Women's infidelity in marriage is a hot topic at all times and in all countries, so it is also common in masterpieces. As far as I know, there are Meggie the Thorn Birds, Anna Anna karenin, Gone with the Wind Scarlett, The Scarlet Letter and The Bridges of Madison County Francesca. And of course Emma, the famous Madame Bovary.
We want to make some excuses for his betrayal. Before reading Madame Bovary, I did my homework on the choice of its translation and decided to read Mr. Zhou Kexi's translation and avoid Mr. Li Jianwu. It is said that teacher Zhou's translation is soft. Yes, from the beginning, my heart hoped to forgive Emma. As a result, I watched and understood all the way, but the more I watched, the more I hated her. It was really a rare reading experience for me.
A woman's marriage is a gamble, and her chip is the rest of her life. Some people are willing to lose gambling and choose numbness for their children; Some people are unwilling to choose to fight for themselves; Some people are too soft-hearted and choose to make sacrifices; Some people have faith and choose to stick to hope. But whether it is numbness, struggle, sacrifice, persistence, all this is worthy of respect, even if it contains the throb of marriage feelings. Emotion is an unpredictable thing. A paper engagement can control nothing, but it defines a responsibility. The difference between fantasy and reality Wan Li's spiritual gap is everyone's and nobody's patent, but how to face it varies from person to person.
Women are innocent when they are beautiful, and it is a disaster because there are beautiful and intelligent women without brains everywhere. Never put the cart before the horse when looking for a problem. Emma is beautiful, knows a little about quality life and has enough talent to deal with communication, but she was born in poverty. The starting point is important, which is the first step of human destiny, so Emma's platform is low. For the poor, the only way to change their destiny is to rely on their own efforts, and the goal of efforts is not to find someone to rely on, but to make themselves strong. Emma only looks forward to the charm of powerful people, but never asks herself why.
Why are the heroines who betrayed their marriage in those famous works forgiven? Because their husbands are cold, because they suffer too much, because they need love. It is true that they will also encounter moral condemnation, but they will all let go in the end. However, Emma, you cheated again and again for the sake of spiritual and material enjoyment. You cheated with all your lies. It's a good husband who wants to hold you in his hand and keep you warm in his heart. Everyone is selfish, but everyone should have a conscience. When conscience disappears, people are no longer people. Death is Emma's only relief, but it finally cost Charles his life, which is the biggest pain in my heart.
I always thought it was a crime to bully honest people. Charles is a poor man. He has lived a passive life all his life. Emma's appearance is his light of hope. He tried every means to make this woman happy, but she ate him up. Emma, the world owes you nothing, and you don't deserve anyone. Raising you to a great old father, a husband who regards you as a treasure, an accommodating in-laws, a daughter who can't live without you, and one close relative after another can't compare with a magnificent curtain in your heart. Emma, you really deserve to die
Women can have many lifestyles. Love is not an excuse for making mistakes, and regret is not the fundamental reason for re-selection. If you evaluate yourself clearly, you may know what should and should not be. (From the female book club, slightly modified. )