1. Write 10 sentences about suggestions
1. If you are in a bad mood, I suggest you listen to music and play ball to divert your energy
< p> 2. You are in a good mood. It is recommended to communicate more with friends and family to express feelings.3. Your hair is long, I suggest you cut it shorter
4. Your hair is short, I suggest you keep it longer
5. Your hair If you are hungry, I suggest you go for a meal
6. If you are full, I suggest you go for a walk
7. Your shoelaces are untied, so I suggest you tie them before taking a walk
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8. Your shoelaces have not been untied yet, it is recommended to untie them before slipping on your shoes
9. You are in good health, it is recommended to keep them
10. You The battery of your mobile phone is about to run out. It is recommended to charge it. 2. Be good at soliciting children's opinions. Related verses
When you are young, your spirit is patented. When you grow up, your thoughts disappear; you must educate yourself early and don't miss the opportunity. also.
Northern Dynasties·Northern Qi Dynasty·Yan Zhitui's "Yan's Family Instructions·Encouraging Learning" Patent: Concentrated, Dispersed: Dispersed. This is why Yan Zhitui emphasized the importance of early education.
●The godmother first comes to teach the baby. Yan Zhitui of the Northern Dynasties and the Northern Qi Dynasty "Yan Family Instructions: Teaching Children" It is best to teach a daughter-in-law at the beginning of her life, and to teach a son well when he is a child.
●The foundation of the world is at home. Han Xun Yue's "Shen Jian·Government" states that the foundation of the world lies in the family.
●Love his son, choose a teacher and teach him. "Teacher's Theory" by Han Yu of the Tang Dynasty If you love your child, you must choose a teacher to educate him.
●A hundred years of life, established in early childhood education. Liang Qichao of the Qing Dynasty's "On Preschool Education" said that a century of life is based on the education received in childhood.
●If a father is good at teaching his children, he will teach his children well. Song Dynasty Lin Bu's "Saving Mind Record" Children: Infants.
Those who are good at educating their children must start from a young age. ●The foundation of a strong nation lies in nurturing children. Children must be wise and open-minded before they can surpass others.
Qing Dynasty Lin Shu's "New Yuefu in Central Fujian" Nurturing Meng: Education and Enlightenment. ●A little success is like nature, and habits are common.
"Da Dai Li Ji·Bao Fu" Habits developed in youth are like innate habits. Once they become habits, they are difficult to change. It is pointed out here that education at a young age is extremely important for later growth.
●Talents are developed from childhood. Qing Dynasty Chen Hongmou's "Yang Zheng Yigui > Preface" begins: Beginning ●Being frugal in one's life, and educating one's children in a righteous way. Zhu Bolu's "Family Governance Motto" in Qing Dynasty is: the conduct of one's own life and behavior.
Yi Fang: Certain standards of morality and thought and behavior. ●The beloved son taught him the right way.
"Zuo Zhuan: The Third Year of Yin Gong" Love children and educate them on the rules and regulations that they should abide by. ●To love one's son but not to teach him is as if he does not love.
Ming Dynasty Fang Xiaoru's "The Precepts of Doing Good" is still: still. It means loving children but not neglecting education.
●Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans. "Warring States Policy·Zhao Ce" If parents love their children, they must make long-term plans for their children.
●If you love someone in a wrong way, you will do harm to someone who loves you. "Zi Zhi Tong Jian" says: Morality and righteousness.
Suitable: Exactly. Not loving a person morally is harming him.
●A gentleman should love his children without respecting them, lead them without respecting their appearance, guide them with the way but without force. "Xunzi: A Brief Introduction" A gentleman loves his children without showing it on his face, handles them without eloquent words, and uses reason to induce them without forcing them to persuade.
●Wise men and wise men are to be treated by their descendants. They should be strict with ambition, not harsh with deception; encourage them with righteousness, rather than persuade them with deception; show them frugality, never show luxury; encourage them with words, Don't waste money on it. "Qianfu Lun·Li" by Wang Fu of the Han Dynasty: Wise people and knowledgeable people educate their children and grandchildren, always encourage them to be determined, rather than teach them with sweet words; persuade them to be upright, rather than engage in treachery; model them to be thrifty, rather than engage in treachery; Give them luxury by example; give them instruction, not possessions.
