Men with high IQ are more dedicated and single-minded, while love rat looks smart, but actually lacks wisdom and rules. They wander among the flowers and look happy, but in fact they are consuming themselves. They are incapable of loving a person and will not maintain a long-term relationship.
When choosing a partner for the rest of her life, any woman wants to choose a man who is loyal to her other half for life. Even though her financial strength is almost irrelevant, sometimes no woman has long eyes! If the choice is wrong, the woman who can bear it will bear it, and the woman who can't bear it will go their separate ways.
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Xiaohong (a pseudonym) is an out-and-out Beijinger with outstanding looks. He has a job in a state-owned enterprise with a monthly salary of 20 thousand. There is a billionaire's husband named Xiao Jian (a pseudonym), who is a businessman, not a super rich man, but also a rich man. When they first met, Xiao Jian was very considerate and attentive to Xiaohong, but two months after their marriage, her husband cheated on her. There was a time when Xiaohong found that her husband came home late every night, and she began to doubt him.
Once Xiao Jian said he was on a business trip for three days, but Xiaohong didn't say anything. Xiaohong followed him secretly and saw that he went to a five-star hotel instead of the airport. When she saw it, she didn't attract Xiao Jian's attention. She followed him until she reached the front desk of the hotel. She found Xiao Jian's room number as Xiao Jian's wife.
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Xiaohong is a very sensible person. She thought that if she knocked on Xiao Jian's door and saw him with another woman, both sides would feel embarrassed. She didn't even knock at the door. She waited for Xiao Jian not far from the room. She thinks so. When he comes out to take some photos as evidence, he can also break up peacefully.
When Xiao Jian went out, sure enough, Xiao Jian and another woman came out of the room. Although this is what she expected, she doesn't want it to be true, but there is nothing she can do. The facts have been laid before her. She took some photos in dismay.
In fact, no woman wants to see her husband cheating and doesn't want to get divorced. For example, the fact that Xiaohong's husband cheated is conclusive, and Xiaohong is determined to divorce her husband.
At the time of divorce, Xiaohong didn't ask her ex-husband to give her the property (Xiaohong didn't value money very much), but went out clean. Two days after the divorce, Xiaohong made an appointment with some friends to travel abroad. After the trip, she still lived the life she should live, which did not affect her life, but it was a relief for her. She knew it was not too late for such a love rat to see his true colors. After all, they have no children!
Yes! The above-mentioned Xiaohong's handling of her husband's affair is rational and correct. She didn't cry, let alone make trouble. It's that she saw her husband's real affair and chose to break up and leave, but those stupid women didn't. It is not enough to toss yourself to death, but also make the other side more complacent.
Summary:
Cheating is not a patent for bad men, but for good men, so when you meet such a man, don't kill him with a stick, you can try to give him a chance and stay together if you can change. Decades of relationships are not easy. Sometimes you don't have to take it too seriously when men cheat occasionally. -Cold
In the face of her husband's infidelity, every woman has a different understanding and view. Some women choose to forgive, and always feel that men have cheated, and they can change in the future. There is no need to choose divorce. Some women choose to divorce, always feel that men betray themselves, and it is not worth forgiving for such unfaithful men, so they choose to divorce.
Every woman has a different definition of marriage, especially infidelity. No matter how she treats it, just feel happy.
Thank you! * * * Encourage!