A sense of ceremony is very important. When your partner wants you to give her a corresponding sense of ceremony, please don't feel indifferent to her because of affectation. In fact, it is necessary to have a sense of ceremony if you want to keep your feelings fresh for a long time.
With a sense of ceremony, there will be a sense of solemnity, which will make the other party in love feel their importance to others and she will be very happy.
Sometimes creating a little romance properly is also very beneficial to the long-term preservation of love. After all, life is too dull, and love can bring people a sweet feeling. If you want your relationship to develop for a long time, you must keep the sweet appearance of love.
I think the best love is that when two people are old, they can still feel the youthful beauty of love at the beginning, and they can blush and be shy when they see each other, just like at the beginning. This should be a sign that love has been preserved.
Second, if you want to keep your feelings fresh for a long time, you must learn to communicate and be honest with each other.
The most important thing in a relationship is sincerity, not lying to each other and not touching each other's bottom line. Such feelings can last for a long time.
The most feared thing in love is a lie, which is well illustrated by thirty.
Gu Jia in the play is a perfect woman, who can not only develop her career, help her husband set up a fireworks company, but also take care of her family. She can be regarded as a woman who has found a balance between work and life.
But she is not a perfect woman after all. Even if she keeps the family in good order, she will be stronger in front of her husband, but this is not the main reason for the breakdown of their marriage.
The reason why their marriage will eventually die is actually because there is no communication in their marriage and there is no basis for marriage-sincerity.
Gu Jia's husband, Xu Huanshan, complained from the bottom of his heart because his wife strictly controlled his diet and other living habits for a long time. But he is also a good-tempered person. He didn't break out, but he planted the seeds of emotional breakdown in the future.
When Lin, a simple, lovely and considerate "white rabbit", appeared in front of Xu Huanshan, a man controlled by his wife for a long time, he was moved. He longed for that feeling of freedom, and finally he betrayed his marriage.
The breakup of this relationship makes us very distressed, but at the same time we are aware of many problems. It is impossible for two people to love each other without sincerity. They must learn to communicate in order to make their relationship last.
Third, if you want to keep your feelings fresh for a long time, you need independence and interdependence.
In feelings, each other should learn to be independent and leave some space for each other, so that he can store his thoughts and leave some space for himself.
No matter how close two people are, they should keep a little distance and remain independent, which can avoid many contradictions and leave a good impression on each other. Distance is also very conducive to the long-term preservation of love.
However, being independent and leaving some space for each other doesn't mean that you completely ignore each other, solve all your problems by yourself and hide all your troubles in your heart.
You can roughly imagine how horrible it would be if two people who love each other don't ask each other for help after they get together.
If love wants to last for a long time, it still needs moderate dependence on both sides, and it can't be completely indifferent to others. If you remain indifferent for a long time, no matter how good your feelings were, they will eventually fade away.
Independence and dependence seem to be opposites, but they are inextricably linked, only the "degree" in the middle is very important. People who can keep their feelings fresh for a long time are those who can get a "degree" in the middle.
It is not difficult to keep love fresh for a long time. Everyone can do it as long as you put your heart into it.