In our life, we often encounter some unpleasant things. I feel overwhelmed at work, and I often feel restless in my life. Even if you sleep, you can't sleep well.
You will find that the more you want to escape, the more you will appear. The ancients often said, "When you come, you will be safe." Now that these things have happened, we should face them frankly.
How to "be safe when you come"
In fact, in our real life, few people can really achieve "peace when they come." Everyone's life is made up of thousands of trivial things, which are handled one by one every day. When it comes, it is safe. Since it happened, we should face it frankly. Then let me talk about how we should face it!
Don't give up easily
Let me share a short story with you first. A ship sank in the storm. Only one person on board survived and all the others were killed. The only survivor was not happy at this time, but even more sad.
He expects someone to save him every day, hoping that a miracle will come to him one day. But it seems that everything is not as simple as imagined.
The survivor felt that he could not wait any longer. Since God left himself, he should live well. So, he began to build his own house, but just as he had just built it, he was full of joy when the accident happened again.
When he was out looking for food, a sudden fire destroyed his house, which made him feel very desperate, but it was because of this fire that he was reborn!
A big ship came this way from a distance. He asked excitedly, "How did you … how did you know I was here?" "We saw smoke rising here and thought that there was probably someone here who needed help." The crew answered.
At no time should we give up on ourselves. Life always closes a window and opens another door. What you lost will come back in another way. Therefore, don't give up easily, always keep an optimistic and indifferent attitude, and everything that comes will come one by one.
Don't complain
Lin Qingxuan once said: "Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, always thinking about one or two things, not thinking about eight or nine, and everything goes well." We always envy other people's lives, thinking that they have a happy marriage, a happy life and filial piety. As for ourselves, life is a mess, and people around us give you trouble from time to time. But when we look back at people during the war, what you have now is not the tomorrow that those who passed away yearn for?
Therefore, everyone and everything must have a reason. Pay attention to safety when you come and treat everyone and everything around you with gratitude. Only in this life will you be fearless and worthy of yourself.
Overcome fear
Mark Levy said in his novel The Shadow Stealer: "Only when people learn to overcome their fears and face the reality can they grow up".
He told an ordinary story of a boy growing up in a humorous tone. These stories are so ordinary that each of us may experience them all our lives, but when these things are combined together, they can often arouse our voices, as if our own growth experiences were passing before your eyes.
In fact, what many of us are afraid of is not the thing itself, but the inability to overcome our inner fears. Perhaps, you can try to relax yourself and face all this calmly and objectively, and you will find that it looks fine and not so terrible, and your heart will be relieved a lot.
Let it be.
The phrase "peace when we come" seems to mean that when we arrive at a place, we must stay here, don't be distracted and feel at ease. In fact, extension is to warn future generations that when you face life's disappointments, you should look down on everything and accept it calmly.
We should learn to face life calmly. The more you try to understand many things, the more confused you will become. Therefore, my son wants to avoid it and promote it. Just let nature take its course.