A 30-year-old boy is as natural and unrestrained as an eagle in social activities. I collected the life sentiment of a 30-year-old man, I hope you like it!
The first feeling of a 30-year-old man's life: for people in their twenties, it makes me laugh and cry whether to call you uncle or big brother. Yes, time flies, time flies. Bananas are green, leaves are red, and young people's heads are white. In an instant, I don't know. I'm really old.
I really haven't thought about what it's like for boys to be in their thirties. Those aspects of boys' thirties have begun to change. Then let me summarize it bit by bit from our personal experience. Of course, the first thing I want to declare is working people like us.
At this moment, 30-year-old boys are generally boys in the middle and late 1970s. During this period, boys are generally the oldest of many sisters in the family. They are also the most spoiled generation after 70. Unlike the only children born after 80s and 90s, they are experienced people who enjoy love and suffering.
At the age of 20, a 30-year-old boy imagined that if he reached the age of 30, he should reach the realm of academic success, successful career, maturity, self-confidence and family harmony. Unexpectedly, at the age of 30, I entered a state where my youth is about to expire, my maturity is still half a beat, and my career has not yet been achieved, with a little anxiety, a little panic and a little helplessness. Although there is no phenomenon that I can't sleep 30 years ago and 30 years later, I still have more or less exclamation marks when I dream back at midnight. Fight, when is the end? The inner monologue of marriage
The appearance of the 30-year-old boy has not changed much from that of the 25-year-old boy, but the heart of the 30-year-old boy has been honed by years. At the age of 25, he can still contradict the leader for the truth. At the age of 30, he chose patience. Although my heart is unwilling, I can pile up a smile on my face. I found that it is the truth to take a step back and broaden the horizon. When I was in my twenties, I was often excited by an idea and a goal from myself, and I would be desperate to implement it and struggle; At the age of 30, I often worry about an idea and a goal. I will analyze the feasibility in many aspects and think and think again.
The 30-year-old boy found that his wallet was as green as when he was 20 years old, and even more timid. When he was in his twenties, the only money he could spend in my pocket was 33 yuan, but at the age of 30, he still felt uneasy when he went out. The son wants to eat chicken, the wife wants to add cosmetics, the house is still owing on the loan, the parents are in poor health, and the mother-in-law has to be filial. In my twenties, it can be said that making money is for consumption. At the age of thirty, I lamented that it was not easy to make money.
Boys in their twenties and thirties like to hear words like buddy loyalty, adversity and * * *, and they are smart and handsome within their power, while boys in their thirties are interested in phrases like knowledgeable, mature, stable, successful, attractive, sexy and strong, and love jade. Female screen name
A 30-year-old boy chasing a 20-year-old girl can say that he loves you forever and will never change from generation to generation. It was only when I was 30 years old that I found out that it was just a lie to girls. The 30-year-old boy still wants to make his life romantic, but he finds that the romance with his lover is always a little different. Romance often backfires.
The 30-year-old boy works hard for his career, expecting his own success and happy family, but he often ignores the feelings of the girls around him. He doesn't think that the requirements of girls at this time are often as simple as cooking dinner together.
A 30-year-old boy is already an uncle in the eyes of little girls, that is, he has no teacher spirit at the age of 20 and no cool taste at the age of 25. In the eyes of 28-year-old urban female white-collar workers, 30-year-old boys are too thin, too petty and too impersonal, not as knowledgeable as 40-year-old successful men, and they are not deep enough.
If a 30-year-old boy is not married, but finds that his marriage has become a long-standing problem, it is not that the girl is too young and she despises him; It's just that that girl is too old-fashioned and ugly for him. At this time, a man who is not married at the age of 30 becomes a social marriage problem! But I have become a chicken rib in the girl's mouth, which is tasteless to eat and a pity to abandon.
When the 30-year-old boy found gallstones, fatty liver, prostate and high blood pressure (note that I haven't had them yet), these diseases that I didn't expect to reach the upper limit began to appear quietly in my physical examination form. Although it is just a small fight, it has to make people feel that time and tide wait for no man.
The 30-year-old boy began to find that a night's sleep can't make up for it. After playing a game of basketball, the 30-year-old boy found that his hands and feet still hurt after a night's sleep, and began to feel a little confused and shaken about his confident body. What happened?
A 30-year-old boy can't help asking, what about a 30-year-old boy? How can there be so many boys in their thirties? Is 30 really a watershed in life? A boy's 30-year-old is neither a flower nor tofu. What could it be? It's really bitter, huh?
These are just boys' quiet feelings at 3 1 p.m. What is the development prospect of boys' life? The subtle changes in the age of 30 do not fully explain the problem. Although 30-year-old boys are sometimes listless, they are more energetic. Thirty-year-old boys are sometimes lifeless, but more are the spring breeze that they can be proud of; Although 30-year-old boys sometimes begin to swallow their pride, they can broaden their horizons; Thirty-year-old boys can be cynical sometimes. But more can be happy and chic; Although 30-year-old boys sometimes feel scarred, they can be simpler and more romantic.
