First, it can be settled through consultation.
Communicate well first and popularize relevant legal knowledge with each other. After marriage, the property of both spouses belongs to the same property. You can show him the daily expenses at home and tell him what the money will be used for. You can let him buy what you need to buy at home. You can also ask him to take out a certain percentage of everyone's salary for home use, and the rest will be used as financial investment and part of it will be spent. If you still don't give it to your family after communication, you can sue directly.
Second, to the people's court.
1. If you don't divorce, you can bring a lawsuit to the court and ask for the division of husband and wife's property. Prepare identity documents, including the indictment, and the corresponding documents to go to court for prosecution. During the marriage, the same property includes:
(1) Income from labor services and property purchased by one or both spouses during the marriage relationship.
(2) Property (such as dividends, interest, bonuses, etc.) acquired by one or both spouses through inheritance, bequest, gift and other legal means. ) during the marriage relationship.
(3) the economic benefits obtained by one or both spouses from intellectual property rights during the marriage relationship. Such as patent right remuneration, writing remuneration, etc.
(four) income from production and business activities such as contracting and leasing by one or both spouses.
(5) Creditor's rights obtained by one or both spouses during the marriage relationship.
(six) during the marital relationship between husband and wife, the demobilization fee and job-changing fee earned by retired soldiers who have been married for more than 10 years shall be regarded as the joint property of husband and wife.
(7) At the time of marriage registration, the gifts and giveaways given by one or both spouses shall be recognized as the joint property of husband and wife.
(eight) the property obtained after marriage, which is managed and used by the husband and wife in two places respectively, shall be recognized as the joint property of the husband and wife.
(9) If the property before marriage and the property after marriage cannot be ascertained, it is presumed that the property of husband and wife is the same. That is to say, a husband and wife dispute the ownership of a certain property, unless the party claiming the right presents strong evidence, it is generally regarded as the joint property of husband and wife.
According to the law of our country, both husband and wife have the right to deal with the income during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife, and the specific situation will be punished by the judicial organs.
2, divorce, divorce proceedings can be filed, requiring the other party to divide less or no property.
When a husband and wife divorce and divide their property, they shall abide by the following provisions:
(1) The property of both husband and wife is divided into the joint property of husband and wife and the personal property of one party. When divorcing, only the joint property of husband and wife is divided, but not the personal property;
(2) How to divide the marital property * * * is given priority by both husband and wife through independent consultation, which can be equally distributed or unevenly distributed. If negotiation fails, a lawsuit can be brought to the people's court, and such cases shall be under the jurisdiction of the courts of the domicile and habitual residence of both husband and wife;
(3) When dividing property, husband and wife should take care of the innocent party, wife and children's legitimate rights and interests.
legal ground
Article 1066 of the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC) stipulates that during the marriage relationship, one of the spouses may request the people's court to divide the property:
(1) One party conceals, transfers, sells, damages or squanders the property of the husband and wife, or forges the debts of the husband and wife, which seriously damages the interests of the husband and wife;
(two) one party has a legal obligation to support the person who needs medical treatment because of a serious illness, and the other party does not agree to pay the relevant medical expenses.