(2) Venus and Adonis
In all love, there are winners and losers. This love story from ancient Greece is like this. To some extent, Adonis, a beautiful young man, has no shallower love for himself than Venus. The only difference is that Venus' love for him can be tolerated by any society, although there is a little difference in identity and status between the two. But Adonis's fanatical love for himself is hard to understand. So that later generations called his behavior "narcissism", which was classified as a pathological category in psychological research. This is very unfair to this beautiful boy himself. Because all love, as long as it is love, should not be ignored or even despised by people. Of course, Venus's love for this beautiful young man is also commendable. The degree of her pursuit and her impatience make many arrogant and conceited ladies unable to understand. In a popular phrase, it is called "be a fairy and do her job, or don't do it." Venus, who is indifferent, meets Adonis, who is indifferent and heartless. From her point of view, she loves the wrong person, but what can she do? There is no right or wrong in love, she just loves him, and there is no way. Venus used all available methods. The description of lust in the story made us feel a little irritable today, but don't get me wrong, this is a sign that Venus loves him, and it has nothing to do with pornography. This story has also expanded our later love literature. In a sense, Adonis loves not himself, but a third party. In a broader sense, from then on, all the literary works about love in a triangle and even love in four corners and five corners came from a story called "Venus and Adonis". Conclusion: wishful love is always accompanied by the rapid destruction of one person and the slow destruction of another.
(3) Edward VIII and Mrs Simpson
This is the most talked about love story in modern times, and it is still widely circulated today. In the nearly thousand-year history of the British Empire, no king has ever abdicated. And the reason why he stepped down was for two words-love. The woman who made him abandon his political position turned out to be an American woman who had been divorced twice. In the eyes of the upper class in Europe, this matter is tantamount to a big rebellion. In the mainstream European society at that time, people could not give full tolerance and recognition to this matter. Thousands of supporters of the king heard the announcement of the king's abdication on the radio and collapsed to the ground in tears. Perhaps their actions also include great respect for this love. They watched their beloved king step down from the throne with a helpless mood. But everything is like this, there is a gain and a loss. The king lost his throne and his kingdom, and gained what he cherished most-love. Mrs Simpson later sent her husband's body back to England as the Duchess of Windsor to attend the state funeral. The whole British Isles is in a state of sadness. At that time, there were many more people who agreed with their love than a few decades ago. People regard them as classics dedicated to love. Now that I think about it, without their love, the whole history may be changed, and the current queen may never appear. The monarch who abandoned the throne for love is irresponsible from the national point of view. From the human point of view, he regards love as his lifelong belief and is the most perfect interpretation of the concept of "man". Conclusion: Love at a price, the price of love is Mount Tai in front of those who despise love, and nothing in front of those who cherish love.
(4) Roy and Mara
On a bridge called Huatielu in London, a beautiful, sad and touching love story quietly began with the roar of gunfire. Similarly, this love finally came to an end on this bridge. In fact, this love is not over, and it will never end. This love is so perfect from beginning to end. In this story, there is no bad person, but all we see are good people. The moment Roy and Mara met at the bridge, great love began. Roy looked at the window above in the rain, which was the finishing touch in their story. Just on the way to the church to get married, two people asked each other's names. Everything seems so absurd, but it is so reasonable. It is this love that matures like lightning, but it makes one person give everything because he loves the other person, and let another person put this love in his heart forever. Everyone in this story is tolerant, Roy's uncle and mother. Intolerance is an invisible atmosphere, an atmosphere that can suffocate people. This atmosphere firmly controls everyone, and everyone is helplessly watching the cruel reality step by step. But in a sense, Mara's death is precisely the most touching part of this story. It is her death that makes this story immortal. On the contrary, Mara will become another Jane Eyre, but the Roy Mara faces is a little more romantic and better tempered than Rochester Jane Eyre faces. The story of Jane Eyre is really not a great and classic love story. It's better to call it a classic of personal struggle, or to criticize the Victorian education system and the concept of family. British woman writer, Jane. Austin believes that marriage should be suitable. But the story of Roy and Mara has gone beyond the scope of matching. If we awaken this great writer from the grave and let him comment on the love story of the broken blue bridge, I think she will feel very embarrassed, really embarrassed. Conclusion: eternal love, love that can't be together forever, will be eternal love.