Look at the problem dialectically Thirty boys, not terrible! The terrible thing is that the heart is not right.
Life experience of a 30-year-old man II: First, physical aspects.
As people often say, "thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger". In their work, they are the "pillars" at the forefront, the backbone and elite of the enterprise, and all ages will give way to one side. In life, they are "porters" who carry gas tanks or rice to the fifth floor, "porters" who carry the elderly, their wives and children alone on tricycles, and "machines" who are happy in their wives' beds. Although some boys of this age will have a "general's belly" and be a little fat, they are full of energy and exuberance. Of course, at this age, due to the burden of family, the pressure of work, social responsibility and emotional confusion, physical health will also be infringed. If you don't strengthen exercise and self-regulation, your health will be much worse than before, but now is not the age for physical fatigue and illness. I think you should be older. Of course, there are many healthy old people, and your health is closely related to the nature of work, family burden and mental state.
Second, the psychological aspect.
"Don't look at the water margin, don't look at the Three Kingdoms" means that when you are young (before the age of 30), you are young, energetic, enterprising and easy to be loyal to things. At your age, you have this characteristic without looking at the water margin. Seeing the water margin characters is easy to lose control of emotions and be loyal to things. I don't look at the Three Kingdoms, but on the contrary, I won't go into details here. At the age of 30, when people reach middle age, they generally lose their impetuous and frivolous youth. He is more mature and steady, thinks more comprehensively, can handle more complicated things, and has strong psychological strain potential, patience potential and self-control potential. Most people know what to do, what not to do and what their responsibilities are. In short, the psychological development of 30-year-old boys is mature, and it is impossible to describe all aspects of psychological changes one by one. Most people are mentally healthy. It is not surprising that boys watch beautiful women or movies all their lives, except for individual psychological problems, just because they are boys.
Third, the emotional aspect.
The so-called "standing at 30 and not being confused at 40" can be understood in many ways, that is, it is no longer confused by emotions, worldly vanity, money and beauty (this sentence is purely to explain "not being confused", but our ancestors thought that people should be so "not confused" at the age of 40, but as modern people, in reality, from ancient times to the present, It is human nature to love beauty, so there is no need to blame it. But modern people pay attention to a moral bottom line, that is, the "rules of the game" of society and family. To tell the truth, many boys "foul" in this respect. A 30-year-old boy with a sense of responsibility will be responsible for his family, career and society. Generally speaking, he will not easily destroy his hard-won happy family and successful career. Even if his career is unsuccessful, he will cherish his career, precisely because he knows that he depends on him to support his family, and even if his wife is not very beautiful, he will cherish his family, precisely because he knows that only she is the best and loves him the most. Most 30-year-old boys are single-minded, that is to say, single-minded to their wives. At this age, they no longer talk about feelings, just because feelings have been transformed into family ties. Because of this, some boys maintain this family relationship and find the so-called "late feelings" or "lost feelings", which are often the "patents" of some rich or talented romantic boys. This is certainly unfair to his wife who has given everything and everything. Most husbands need their wives' second feelings,
This relationship includes affection and friendship, which is ignored by many female compatriots. Please pay attention to it and let your husband love you again.
Fourth, marriage.
The 30-year-old boy's attitude towards marriage is very cautious and clear. No matter whether you are unmarried, divorced or widowed, you are mature in thinking about each other, and generally don't rush into things. Unmarried people are not married at the moment, not because they are poor or stupid, but because they are a little more rational in some ways. Of course, it is not excluded that they are picky and delay their golden years. But we can't think that they are single from now on, because there are girls of the same age who have the same idea waiting for them. There are many and complicated reasons for divorce. Some men "foul", some women "deviant", and so on. However, although 30-year-old boys miss young girls, most of them are still reluctant to let go of their original wives.
Verb (short for verb) family.
A 30-year-old boy is a cow. At this time, he is old in the upper class and young in the lower class, and his wife is "noisy" in the middle. Boys have to come forward when they are busy. Boys are "emperors" and "slaves" in the family. The boy shouldered all the burdens in the family. He doesn't want to worry about his wife. He just wants to go home and see her kind smile, and be satisfied with his wife's delicious food and warm breath. A 30-year-old boy really needs his wife's romance and gentleness when he is sitting on the sofa drinking his wife's hot tea, watching newspapers or TV and feeling the tenderness of her hand rubbing his back. If a wife just does housework like a nanny, he is likely to pay attention to and look for romantic tenderness intentionally or unintentionally. One thing is certain, a 30-year-old boy will conquer a girl at home, no matter how good she is outside, this is her husband.
