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As we all know, beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.
A long time ago, someone asked, would you rather fall in love with the same person or Gao? After fully affirming Xiao Song's interesting soul, netizens unanimously chose Daniel Wu.
Everyone draws a conclusion from this that skin is the most important, followed by abdominal muscles and bones, and there seems to be no soul in the reference factors of object selection.
But when you think about it, the problem itself has problems. Besides good looks, Daniel Wu has many connotations, OK?
On his deathbed, the playboy Wilde lamented that there are many beautiful faces in this world, but few interesting souls. Wang Xiaobo once said that life is long, and you should be with interesting people.
But what kind of people are really interesting?
With all due respect, people who laugh and talk about history on stage really don't necessarily make life interesting when they get home.
Interesting, you don't have to talk about poetry and songs, you can feed the horses and enjoy the oil and salt, or you can enjoy the flowers facing the sea; Interesting, not only the fields in the distance, but also the bodhi tree growing from the concrete floor. Seeing the mirror table on the kitchen stove, it is an ordinary life but never lasts.
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The love between online celebrity Heiwei Sauce and poet Li Dan is a combination of beautiful skin and interesting soul recognized by netizens.
Someone said, "I really envy Li's birthday for finding such a beautiful girlfriend with black tail sauce, and I also envy him for finding such an interesting boyfriend with black tail sauce." But Li Dan said, "She just covets my beauty." Look, interesting people never admit that fun is their own bright spot, but everyone can't help laughing when they open their mouths.
Li Dan, a fashion model for Black Tail Sauce Taobao Store, was rated as the ugliest seller show in history and the only model that made the buyer show look more authentic than the seller show.
On Li's birthday, the most famous Weibo said, "People can be happy. Cheer up, friends. This world is not worth it. "
A person who can make everyone happy, who can refuse and who can not like it?
Black Tail Sauce published a picture of Weibo, "Laugh and eat with people you like."
There are more than 10 million people in the world, but there are really few people who can make you laugh even when you eat. Some people are naturally dull and boring, and some people always make you take rain with pear blossoms.
People who even make you smile when eating can naturally make the rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea no longer boring, and a handful of green bristlegrass can smell the fragrance of roses.
"Little monk, I heard that you like me?" "I don't know if I like it or not, just seeing you will be chaotic."
"I heard that you still want to marry me?" "I don't know if I want to get married, but I just want to be with you forever."
This is a fragment of Li's early works before his birthday became famous. Deep thoughts, delicate feelings, shallow happiness.
The world is really bitter, only you are a strawberry. Interesting soul, you will know how wonderful it is when you meet it.
The well-known happy marriage between Qian Zhongshu and his wife is not only because of Mr. Yang's "wife and mother", but also because of Mr. Qian's interest.
She kept a cat, but he prepared a long bamboo pole. No matter how cold it is, he leans against the door. Hearing the cat meowing, he quickly climbed out of the hot bed and took out the bamboo pole to help his cat fight.
She fell asleep while writing a post, so he dipped in thick ink and wanted to draw her a big painted face. Because her face is not easy to clean, he changed it into a portrait, put on glasses and grew a beard, and had fun.
This is not like a great writer, but a naive child who likes pranks.
With interesting people, he looks like eight years old, and you look like eighteen.
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Of course, just as beauty is not a woman's patent, fun is not just a man's trait.
I saw an experience shared by a netizen on the Internet before:
"Because I was in a bad mood at work, my girlfriend ran over and asked me what was wrong. I was very upset and said, you women don't understand about our men ... when she heard this, she turned and left. I thought she was angry and just wanted to comfort her. I didn't expect this silly girl to stagger out of the bathroom, draw a beard, stand on tiptoe, hook my shoulder and pretend to be a man. After looking at each other for a few seconds, we all laughed and rolled on the ground, and all the smog in our hearts was dispelled by her. "
How lucky it is to fall in love with such a girl, get married and have children.
Interesting souls are externalized in women, which is generally manifested as love to laugh.
When Jordan chan talked about his relationship with Cherrie Ying, he said, "I have always liked girls who love to laugh, but I have never met the right person. I don't like talking very much and I don't like laughing very much. After knowing her, I laughed a lot and felt quite interesting. "
Serious and gloomy "Pheasant Brother" met Cherrie Ying, an aunt who loves to laugh, so there was a scene of "You are joking, I am laughing" at the concert, and a small persimmon pepper warmed the hearts of countless aunts like Jasper.
An interesting soul is to find the most extraordinary happiness in the most ordinary life, so that you can accept the bumpy road on earth, or keep looking forward to the future and walk hand in hand with it through mountains.
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We don't deny the role of appearance in love. Love at first sight is mostly attracted by appearance. But this attraction is usually short-lived, even a momentary heartbeat and fever.
People's aesthetic fatigue determines that you cannot secrete hormones to the same skin forever. This is why love rat, love rat, obviously has a beautiful wife or handsome husband at home, but also attracts bees and butterflies outside. In addition to the essence of slag, but also because they only pursue sensory stimulation rather than three views consistent.
Even beautiful skin has a shelf life. If he/she just fell in love with your youth and beauty at first, then he/she will leave you later, because he/she fell in love with the youth and beauty of others.
Of course, what I am talking about here is purely skin-friendly, excluding those inner beauty groups such as intellectuality, dignity, temperament and elegance.
Luck never comes to a beautiful person. No one will keep an empty vase all his life. Unless it is a priceless historical relic, or it can accommodate beautiful flowers.
We often say that a love begins with the five senses and is loyal to the three views, but many people ignore the importance of an interesting soul.
Imagine that both of them have delicate facial features and correct views, but their personalities are dull and rigid. Then their emotional foundation is stable, probably conventional and boring.
In real life, love and marriage, except sudden death, are mostly trivial killings.
And the interesting soul is undoubtedly the lubricant when love and life run in. Love can be soaked in rice, oil and salt as new, moving forward in trivial matters, and living a different day in ordinary days.
I have read such a passage: when you like someone seriously, you are most afraid of becoming boring. I can't wait to finish reading 300 chapters day and night. I can't wait to cut myself open for you, read all the interesting stories and romantic stories of unofficial history, and learn all the sweet words and witticisms for you. I was full of "I'm super funny", "I'm so funny" and "Look at me".
The interesting other half is enough to make you spend the rest of your life plain and not mediocre. Of course, you can also make yourself interesting.
The so-called fun here does not mean going to a full house to have fun and make everyone laugh, like Jia. Instead, we can maintain childlike innocence, curiosity, dedication and exploration spirit through reading and traveling, and cultivate them the day after tomorrow.
Draw a dragon with five senses and three views, make the finishing point with interesting soul, and make love lively and meaningful.
How important is an interesting soul in love? I can give you nothing but happiness. "I just want to be happy."
Like, you mean so much to me.