Depression is not a disease, but it is really boring. But then again, who can have no worries? To exaggerate, survival is trouble. The desire for a trouble-free world and survival is precisely the root of deep-seated troubles. This is not helplessness.
Satire is a portrayal of real life. Overcome excessive innocence, overcome weak romance, abandon the beautiful feeling of narcissism, face the reality bravely, treat troubles as dust on your face and dirt on your clothes, wash them at any time and keep them clean. Isn't this wisdom and happiness? Trouble can only be solved by spiritual strength, not by self-indulgence, self-indulgence, when trouble accumulates day by day, it will produce a depressed knot. This kind of depression will make your mind in a state of drifting, and your thoughts can't be sorted out, just like a person walking in an endless desert, bumping aimlessly, and may eventually go to self-destruction. Therefore, we should have a good attitude towards boredom and don't have to take troubles and depression too seriously. In fact, boredom is also a kind of tempering, a kind of comparison, a kind of coupling, a process of accumulating experience, a test of our own character, cultivation, talent and will, which can let you get something that you can't get in other ways.
In the face of boredom, the only practical way is to set up your own spiritual ambition. Mr. Lu Xun said: "People should have a little spirit." "If you are poor, you will change your mind, and you will never lose your ambition to achieve success" is a kind of spirit; It is a kind of spirit that "those who are determined not to drink the water from the stolen spring are not subject to the food they get"; "Make great efforts to govern" is a kind of spirit; "The three armed forces can win the handsome, but ordinary men can't win the ambition" is also a kind of spirit. How to build a spiritual pillar, how to build one's own spiritual carrier, and how to reshape one's spiritual appeal depends on oneself, because long-term disheartened and habitual troubles are enough to make people wither in poverty. Freeze yourself in a state of striving for progress and arrange your life to be full and compact, then you will never feel depressed again, and a full life will leave you no extra time to worry.
When there is no road, it is unfortunate to wait for death; It is also unfortunate to walk blindly when there is a road. It's unfortunate to complain about your depression all day without changing anything at all; More unfortunately, I have been deeply bored, but I am still numb. What kind of person you become depends entirely on your choice. Toes are closer to the sun, avoiding boredom and getting closer to success.
Although the word "depression" is popular now, few people can explain it clearly. So, what is "depression"? The word "depression" has no inventor, and it doesn't matter whether it is patented or not. Just a vague but true definition of "pop songs". The dictionary defines "boring" and "uncomfortable". But after all, this is a dictionary explanation, which is primitive and not popular. At present, the popular "depression" is what people often say-"work is boring; No work is boring. Money is boring; No money, right? It is so boring. Falling in love is boring; Don't talk about love, boring ... "Anyway, boring, boils down to" alive, boring; Not alive,
And boring. "Oh, everything in the world is so boring and boring. How can it not make people feel "depressed"?
How did "depression" come about? Actually, it's all a state of mind. A person who complains, complains, complains and feels that everything is unsatisfactory, then he must join the group of "depression". However, if a person feels that life is boring, so he always shouts "depressed", it's nothing, because it's just a person's suffering. It happened that "depression" was highly contagious. Several people get together to talk about "depression", and the influence of depression is immeasurable. Nowadays, ordinary young people don't have much correct understanding of life, life and society, and then rendering in this atmosphere will lead to ideological deviation. No, that's not right, so the dance academy can't get rid of the entanglement of "depression" anymore.
Some people's "depression" is rooted in an unbalanced mentality. They always feel that society is unfair to them, that they are useless heroes, that tigers fall flat and rivers are bullied by dogs. This kind of person is quite common, and I'm not sure what kind of person the society needs, but I still don't know in my heart. I always feel that I am an "abandoned child" of society. Just like a "kite" hanging in mid-air, if you let him fly higher, he will not get up, so he can return to the ground to be a man in a down-to-earth manner, but he is not reconciled. What caused it? In the final analysis, it is to put the relationship between individuals and society in the wrong place, and only let society accommodate itself without reforming itself. If you want to go your own way, you will hit a wall everywhere, and you will only be "depressed" in the end. There are also some people who are "depressed" for "depression". They think that "depression" is very fashionable, and it is impossible to reflect the flavor of the times without "depression". In fact, he doesn't know what "depression" is at all, just following the input of others.
Whether you can get rid of "depression" depends on whether you really want to make life interesting. There are many interesting things to do in life, but depressed people always observe and evaluate with "boring" colored glasses, so any interesting things will become boring. A person lives a full life because he can find his own position and enrich himself. Therefore, "depressed" activists should re-examine themselves, straighten out the relationship between individuals and society, and face life with a positive attitude, so that they can find that life is colorful, rather than "depressed" as imagined. Society is a palette, from which everyone can find the color that suits him, so as to realize himself. However, it is not so easy to realize yourself. You need to make a lot of efforts, but the most important thing is that you should first integrate yourself into society, be out of tune with society and hate everything. There, arrogance and narcissism are impossible to get social recognition.
I can't say too many profound reasons about "depression", because it is just a feeling after all. Whether everything in the world is good or bad depends on how people understand it. Is this a bit idealistic? No, everything exists objectively, and good or bad is only the evaluation of this world. One thing is good for some people, but it may be bad for others. Is there a social standard? Of course, the problem is that if a depressed person refuses to recognize social standards, he will believe in himself and his feelings. There are too many meaningful things in life that he can't feel, or feel the opposite. Can this not be "depressed"? I think, after all, feeling can't replace reason. We should learn to look at problems rationally and analyze them. Besides, feelings are determined by personal values. Are your values correct? It is not enough to rely on one person's will. If a person's values are divorced from the value trend of society, mistakes will occur. Therefore, revising personal values is a rational choice to get rid of "depression" and fight against social division. How can we correctly understand society?
I don't think depression is an incurable disease. As long as you are willing to get rid of "depression", deny yourself and surpass yourself, you will find a brilliant new world.
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