When the bird grows up, the old bird will throw the bird out of the nest, in order to let the bird learn to stand on its own feet.
So this is not indifference, but letting children learn to stand up by themselves.
Overindulgent children will only rely on their parents for everything, and they will only cry when they encounter small things.
What should these spoiled children do without their parents?
So let the children stand up with a kind of love, not indifference.
Isn't it better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish?
If you give him a fish today, he will still be hungry tomorrow, but if you teach him how to deal with it, he can find something to eat tomorrow.
When the little fox can live independently, his mother will drive him out of the house and let him eat independently.
So, this is not indifference.
2. Let children know that the consequences of self-reliance, self-reliance and doting will only make them more dependent on you. Such children will never grow up, and one day they will face the society alone. At that time, if he fell down in his career or life, could you help him? Parents can't take care of their children all their lives. They should form children's good habits from an early age!
The mother will not be indifferent to the child, she is still a child. It is right to let the children stand up by themselves, which shows that the mother is correct and rational. He has to be self-reliant since he was a child. There is nothing wrong with his mother holding the child with open arms at this time, but the child has become dependent since then. Let him stand up by himself, which child will remember that I will definitely not wrestle next time and fall down and climb by myself! The same is true of doing things. If you do something wrong in the company, it is impossible for the leader to take the blame for you.
Nowadays, most of the society are only children, and their femininity and willfulness are their patents. In my opinion, parents should discipline their children moderately, not spoil them. Children are what they say, and such people will be excluded from society in the future. Spoiling is also an important factor in juvenile delinquency. Example: There is a high school student who was brought up by his grandmother. When he grows up, he can buy whatever he wants. Steal money if you don't buy it, and sometimes even beat grandma. What's the use of such a person coming? The scum of society ... (There are many such examples in the news)
Neighbor has a little boy, 7-8 years old, in the second grade of primary school. One day, he came home from school to eat bananas, clamoring for his grandmother who was cooking in the kitchen to give him bananas to peel. The old man was too busy to get away, so he said, "Help yourself." At this time, the little boy shouted and peeled bananas and deliberately threw them all over the floor, feeling very wronged ... this is a typical pampering. It is not difficult for a 7-8-year-old child to eat bananas and peel them himself. Why does a pupil need help? Who is in charge of peeling bananas? It can be seen that this family did not attach importance to cultivating children's sense of responsibility in their usual education.
5. It's not indifference for the mother to let the fallen child stand up by herself, but true love for the child. You can think about it, there is no mother in the world who doesn't care about her children. They all want to be nice to their children. If the mother had picked up the child at that time, the child would know that the mother would "help" herself at any time and any place in her life, and develop a dependent heart in the future. Just like when the bird grows up, the old bird will throw the bird out of the nest just to let the bird learn to stand on its own feet and learn to fly by itself. Children who live in overindulgence will only rely on their parents for everything, and will only cry when they encounter any small things. There is a saying that it is better to be fished by others than by others. Give him a fish today, and he will still be hungry tomorrow, but if you teach him how to be independent, he can find something to eat by himself tomorrow. Children are the pride of parents. The child fell, and the mother ignored it. Just cultivate his strength from an early age. When a child is really injured, it is impossible for parents to ignore it, but some parents just help their children in secret. Therefore, I think this mother is not indifferent to her children, but gives them real care!