Why?
The "visible world" reflects the "invisible world"
It's like a mirror, both inside and outside.
People in China like to read faces and palms, and believe that "each phase comes from the heart".
Chinese medicine pays attention to expecting to hear and ask questions.
Psychology analyzes inner activities by studying a large number of people's external behaviors.
All kinds of schools believe that the external and the internal are inextricably linked, and people can judge the invisible world hidden behind them through the visible world.
Your environment is a reflection of your inner state.
Whether it is a desk or a room, or your mobile phone or computer, they are not messed up by themselves, but by the people who use them. In other words, environmental chaos is actually the embodiment of inner chaos.
Inner confusion is often due to lack of self-management. These puzzles will make you feel like dragging an iron ball, and procrastination is the inevitable result.
In addition, just like you do an action outside the mirror, you will do the same action in the mirror, and the outside world can influence the inner world.
The chaotic environment outside will make people more confused and less confident.
In that case, why do so many people choose to delay and continue to mess up?
For running away.
Starting to clean up the outside world also means starting to clean up the heart and start self-management.
However, it also means fighting against their lazy representative-monkey brain, but growing up is more painful, so some people choose to escape, and they choose to continue to be confused and procrastinate.
But you don't want to do this anymore, because it feels really bad.
So, this will be good news: when the visible world becomes better, so will your invisible inner world.
By the same token, at a critical time, people with chaotic environment are also full of laziness and confusion behind ta, and even things that can't speak without thinking can't be managed well.
How to manage more complicated people and things? Including yourself.
You may agree that the environment can change the mind.
So how to bid farewell to chaos?
You can say goodbye to chaos if you want.
Do you mean "lost things"?
Yes, but this is only the meaning of the word "give up", and "get" has many contents. We'll talk about it later. Let's take a look first.
If there is only a picture of Einstein, a desk lamp, a chair and a bed in your room, will it be a mess?
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If your wardrobe only has 3 shirts, 4 pairs of pants and 4 pairs of socks, will it be messy?
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This room belongs to Jobs. Without sundries, there will be no distractions, and the essence and beauty can be discovered.
This wardrobe belongs to Sasaki Fumio, the author of Amazon's best-selling book We Don't Need Things anymore. Without so many things, there will naturally be no difficulty in choosing and life will be easier.
Thoreau, a famous American scholar, wrote in the super bestseller Walden Lake:
The more a person lets go, the richer he becomes.
This is his experience after living alone in a lake house for 2 years.
If a person can meet the basic needs of life, he can enjoy life more calmly and fully.
We don't need much, but we want too much.
Give up what you don't need, and the chaos will naturally disappear.
How to judge?
Not difficult. What you have used recently is what you need. Most things that haven't been used for a long time are redundant. But some things may be used later.
Remember the 28 th principle once said?
The objects around you also conform to this principle.
What you really use only accounts for 20%, but it meets 80% of your needs.
In other words, this 20% project alone is enough to cope with your life.
Most of the other 80% items are redundant, and most of them are used in the remaining 20%.
That makes sense, but it is also necessary to know the price you pay for this 80% waste.
If your sewer is blocked, you can't brush your teeth and wash your face, wash dishes and wash clothes, or even flush the toilet. Just because the sewer doesn't move, the whole family will be paralyzed and unable to operate.
What do you think of such a thing?
Disgust, irritability, right?
If you are constipated, will you be upset, because your body is blocked and you can't work?
An enterprise has an index called "inventory turnover rate". If you look at the statements of listed companies, many will disclose this information.
A well-run enterprise has a high inventory turnover rate, which means that its products circulate quickly, sell well and do good business.
This is the same as eating in a restaurant. The better the business, the higher the turnover rate, that is, several waves of guests can be changed in one night.
Whether it's your sewer, your intestines, the company's inventory, or the restaurant seats, do you want them to work well? Of course. So what is this "good operation"? It's "good luck"
And stopped, things don't, moldy. What is that? Bad luck.
Good luck can bring you good things, good mood, and bad luck can bring you many things.
The first one is mold, of course.
If things are not used for a long time, it is inevitable that dust will fall, mold and mites will be born. Fresh things may be more obvious and will rot.
But for inanimate objects, long-term use is tantamount to zombies.
Everything is born of use. You can't get a healthy life in a room surrounded by mold, corruption and zombies.
The second bad mood.
Unpleasant is inevitable, just like sewer blockage, constipation, traffic paralysis and unsalable goods. No one will be happy about the jam.
Rooms and wardrobes full of sundries, like them, are stagnant water. It's hard to be happy living in such a room.
Not only unpleasant, but also full of resentment and pressure points. If you turn things into people, 20% of the things you often use are like your favorite concubines. You need them and cherish them.
And that 80% of the sundries are like concubines that you ignore. They may have been favored by you once or twice in the past, and then they will never see you again. Doesn't it resent it?
Yes, just like you can't be happy when you see them, it's all injustice. A room full of grievances are pressure points, and you can't relax in such a room.
I can't feel happiness. A person can only feel happiness if he is surrounded by people, things and things he loves.
Third, you need to pay extra energy and time to clean them up.
If you don't clean it up, you will fall into the strange circle mentioned above, and the more you drag it, the more chaotic it will be.
Do you want all these? You may not want it.
How to deal with it specifically?
Change only takes three steps,
You can quickly become an orderly environment.
When the environment changes and you are surrounded by the remaining 20% things you really love,
Your heart will light up, and procrastination will be self-defeating.
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