The so-called solution is to face the problem, solve the problem, think about all the problems in a positive way, put them in the sun and start talking. Usually everyone will talk about you behind your back. There are two main situations.
1, these people talk about you as a topic. They just talk through hearsay, just to spread rumors. As for the real situation, it has nothing to do with them. In this case, you can make things public, seeing is believing, show your generosity, and talk about the matter and help them solve their doubts. When things come out, even if you let them talk, they won't talk.
People with ulterior motives deliberately fabricate some words and deeds that are not conducive to your competition in order to hit you. The reason why they dare to use this bad way of competition is because they know that you won't care about this, so they want to beat you in this way.
At this time, the most correct way for you to deal with it is to speak out directly in public so that everyone can understand what happened, so that these rumors will be self-defeating, attack the enemy from the front and give yourself a prestige.
Second, ignoring the law.
Everyone has his own ideas, and you can't make everyone support others. At this time, the best way to face rumors is to strengthen your own strength. Ignore all rumors, anyway, the mouth is on others, say whatever you want!
Then what we have to do is to improve our ability and focus on the improvement of our ability. When you climb to a height that these commentators can't reach on their own, those rumors will be broken.
Wang Jun, a post-90s programmer, was looked down upon by many colleagues when he first arrived at the company, saying that he came in by connections and enjoyed the cool by leaning against a big tree. Wang Jun paid no attention to this. A year later, the program developed by Wang Jun won the first prize in a competition and applied for a patent, which was commended by the city. His colleague's jaw dropped when he talked about it.
Third, fight poison with poison.
Fight poison with poison, from the article "Dropouts". Yuan Dynasty pottery "Bone Duh Rhinoceros": "Bone Duh Rhinoceros, snake horn, its nature is toxic, but it can detoxify, and cover it with poison to resist poison." Using vicious means to deal with vicious means is a metaphor, which is what we usually say: deal with a man as he deals with you.
In the workplace, when people generally know that they can't compete with related people, they always say in a sour tone: "They are relatives of the Wang Bureau. Who are you? " Although there is no reliable evidence to prove this relationship.
If you don't want your competition to be so unequal, you can fight poison with poison. If you can say, "As for Wang Ju and liuchu, they are all relatives of my family. Be nice to me in the future."
The more you publicize your relationship with this exaggerated momentum, the more you can reduce people's trust in the network you are talking about. Such a result will only make these rumors self-defeating