Sixth, career.
The age of a successful boy cannot be defined as 30 years old, nor can a failed boy be defined as 30 years old. Middle age is the peak of his career, and it is also the time to do it. Many opportunities may be at this age. Most of the salary increases, promotions and promotions are in the golden stage of this career. If you have a heart, a prepared person and a talented person, it doesn't mean that he won't have a bright future. The key is to look at future efforts and opportunities. There are still 30 years from 30 to 60, and you can do a lot of things. Only when you are dedicated, happy and enterprising can you get ahead. But then again, boys who don't want to find a job or develop their careers are basically boys who respect their jobs and love their families. I am not a successful boy, but a professional boy, so I can't comment on the psychological process of a successful boy. I can only belong to the middle between success and failure, but I am by no means a 30-year-old negative cynic who complains about everything. I am waiting for opportunities, discovering opportunities, and creating opportunities, and I will never sit still. I am like a bow, I am by no means without an arrow, nor is it because of the front. This is a 30-year-old boy who will never let go without success.
VII. Social aspects
The 30-year-old boy is as smart as an eagle in social communication, unlike the young people who just joined the WTO, who are either reckless, timid, shrinking and ignorant. 30-year-old people have experienced too many grievances, setbacks and hardships in their adult life 10 years, so they are more stable and mature than young people, and have a wide range of social circles and interpersonal relationships. The friends they make are also stable, sincere and reliable, not as superficial, "loyal" and casual as young people do. Most of the friends of 30-year-old boys belong to confidants in life, business partners and career partners.
Eight, self-cultivation.
30-year-old boys are "dangerous" for young women. It is precisely because they know their "skills" and "ambitions" that although they know their "virtues", most women are still willing to take risks to explore "minefields". It is precisely because boys at this time can teach them a lot, let them grow up quickly, and be their mentors and friends both in their careers and in their lives. Therefore, some rich and talented boys are willing to make friends with young women, which is a feature that the psychological youth age of 30-year-old boys is still in the peak season. From the analysis of physiological structure and psychological characteristics, they are blameless. But in filial piety to the elderly, 30-year-old boys are definitely role models for young people to learn. No wonder they don't get married, how can they know the grace of raising? In taking care of children, they can exchange their lives for the happiness of their children's lives. They are the protectors and protectors of children. Treat colleagues and bosses, they know how to respect and communicate. Treat friends, relatives and neighbors. They know how to socialize. They know how to observe and maintain public order and social morality. They can restrain their emotions when they encounter joys and sorrows in life, be flexible when they encounter grievances at work, and be tolerant and generous among their friends. Although they can't say that they have seen through the world of mortals, they can already look at everything in the world with a very normal mentality. In terms of cultivation, except for the idea of conquering girls, everything else is almost perfect. Therefore, a 30-year-old boy can be said to be a good man even if his moral cultivation is average. If he is excellent, he can say.
Is a saint.
In short, a 30-year-old boy is young, healthy, energetic and ambitious; Is mature, steady, full of wisdom and aura; Is single-minded, romantic, full of temptation and charm; It is practical, reliable and safe, but it is also full of crises.
A 30-year-old boy should be cultivated by the state, concerned by the society, reused by enterprises and cared by his wife.
A 30-year-old man's life insight 3: A 30-year-old boy lost his vision and yearning for a perfect future. The happiness of his family is his dream. He has been far away from his hometown, not afraid of hardships, and came to this familiar and unfamiliar place. Next to the dilapidated construction site, he put down his luggage.
A 30-year-old boy sweated profusely on the construction site every day and fell asleep on the floor after a hard day. Although he is sweating like a pig, his dream is still so beautiful. He sat on the hot kang, took the teacup handed by his wife, and watched the child's mouth rise when he slept. However, at dawn, looking in the mirror, at the age of 30, his face was dark and gaunt.
A 30-year-old boy, with a vicious sun and strong hands, built a tall building. He has no hope, he just wants his family to eat and drink. It is not that he is worthless, but that the road is too difficult to walk and he has no worries about food and clothing. What a small request, he is not ugly or stupid, thinking about his family and humming the song "Nothing" softly.
This 30-year-old boy will never give up, and his footsteps can always be seen on the messy construction site. He is very busy and won't give up. It's a long way to go. He never takes a step back, but no one can see how helpless he is in tears in the middle of the night, and his heart is bitter. He could only talk to himself and snore slowly.
However, at the age of 30, there are no tears, only the sadness of falling flowers and breaking ground, and how much bitterness has been swallowed. No one really wants to taste it. The dream has swept away the sadness, and the dream is lingering for thousands of times. At the age of 30, it is just a dream that can be recalled, an untouchable place and an unforgettable past. Dreams are no longer dreams, dreams have gone with the wind, and I am thirty years old.
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