Why do women cry?

I'm afraid no one has made this question clearer than a French woman writer: tears are a woman's greatest defensive weapon; Tears are a powerful weapon for women to turn setbacks into victories; Tears are women's resistance to incompetence; Tears are a woman's only reliable refuge. Tears are a bitter but gentle comfort to women. Tears are the most touching beauty products that women use to wash their faces and make their faces radiant ... how well this is said! Some people think that tears are a sign of pain, and women who cry are poor women. This idea is too naive to stand scrutiny. Life tells us that there are too many situations that lead to tears, and pain is only one of them that is not frequent; Life will let us know sooner or later that those who don't know how to shed tears or have no tears to shed are the real poor. Women often don't cry because of pain, nor do women feel sorry for themselves because of tears. Tears are an indispensable part of a woman's nature. Their tears are prepared for joy, pain, reunion, farewell, grievances, understanding, empathy, disappointment, enthusiasm, ruthlessness, climax, low tide, marriage, divorce, happiness, misfortune, a cloud, a lost bike, and participation in a fund-raiser, so they missed a month's bonus. Therefore, when you face a tearful woman, don't feel anything wrong, and don't ask her why. You just need to know that she is crying because she is a woman. Or she was a woman, so she cried. Of course, women also have the difference between crying and not crying, and should not be generalized. Strangely, when men choose women, they often make endless comparisons: beautiful or not, tall or thin, black and white, poor or rich, kind or bad, and so on, but few men make such comparisons: crying or not crying. In fact, this is the important contrast, because the eyes are on a woman's face, which is the eternal source of tears. For a man, he can't compare which kind of woman is more worthy of his love. Crying is naturally annoying, but a woman who doesn't know how to cry is also boring. If you face a crying woman all day, few men will not go crazy or commit suicide; If a woman's eyes never shed tears, few men will not feel that they have lost most of their tenderness and love. How annoying it is for women to cry and grab the land! How touching a woman's tearful cheeks are! For men, the more important question is whether to trust women's tears. Yes, Moscow doesn't believe in tears, but all men are not Moscow. As women, how do they estimate the role of tears? Sometimes she feels that tears have softened a man's heart, but in fact, her tears have completely angered him; Sometimes she will cry from the heart, ready to give up all relationships with men, but make men unwilling to break up with her. In short, there is no universal law or reason to believe or not to believe in tears and to think that tears are useful or useless. It is important to understand that human beings are the only animals that can laugh and cry. Laughter is often equally divided between men and women, while crying is a woman's patent. Don't men cry? Of course, all fools know that men who don't cry don't exist. But why do men cry much less than women? Is it really because men's feelings are not as fragile as women's, or their lacrimal glands are not as developed as women's? Actually, it is not: men are sometimes more vulnerable than women, but when they face their own psychological pressure and grief, they often take other ways: women cry and men sweat. They will vent these factors that make women cry in a more primitive way. At the same time, men don't cry because of the background of social education: girls are allowed to cry since childhood, while boys are considered "useless", which will naturally make men learn to cry in their hearts when confirming their social roles. However, remember: when a man is willing to cry in front of you, you must occupy a very important position in his heart.