How should women deal with interpersonal relationships and things?

Women must first have three kinds of contact; The first is the person who appreciates you, understands you and values you; The second is to misinterpret you, disagree with you, and even slander you; The third is someone who has nothing to do with you. How to deal with the relationship with them: the first kind of people have the grace of bosom friends and can be your teachers and friends; The second kind of person hurts you, you just need to stay away from him, don't care about him, and don't worry about it; The third kind of person has nothing to do with you. You can make peace with it and treat it with courtesy. Interpersonal relationship management at work: No.65438 +0 is integrated into colleagues' hobbies. As the saying goes, "like-minded", only the same hobbies and interests can bring people together. During the short break of lunch, colleagues often get together to talk about things. First, they must accept some of their interests and hobbies. For example, "consciously" pay attention to some news and news about fashion and sports, and meet the right opportunity to chat with you. With the same topic, it is much easier to get along; Every time I chat with them, I will also exchange some feelings with them at work, so that the working friendship will be improved a lot. NO.2 don't reveal the personal secrets of other people's privacy colleagues at will, of course, with some secrets that you don't want others to know; If a colleague can tell you her private information, it only shows that her colleagues have enough trust in you, and your friendship must surpass others, otherwise she won't tell you all her secrets. If at the same time, you hear your privacy from someone else's mouth, and it is exposed, then don't say it, she must think you betrayed her. The betrayed colleagues will definitely scold you more than 1000 times in their hearts and regret the friendship and trust they paid before. Therefore, don't reveal the basic requirements of personal privacy at will to consolidate professional friendship. If you can't do this well, I'm afraid no colleague dares to confide in you. Third, don't let love get in the way. Song Jia and Wang Hui are good sisters who talk about everything. They live in the same dormitory all the time after work, and go to work together every day, almost to the point where they are inseparable! By chance, Song Jia and Wang Hui came into contact with a handsome man with excellent conditions in all aspects. Almost at the same time, they took a fancy to this man! In order to get closer to the handsome guy, Song Jia and Wang Hui suddenly seem to be different people. They are no longer inseparable, but act alone; Later, the two turned against each other for this matter, and their feelings for many years vanished. Obviously, love "blocked" the friendship between two people. From the moment they fell in love with the handsome man at the same time, it actually announced that their friendship for many years began to break down. Therefore, as a professional woman, you'd better handle your love life alone, and don't drag even your closest friends to a date before love is mature. Otherwise, love will become a stumbling block to friendship. NO.4 keep your distance when chatting. It is normal for colleagues to chat with each other after work. And many people, especially male colleagues, are mostly chatting to show off their extensive knowledge in front of colleagues, but also to convey such a message to other colleagues, that is: I am familiar with what you are familiar with; I am familiar with what you are not familiar with! In fact, these people who claim to know everything only have a little knowledge, and everyone just understands each other tacitly. As a woman, if you want to satisfy your curiosity and ask questions, the other person will be exposed soon, so the chat time will naturally not be too long. This not only ruined everyone's interest, but also embarrassed colleagues who like to talk about God. I believe colleagues will avoid you intentionally or unintentionally when chatting in the future. Therefore, I suggest that female friends, when chatting on any occasion, don't ask everything, ask appropriate questions, and colleagues will be willing to accept you. Fifth, stay away from gossip. "Why is xx always targeting me? This guy is really annoying! " "xx always quarrels with me, I don't know where I have offended him!" ..... There are often such rumors flying all over the sky in the office; You know, these rumors are "soft knives" in the workplace and a deadly destructive weapon. This kind of injury will directly affect people's minds and make the injured people feel very tired. If you are very keen on spreading rumors that sow discord, at least you can't expect other colleagues to be keen on listening. Gossiping often makes other colleagues in the unit feel afraid to avoid you. If it comes to this, I believe you will have a hard time in this unit, because no colleagues will take you seriously. NO.6 low-key handling of internal disputes In the long-term work process, it is normal to have some minor contradictions with colleagues; However, when dealing with these contradictions, we should pay attention to the methods and try our best to make the contradictions between you openly intensified. Workplaces are also public places. Although there will be some small friction between colleagues because of work, we must deal with the friction events rationally. Don't be overbearing, but finish with your colleagues. To say the least, even if you are reasonable, if you are unreasonable, your colleagues will stay away from you, thinking that you are a person who leaves no room for your colleagues and loses face to others, and will always be wary of you in the future, so you may lose the support of a large number of colleagues. In addition, the colleagues who are attacked by you will bear a grudge against you, and you have another "enemy" in your career. Well, I hope this helps you.