First of all, clarify one thing. Domestic violence has nothing to do with race, educational background and occupation. From a gentle doctor to the son of a prominent family, it is possible to be a domestic violence man. Domestic violence is not the patent of workers and peasants! We should get in touch with each other's families and family members before we get married. This is the most important opportunity to examine this person. We can observe from the following aspects: 1. Are there any old people at home (grandpa, grandma, etc.)? ) Health and longevity, and what is their mental state? The health and longevity of the elderly means that there are longevity genes in the blood of the family. The spirit of the elderly is optimistic and comfortable, which means family harmony and filial piety to parents. Only when the elderly are physically and mentally happy can they live a long and healthy life. If a woman has a high position in the family, her son is less prone to violence, and if her mother likes you very much, you can hardly meet a domestic abuser. Look at his usual attitude towards himself. If he shows loyalty by abusing himself in front of you, he will abuse you in the future to make you show loyalty.
There is also a high degree of education, which provides camouflage for domestic violence. Education is not the solution to domestic violence. Men with higher education may be more secretive about domestic violence. To put it bluntly, call out of sight. However, I can still swing my fist. "It's not right to hit people". In fact, people who can't read know it! Usually men can control their emotions. If he often loses his temper with you because of a little thing, or even throws things, then you should seriously consider such a man. Because they may abuse you because they can't control their emotions after marriage.
Is it possessive? As a man, he is more or less possessive of the woman he loves, but the degree of this possessiveness is more or less. What will happen if he can't accept you chatting and sending messages to any opposite sex? After all, people have social attributes, and it is impossible not to have any language contact with other men all their lives. Another, the domestic violence man may be a great person in the eyes of outsiders. They are not psychopaths. They only evaluate themselves and think they can do it. Maybe it's the pillow man.