●Children are free from any preconceptions and miscellaneous things. They should be guided correctly and they will not be disobedient. Therefore, they should be nurtured properly. Ming Dynasty Wang Yanxiang's "Ya Shu·Part 1" Meng: ignorance.
Childhood refers to the period when children are ignorant.
●Today, when teaching young children, it is appropriate to induce them to sing poems to inspire their will, guide them to practice etiquette to maintain their dignity, and teach them to read books to enlighten their consciousness.
Ming Dynasty Wang Shouren's "Exercise Meng Carelessness" satirizes: advice. ●If you teach children today, they will be encouraged and encouraged, and if they are happy in the center, they will be unable to make progress.
Ming Dynasty Wang Shouren's "Exercise Meng Carelessness" cannot stop: it will not stop. ●When it comes to educating children, the first step is to organize the family, and the second step is to choose teachers.
Ming Dynasty Lu Shiyi's "Si Cai Lu Ji Yao" Volume 10: Rectification. ●When children are young, if their parents teach them wisely, they will become more wise in the future; if they are too generous, they will become unworthy.
Children: the period of childhood in "Xunziyu" by Zhang Luxiang of the Qing Dynasty. Future: in the future.
●There is no greater happiness than reading, and no greater peace than teaching children. "Historical Qu·Yuan Ti Collection" to: the most.
●Love must follow its own path. Qing Dynasty Zheng Xie's "The Second Book of Weixian Shuzhong and Shi Dimo" requires methods to cherish children.
●There are no virtuous fathers and brothers inside, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, and there are very few people who can succeed. Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty recorded the words and deeds of famous ministers of the Song Dynasty as: becoming a talent.
If you want to achieve success, you must have a good father and brother at home and strict teachers and friends outside. ●To teach your children, you must take the lead.
Volume 10 of Ming Dynasty Lu Shiyi's "Si Cai Lu Ji Yao" teaches his son that he must take the lead in doing it himself. ●Everyone wants to be kind to his son, but he doesn’t know how to cultivate himself, so he is confused! Zhang Luxiang of the Qing Dynasty, "Ying Xue Ji" People all want to educate their children well, but they don't know how to start from me. This is really confusing.
●If your children do not obey the teachings, they will definitely fail to teach them the right way. As a father, brother, and teacher, you should do what you want, and you cannot fully blame the children. Qing Dynasty Zhang Luxiang's "Memo 1" follows: obey.
Ask yourself instead: reflect on yourself. ●The mother deceives the son, and the son does not believe in his mother. This is not a lesson.
"Han Feizi·Wai Chu Shuo" The mother deceives her son, and the son does not believe his mother. What kind of tutoring is there? ●If parents are majestic and kind, their children will be cautious and filial.
Yan Zhitui's "Yan's Family Instructions: Teaching Children" of the Northern Dynasties and the Northern Qi Dynasty is majestic: it has the awe-inspiring courage and strict requirements. Compassion: Kindness.
Weishen: fearful and cautious. ●Filial piety, loyalty and trust are the teachings for people, and propriety, justice and shame are the values ??for families.
●A virtuous mother makes her son virtuous.
Han Ying Han Ying's "Han Shi Wai Zhuan" Volume 9 A virtuous mother will educate her children to learn well. ●If the descendants are virtuous, they will not be rich, but if they are not virtuous, they will be resented.
Han Dynasty Wang Fu's "Qianfu Lun·Li" If the descendants are talented and virtuous, they do not need to have a lot of wealth; if they are not talented and virtuous, having too much wealth will only attract resentment. ●Those who are partial to favor, even if they want to treat them favorably, will end up causing disaster.
Northern Dynasties·Northern Qi Dynasty·Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions·Guiding Children" If you favor your children too much, it may seem like you are giving them preferential treatment, but in fact it is more harmful to them. ●There is no medicine that can prolong your life, and it is difficult to buy wise children with money.
Yuan·〈Enemy and Creditor·Bangzi》Extension: extension. Qing: In ancient times, "Qing" was a title used by kings to ministers and elders to juniors. Friends and couples also used "Qing" as a term of endearment.
