"The terrain is vast, and the gentleman carries things with morality." The Book of Changes means that a gentleman should bear everything like the earth and be generous and tolerant. We can all experience this in our daily life. For example, some people are generous, which makes people feel like spring breeze, while others are petty, which makes people avoid them.
This is the bearing capacity, pattern and virtue of the heart.
The ancients said: "Only those who have virtue can be blessed, and those who serve many people without happiness will hurt themselves." Only when a person's "virtue" is deep can he be qualified to bear more blessings. Woe to you if you enjoy too much happiness without thick virtue. We often see such examples, the name is not true, and the morality is not true.
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Each of us wants to have a good life, a successful career, a happy family and many beautiful things. For example, doing less or not doing work can make more money every day; For example, outstanding talent, amazing charm, attracting many beautiful opposite sex; For example, there are many cars, houses and tickets, as well as beautiful, smart and promising children, with a double harvest in family and career, social respect and personal happiness. ...
In this regard, I just want to say that you think so beautifully.
All the gifts given by fate have a price behind them. Nothing in this world is smooth sailing and something for nothing. From ancient times to the present, we have only one truth: if you want something, the best way is to make you worthy of it.
This is the fundamental avenue of life, and virtue is the foundation. A man must have a deep foundation, a deep foundation, and then he can have endless happiness.
A figure with a thousand dollars must have a wealth of several thousand dollars, and a wealth of several thousand dollars must be a figure with several thousand dollars. Heaven should be skillful and virtuous.
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Cao Wangde, the "king of glass", said that when he was a child, his father told him a truth, "It is a good thing to say everything well, applaud more and give people confidence." Only when a person can accumulate virtue can he be blessed.
Later, Cao set up a factory to start a business. He pays attention to "being lenient with others" everywhere, and never makes things difficult for his partners, so that the other party can get reasonable profits, which makes others willing to cooperate with him. Treating employees, Cao also sincerely cares about their interests and future. He pursues that suffering is bliss and tries his best to help employees tide over the difficulties. Not to mention the society, everyone knows that Cao has invested heavily in public welfare undertakings and is one of the best companies in China.
People like Cao, just like his name, are all benevolent lovers, and those with virtue are bound to prosper. He said that what he left to his children was not wealth, but character. We also believe that those who cherish virtue will be blessed.
Moral cultivation is influenced from childhood. Cao believes that whether a family is an official, a businessman, a student or a doctor will affect the career of the younger generation.
He said that ethics should be emphasized in any industry. As long as you respect heaven and love others, do not violate dogma and make public anger, then your virtue can be established. Virtuous people in the world will get more help from Tao.
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Therefore, the secret of success lies in "attaching importance to virtue", but don't understand that accumulating virtue is just doing good things casually. You know, "accumulating virtue" starts with yourself.
"Loss of appetite is the cause of illness; If you think wrong, you will be killed. " The ancients said, "Forgetting the machine can destroy it, but ignorance can be ominous." Peace of mind, and then you can realize the sinister world. Harmony can eliminate people's grievances and endure disasters. "
This tells us that there are gods three feet above the head, and self-cultivation is the fundamental. If you don't pay attention to eating, you will get sick, and if you think too much, it will hurt your health. For example, people with too smart organs often "miss your life." Therefore, there is no way to deal with fortune, but people call themselves.
Adults often feel the malice of the world. Hume said: "Malice is a desire to hurt others for no reason, and the purpose is to get happiness from comparison." In this regard, we first restrain our thoughts and desires, and then let ourselves have the ability to help others.
Helping people is not the same as giving people money. "Humble interests are full of losses." This is helping others to help themselves (people should know how to resolve malice), and some people take pleasure in "envy, jealousy and hatred", which is harmful to others and themselves.
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"Treat personnel day, than increase. Husband is just stingy, which means early service; The early service is called thick accumulation and thin hair; The re-accumulation of virtue is meaningless; If you can't do anything, you can't know its extreme; I don't know its extreme, you can have a country; The mother of a country can last for a long time; That's deep-rooted and timeless. "
Being stingy means cherishing and cultivating. These words in the Tao Te Ching tell us that practice is the foundation, and that only by being sage inside and king outside and accumulating profound virtues can we be in an invincible position and last forever.
Some people may say that there is no money and no ability to help others now. When I get rich, I will naturally help others like Cao. I want to tell you that you have got the order wrong. Jide doesn't mean that when you have10 million, you will take out10 million for charity. Accumulated virtue means that you help others first, and then you will have 10 million blessings.
Of course, if you want to earn10 million, you need opportunities and abilities, and luck will help you. Helping others is not just the patent of the rich. Don't they stop helping people when they have no money? "Say good things in everything, applaud more, and give people confidence. This is the accumulation of virtue. " The so-called "goodness" means practicing at any time and place.