking in my children.
Second, in the eyes of mothers, their children are the best.
Before I was married, I met my married colleagues who worked together. What they talk about most is how is your husband? How is the baby? Wait, I've been immersed in the Excellence of my children all day. At first, I despised them myself. However, after I got married, I soon followed in their footsteps and sunbathed more and more fiercely. I always think my children are the smartest and the best.
Third, children are the center, life is boring, and drying children is spiritual sustenance.
Some female friends have stopped working and caring about social affairs since they gave birth to children, but while raising children, life will be boring and there will be no spiritual sustenance. So they can only bask in their children and find the meaning of their existence and the joy of life in everyone's praise.
It is not a mother's patent to bask in the sun for her children. People who like sunbathing also have relatives of their children, but sunbathing should be moderate. Just don't bask in children's privacy online, including their school, name and other information. Take care of the children, starting with us!
It's normal for women to like drying their children. After all, their baby is getting happier and happier anyway. Children are the continuation of life, the future of the family and the hope of life. Everyone has too much unspeakable joy for children, and an inexhaustible emotional love is pinned on them.
Children's dribs and drabs always make parents feel moved and happy. Children can walk and climb mountains. The children are wearing beautiful clothes today. Children are both sensible and naughty. Finally, parents will want to talk and express their desire to bask in too much emotion. It's just that some people love in a subtle way. All love is buried in the bottom of my heart and I don't like to send it to the circle. But the love of parents is irresistible, so there are so many children, especially mothers, who like to bask in their own children. This is a natural maternal expression.
Therefore, respecting and caring for children, after all, sending them away is the backbone of the family and the future flower of the motherland. Learning to praise and praise caring children is the most impolite way. Whether it's our own children or MengMeng's cute, dignified, strong, or silly elves who look after other people's children, finally, there will be too much pity and love in our hearts when we grow up. This is called the beginning of life, human nature is good, and human instinct!
May be thought that the birth of a son will have a backer, China's traditional thought is that boys are preferred to girls, Sun's son may be to show off his son, some inherit incense, and some Sun's son is to show off his handsome son.
Seeing this problem, I can't help but open my sister's circle of friends. Ha ha ha, I really can't help laughing. To this end, I specifically asked my sister why they love drying their children so much. They told me: that's because they have children. This passive forced marriage is also a bit ridiculous, and I will not cater to their complaints.
So they told me, the first reason: actually, drying children is just like seeing delicious food meet beautiful scenery and making friends. Nothing special, but sending too much makes people feel a little disgusted. But they don't care about this antipathy, because in their view, children are never tired of seeing beautiful scenery and delicious food.
Another reason is that they are not keen on sunbathing. In fact, it is also a sustenance of their feelings. They are recording their own lives while recording their children. After all, children are a very important part of their lives. In the past, due to the lack of electronic equipment and the underdevelopment of the Internet, some important times and events in their lives were not recorded in time, so they didn't want their children to be like themselves when they were young. When they grow up, they can only recall the happy words of that childhood through memory. And this kind of memory will always become more and more blurred with the passage of time, and finally there will be deviation.
After listening to my sister and them, I think what I said is somewhat reasonable. These things that have nothing to do with us are actually a very important part for them. Therefore, if the dynamics of drying children bring us trouble, I think it can be selectively shielded.
Finally, I wish all the friends who saw the answer less troubles and more happiness in life, and hope that the epidemic will pass soon. I am a love of life, pay attention to emotional answer, look forward to your attention and interaction.
With the opening of the second child, almost every household has children, and sunbathing has become a common phenomenon.
Open the circle of friends, the screen is full of dolls, overwhelming photos and videos, all of which are masterpieces of madmen.
My friend dog is a real sunbather.
When the baby is born, you should take a photo and circle your hair. When children cry and laugh, when they poop for the first time, when they wet the bed, when they take their children to eat, and even when they bathe naked. Clicking on her circle of friends is almost always a baby's figure. From those photos and videos, we can see the child's growth process at once, and even know what her child ate and did today.
Whether parents want to record their children's growth or show off, this high-frequency and privacy-free way of drying babies is likely to annoy others, and even give some people with ulterior motives an opportunity to put their children in danger.
When children grow up, some photos involving privacy will become a handle for others to laugh at.
Over time, children's self-esteem will be hurt and become insecure.
These are all things that parents don't want to see.
Because my husband can't get the sun.
Maybe it can be explained by nature. Every child is a mother's treasure. No matter whether it is beautiful or ugly in the eyes of others, it will always be the cutest child in the world in the eyes of mother!
Motherly love is gentle and powerful, and mothers are willing to give everything for their children, even if it is life in danger. Therefore, taking photos of children in a circle of friends and sharing their daily happiness will also sprinkle water and rain in Mao Mao.
There is another reason, which is also a main reason for sunbathing children's daily life, that is, recording and leaving traces. Record the bits and pieces of children's life, leaving some traces of growth for future reading and review. This is actually quite meaningful, and it is also the original intention of many mothers to send friends.
I will also be a little troubled to see those "sunbathing maniacs" in my circle of friends. Obviously, those children are not cute, and the content they send is nothing unusual. Why do they have to screen all day?
At that time, my circle of friends was still wonderful. The beautiful photos of travel, the beautiful scenery of life, the feeling of life and the interesting things of work seem to be very fulfilling every day, so I made up my mind in my heart that I can't become like them in the future. There is no life except children.
Women like to bask in the sun, just as men like to show off their military medals, which are all bought with their lives.
Giving birth to a child is like a game of breaking obstacles, and it is a game with only 1 life. When the game is over, it is completely over. Since last year, more than a dozen friends around me have become mothers. Among them, some can't get off the operating table at the time difference of delivery. Emergency rescue of massive hemorrhage; Caesarean section hurts ten fingers, and finally because the fetal condition has not improved; There are also many people who suffer from stitches because of vaginal tears.
Not to scare unmarried young women. The real childbirth experience around us is really painful, but the duration and feeling of pain are different. The kind of woman who gives birth to a child in ten minutes, or in the toilet, in the car or on the main road, and it is easier to give birth to a child than to lay an egg, only lives in news reports.
So every mother who successfully gave birth to a baby is amazing!
Sometimes it may not be because I like it, but because there are only children left in my life.
Actually, it doesn't matter what you bask in. Just do what you like.