Xian: Good moral character, also refers to many talents. ●If the father is not like the mother, the son will not know what to do.
Song Qi's "Miscellaneous Comments" No: This is not the case. Ran: That’s right.
This means that if parents have different opinions on educating their children, then the children will be at a loss and the educational effect will be very poor. ●It is unbearable for a loving mother to have a prodigal son.
The kind mother gave birth to a prodigal son in "Salt and Iron Theory·Zhou and Qin" by Huan Kuan of the Han Dynasty. The reason was that he could not bear to be disciplined strictly since he was a child. ●Love is too kind, and worry is too diligent. Although it is said to be loved, it is actually harming it; although it is said to be worried, it is actually hurt.
Tang Liu. 3. Articles or poems that ask others to accept opinions are urgently needed in ancient times
Articles such as:
Qin Li Si's "Book of Remonstrance and Chasing Guests",
Zhuge Liang's "Jie Zi" in the Three Kingdoms "Book",
"Chen Qing Biao" by Li Mi in the Western Jin Dynasty,
"Ten Thoughts on Admonishing Taizong" by Wei Zheng in the Tang Dynasty.
Poems such as:
Wang Wei of the Tang Dynasty "Sends off the Second Envoy of the Yuan Dynasty to Anxi"
The morning rain in Weicheng is light and dusty, and the guesthouses are green and the willows are new.
I advise you to drink a glass of wine and leave Yangguan in the west without any old friends.
"Golden Threaded Clothes" by an unknown person in the Tang Dynasty
I advise you not to cherish your golden threaded clothes, but to cherish your youth. If there are flowers, you must break them straight away. Don’t wait until there are no flowers.
"Magnolia" by Yan Shu of the Song Dynasty
After the death of Yan Hong, the orioles returned, and they carefully calculated the myriad of emotions. How long does it last for a long time? Scattered like autumn clouds with nowhere to find.
Wen Qin Jie Pei, the immortal couple, can't keep the Luo Yi after breaking it off. I advise you not to be a sober person, there should be many among the drunken flowers. 4. Sentences about suggestions
They like to say "I never go to that kind of place", "I never think about that kind of thing", "I never make friends with that kind of person". They think they have principles, but in fact they are just afraid. They are afraid of "change." They just want to cling to those boring ideas that someone forced on them for the rest of their lives. Alas, as plants, dandelions are braver than them, daring to let their seeds fly and wander.
——Cai Kangyong "Kangyong, a kind message to a cruel society"
It is best to consciously lower the volume when speaking, not only because it will disturb others if it is too loud, but because if If a person cannot even control his own volume well, it will make it difficult for others to trust your abilities in other aspects. Just like if a lion can't even control the weight of its steps and always makes unnecessary noises, how can you believe that this lion can hunt a deer? .
—— Cai Kangyong "Kangyong, a kind message to a cruel society"
When you lose your temper with others, such as accusing the other person of "only loving money", you will be corrected, because If the opponent is hurt, he will fight back. But when you lose your temper with life and say such angry words as "No matter how hard you try, it's useless" or "Things will never change", you won't be corrected, because others are fine, and what you hurt is just your face of life. Your confidence and fighting spirit will make your life less interesting.
—— Cai Kangyong "Kangyong, a message of kindness to a cruel society"
Don't hate those who "judge people by their appearance", don't hate this thing. It is human nature to "judge people by their appearance". If you hate it, it will not disappear. It is just a wall. You can't defeat it with hatred. You are not Meng Jiangnu. As long as you can climb over this wall when necessary, let others see the real you, and let the wall not stop you, that will be enough
- Cai Kangyong's "Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society" 》
Living means suffering. If the taste is too bitter, spit it out quickly and rinse your mouth. If you can't spit it out and it's painful that you have to swallow it, then swallow it quickly. Whether you want to spit it out or swallow it, anyway, don’t hold it in your mouth and chew it carefully. Bitterness exists to help us seek good fortune and avoid misfortune next time. It is not used to feed us every meal.
——Cai Kangyong "Kang Yong, a message of kindness to a cruel society"