In real life, men in China are relatively introverted because of their growing environment, and they are used to expressing their love in their own approved way, rather than the so-called romantic way. Moreover, for men in China, there are too many things to do in life. Sometimes it's not that they don't understand romance, but they just don't have time for romance.
Everyone has his own romantic way, and we usually don't know much about other people's romance.
As a man born and raised in China, I feel that I am not romantic enough. I will love the person I love in the way I think is right, but I rarely do something in the romantic way that everyone recognizes.
Candlelight dinner with lovers is romantic for everyone, but I prefer to integrate love into three meals a day; Holiday surprises are considered romantic, but I prefer to always make the person I like laugh in my life.
Because of different personalities, everyone expresses romance in different ways. Romance in our eyes may be vulgar in others' eyes, while romance in others' eyes may also be considered indifferent in our eyes.
Men in China have too much to bear, and they are too busy to be romantic.
For men in China, bringing home the bacon seems to be a natural responsibility. Before starting a family of their own, men in China need to work hard to make money, prepare for buying a car, a house and a bride price, hoping that their love will not fall down in front of material things.
After getting married, the pressure of mortgage and car loan makes China men a little tired, and the life after having children is even more stressful for China men. It's hard to survive the children's growth stage, and parents have entered the old age. Supporting parents is also the bounden duty of China men.
At the same time, children have reached marriageable age, so it is natural for men in China to help them get married and buy a house.
Because there are too many things to do in this life, men in China are really busy and hardworking all their lives, so busy that they forget romance and are only willing to face life in their own way.
No one can replace others in life, and no one can really understand the inner romance of a China man. Whether you think they are romantic or not, deep down, they all take growing old with their loved ones as their lifelong pursuit.