As a girl, how can I win the respect and pursuit of others? I think, she should have aura, elegant temperament, kind and humble personality, capable and rigorous work style, a set of her own goals and arrangements, never let others pay for her mistakes, and don't have to work hard to change herself for a man. It should be a successful woman with economic independence and independent thinking.
Yes, in real life, there are indeed many women who seem to have married a good husband without working hard. This is why everyone says that studying hard is better than getting married, but these are just examples. I don't think anyone wants to keep a lazy man as a lifelong companion. Often this kind of marriage will have problems. Even if the woman is practical at home, she will still lag behind her husband's continuous progress, and she is likely to be misunderstood by her husband, so there will be cracks in her feelings. At this time, if there is another third party, I think this marriage will face a big problem. Therefore, a woman must have her own financial resources and cannot rely on the support of the other party, so that she can live in her seemingly warm infancy all her life, but she is out of touch with society and does not want to conform to the progress of the other party. Every progressive person will not wait forever for those who stand still. You have to understand this truth.
Nowadays, there are more and more strong women and white-collar workers. Their life is to live for themselves, and they are happy when they have feelings. They have their own financial ability to support themselves, and they work hard and will always be pursued by many people. My fair lady, a gentle gentleman, independent and advanced in thinking, and brand-new in pursuit have made many men feel their own shortcomings. Their quality of life is good, but their marriage is not good, but they study well. They are constantly studying hard and practicing in actual combat.
What you strive for will always belong to you, and what you get through others' efforts will always be others' patents, so only by working hard can you have a better life!