On the second day after my mother died and was buried in 20 12, an uninvited guest came to the funeral scene in our hometown village. My mother left the gate, and all the chores in the yard were done by this uninvited person, including tearing down the shed and cleaning up all the garbage in the yard. Finally, we gave people 20 yuan and two boxes of good cigarettes.
On this matter, I just want to ask, how much are these twenty dollars and two boxes of good cigarettes? To tell the truth, it's really not much! If you are in the city, after the funeral, you go to the bridge and find a migrant worker to help you clean up the remaining garbage. I can't get down without 200 yuan, but it happened in the countryside. Besides, this uninvited person is called "Tang Mingfu". Although he is in good health, his brain is not enough. Frankly speaking, he is a half-fool. As long as I meet Tang Mingfu on the street in the village afterwards, I will definitely give it to him.
In fact, in rural areas all over the country, most villages have such a figure. Relatively speaking, there are some weddings and funerals in the village. We really can't play without such uninvited people. For those who can't take care of themselves, we just add an extra pair of chopsticks. Even if people from other villages come to say hello uninvited, the villagers are warmly entertained, not to mention. And help with odd jobs. In this case, I understand a truth. I have something at home. I sincerely hope that there will be more uninvited people like Tang Mingfu in our village. Moreover, starting your own business requires popularity. Similarly, for some people, if they really want to run a business in the village, they can't invite other outsiders!
The "uninvited" here should refer to two kinds of people: one is to help and the other is to make a living. These two kinds of people are everywhere.
In our family, the red wedding has to wait for the notice, and the white wedding comes uninvited. Every family has to go. If the family doesn't go, his family will pay for someone.
Farmers come uninvited for weddings and funerals. Because there is a custom in our country, no matter who does things, whether it is a happy event or a funeral, a group of people will go by themselves, with or without gifts.
Some people go out to work and have to ask for leave to come back. Why? The rule of our village is that everyone has something to do, everyone has old people and children, everyone has happy or white things, and everyone has something to do without courtship.
For example, a son gets married, a daughter gets married, and there are children, grandchildren and people in a team. Generally, men help more, and women will give more gifts when they go.
If nothing happens, people from our team will bury people from our team. This is the rule. We don't need to invite anyone to do anything. That's good. It's not like some places have something to call. Are you there?
Weddings and funerals should be separated. Wedding banquets include wedding banquets, birthday banquets and full moon banquets. Generally, few people come uninvited. Some people bring friends to congratulate them. There is no such thing in the computer. I haven't found it in my village yet. The old man died in vain, and some people came uninvited. The word uninvited is hard to say, because people will die and someone must take care of the aftermath. According to the saying that relatives, brothers and uncles in rural areas are too sad to take care of too much work, villagers must help each other. If people come to your house to help, they will die next time. Brother Nong must help, and help is not for nothing. At least 30 to 40 yuan plus the death of villagers, each household pays money to donate to the main family. This is because villagers help each other, and human nature is not ruthless.
There are many people in rural areas who do white weddings uninvited, because rural people have the customs of rural people, and the older generation values human feelings and loyalty. They have laid down the rules. Life exists in society. No matter which family has an old man and an old father and mother, the old man will need help to deal with the aftermath when he dies. Therefore, after the death of the old man, there is no need to visit the filial relatives. As long as he hears the news, he can volunteer to help his filial family.
In the future, similar things will happen in your family, and others will return the favor and take the initiative to come. Therefore, if there is a white wedding in the countryside, you will encounter the phenomenon of uninvited.
Of course, this kind of thing happens more in one's own surname and also in one's own surname. In any case, the spirit of mutual assistance in rural areas is still valuable in one's own surname, and there is also the phenomenon of uninvited arrival, which embodies the fine tradition of China people attaching importance to human feelings and loyalty. This good tradition of attaching importance to feelings and righteousness should be carried forward.
Weddings and funerals in rural areas are all uninvited, just to make money, and now they want red envelopes (ranging from 30 to 50 to-100). They are all eloquent, and when they are happy, they will praise their host family for marrying a good daughter-in-law. Your proud daughter-in-law is like Chang 'e, looking for thousands of things to enter the palace, the phoenix falls into the golden house, and the golden wall is bright and rich, adding to the mouth. The host opened his eyes wide and was elated. He thanked him again and again, ate well and served well, sprinkled enough food and got a red envelope, and went back with great interest.
In the past, there was always a scenery when weddings were held in rural areas. During the dinner, Baliren enjoyed the patent for the rich to enter the club. Some people come uninvited, and now you are sitting at the table with meat, wine and rice, singing familiar country tunes in your ear.
This trend arose when the market opened after the reform and opening up. The cultural station in the town even gives them industry licenses and collects management fees every month, calling them rural cultural artists.
It was very popular at that time, and some people held weddings and funerals, and invited artists with better talents to entertain them. To say that the income of artists at that time was quite good, there was a female artist who sang popular songs very well and was rewarded with hundreds of dollars every day. She took the lead in building an enviable small building in the village.
Some people are greedy for artists to "get something for nothing", so they made up a joke:
A couple of cultural artists had a drink in a bar, but they didn't know what to drink. They urged each other to drink, saying, "drink, drink!" Don't care about money. Anyway, all our money was lost by those idiots. "
When the artist sings, the diners are in a hurry to lose their tips, and some even lose ten yuan. )
This little joke glides across every corner of the country like autumn wind, and doesn't throw money at artists like a cliff. Poor artists no longer have glory.
Their reputation plummeted, restoring their impression in the minds of people in the old society-drunkards, and only occasionally someone gave them two pennies during the dinner.
In this way, this industry has returned to the begging industry, and the clothes of cultural artists have been mercilessly stripped by the world, pitiful! Now there are only some lazy people, carrying a fishing drum, playing a rotten erhu, smelling the banquet in the country, and begging for some cold wine and food to muddle along.
Yes, there are some in almost every town. If he comes, he can still represent happiness here. Give him some sugar and a cigarette when he meets a happy event. Speaking of white things, give him cigarettes and pour him wine. But he is usually arranged to eat at a separate table for fear of conflict with others. As far as I know, he is still very sensible. He walked over and walked away!