Introduction: People’s inherent concept is that “nine out of ten men are philanderers”. It seems that the label “philanderer” belongs to men. In fact, women are also very carefree. Throughout the ages, there have been many women who were carefree, such as Pan Jinlian, Wu Zetian, Princess Shanyin, etc. Otherwise, why so many girls like to read heroine novels or movies and TV series? It shows that girls are extremely eager to have many beautiful men in their hearts. So, are men more fickle or women more fickle? Men or women are fickle.
Regarding the question of whether men are fickle or women are fickle, strictly speaking, there is no overly uniform answer. Because throughout the ages there have been very playful men, such as Chen Shimei, but there have also been extremely devoted men, such as Huang Taiji and Shunzhi. In the same way, the same is true for women.
However, women also have to admit that to a certain extent, they are more "careful" in their hearts, but this kind of playfulness is more focused on being called "passionate", which is more appropriate and serious. It means "sentimental" or "love-minded".
Playfulness is not just for men: women are sometimes more playboys.
It is said that men are playboys and women are single-minded. In fact, this sentence is wrong. Although a man can say "I love you" to many people, a man will only truly love one person in his life, only one. What a woman needs is someone who cares about her, loves her, can rely on her, and protect her for the rest of her life. When she meets a man, she will love her to the death and form an eternal alliance. As time fades, sometimes everything seems so fake.
Due to various reasons for separation, she will no longer remember him, or she will not remember him so deeply. When she meets a better man, she will compare the two people, and she will feel that she is lucky to have met the better man. In fact, how does she know true happiness? She must know that being loved is the happiest thing.
But men are different from women. When he truly falls in love with a woman, he will never love any woman again. Even after this relationship fails, he will keep this memory in his heart and this woman in his heart, not in his heart, but in his heart? The innermost, most hidden place in his heart. No matter how many women he gets along with in the future, he will clearly know who he loves the most. No matter how good the women he meets in the future, he will not change. Men are sometimes single-minded animals.
A woman will compare him with others, this or that, but a man will not. Because the woman in his heart is his pillar, he will not compare her with anyone else. He thinks this comparison is stupid. He will only love her for the rest of his life. The woman in my heart is forever hurt and will never be healed.
Once a woman changes her heart, she will become extremely heartless.
Once a woman changes her heart and no longer loves your man, she will become extremely heartless. Unlike men who still think about being friends with each other after a breakup, if a woman doesn't love you, it would be good if she separates from you and doesn't become an enemy with you. Once a woman changes her mind, she will block almost all of her WeChat, QQ, and phone calls after the breakup, and will no longer pay attention to any of your updates. Also, everything that belongs to you will be thrown away, and you will be completely avoided talking about you in life, even a certain word in your name, etc.
When a woman falls in love with someone, she can be heartbroken and humbly lose herself. However, when she doesn't love someone, she will be as heartless as a stranger. A woman who has changed her heart is almost impossible to win back, and she will never stay easily because of your weakness and pleading.
What a woman needs is someone who cares about her, loves her, can rely on her, and protect her for life. When she meets another man who is good to her, she will change her heart faster and it is easy to get involved. The arms of a man she thought was better.
There is a fine line between being flirtatious and being dedicated: the more flirtatious a person is, the more dedicated he or she is, and the more dedicated a person is, the less sentimental he or she is.
Many times, we say that a person is flirtatious or is Specificity is actually based on his appearance.
You will say that a person is a playboy because he often goes to nightclubs and asks girls out; you will also say that a person always keeps photos of his girlfriend in his wallet and never leaves his girlfriend without saying a word when talking to others. I think he is dedicated. But, is this actually the case?
In fact, sometimes there is a thin line between carelessness and single-mindedness. It is said that Xu Zhimo is devoted to Lin Huiyin, but he has not abandoned his first wife Zhang Youyi and is dealing with Lu Xiaoman, but he is also the famous "philandering cousin" written by Jin Yong.
Just because a person is devoted to another person does not mean that he will not be interested in other people. Generally speaking, single-mindedness is the exception, and playfulness is the norm. How can there be so many people in the world who are single-minded and dependent on each other for life and death? Even if there is, it's just the single-mindedness they show you, the dependence of life and death they say. What you don't know is the indifference and carelessness that are covered up by dedication and affection.
Love is like a battlefield, and the soldiers inside are extremely cruel. The single-minded image of victory in war is glittering and eye-catching, making people forget that victory in war is always accompanied by brutal killings and countless cannon fodder. Don't blame him or her for being fickle, you just became a cannon fodder in his love.