(5) Esme Halda and the bell ringer
The bell ringer in the gloomy Notre Dame Cathedral was called a beast, and the Bohemian woman who fled to avoid disaster was called a beauty. The love between a beauty and a beast is originally an asymmetrical love, and the contrast is so great that the intuitive feeling is not as emotional and memorable as this great love story. However, in the bell tower hundreds of years later, when people saw two bodies held together, they felt touched and moved by love. Beauty and the beast, at the last moment of their lives, held together and never separated. The bell ringer's love for Esme Halda is beyond the scope of being willing to die for it. Maybe the first time someone saw her, he had put his life in her hands and was ready to give everything for the woman he loved in his heart. Although he knew that maybe this would not be rewarded, maybe his death was just like a feather flying into the sea, which would only be silent and no one would notice. But fortunately, he got the love of the other side, and it was forever. Perhaps this love is not as easy to accept and perfect as other love stories of talented people and beautiful women. But this is also a story about love, and this love story is still so shocking and so extraordinary. The humanistic spirit of the Great Revolution era can be seen here. This story tells us that even people like animals have the right to love and be loved. Even two people no matter how far away they are, they will have the opportunity to look at the same goal and be connected by the ribbon of love. Conclusion: The truest absurd love, perhaps the word love, is nothing absurd and true, as long as it is love.
(6) Xing Zi and Guangfu
The story that swept the whole land of China in the first half of the eighties can be seen from the protracted and embarrassing story that this TV series is not mainly about love, but pays more attention to family ties. In the play, the two people fell in love, just for the sake of the future family tragedy. Although this bedding is clever, we have to admit that it is cruel. It seems to force people to make a choice between love and affection. Such a choice is reluctant for human beings. Fortunately, the writer let Xing Zi die quietly at the critical moment, which relieved our dilemma. Our thoughts, at the moment when we crossed the final bottom line of human morality, were pulled back by the screenwriter. There were always two explanations for the love between a husband and a temper in people's eyes at that time. One explanation was that when they learned that they were brother and sister, their love suddenly turned into brother and sister love. Another is that their love is real love, but in real life, there is no way to deal with it, so one of them has to die. Xing Zi finally died quietly in Guangfu's arms on a boat in a lake full of cherry blossoms. There are two explanations, one is that he died in his brother's arms, and the other is that he died in his lover's arms. Alas, people who held the former view at that time accounted for the vast majority. In fact, love is love and will not be transformed into anything else. This pair of men and women, no one will doubt that they are born together. Even in real life, these two actors are a couple. This is the abomination of the screenwriter. He sets any condition as beneficial to the development of love, but sets one condition as dead, which is innate and cannot be changed by hard work the day after tomorrow. That is, they are brother and sister. Poor couple who love each other. They have paid a lot for love, but not many people will understand them. Only by hiding that sincere love in their hearts, one will die, and the other will face a beautiful lake and reminisce about the lost love. Conclusion: Impossible love, our society still needs to evolve, and we should think about who can surpass who in morality and love.
(7) butterfly lovers
This is the most popular love story among the people in China. To some extent, it is still recognized by ordinary people in love psychology today. But today's press men and women will not be as stupid as Liang Zhu at that time, but will do nothing, both become a butterfly. In a modern society where the Internet and mobile phones prevail, the communication between men and women will no longer be as difficult and inefficient as in ancient society. People's psychological endurance will not be as fragile as in the past. Until today, we can still feel the pain of that pair of men and women at that time when they were lovesick. In fact, this kind of pain is very sweet when you recollect it. Even if you pay the price of your life, nothing can replace the gains gained at this price. The reason why the love stories of modern men and women can't become great love is that they pay too little and absolutely refuse to devote themselves to it. After all, life is the bottom line that modern people can pay, and it cannot be easily surpassed. The courtship in this story is also a place that excites us. The heroine disguises herself as a man, and uses some scenery and objects as metaphors to woo the hero. The description of this story is the most talked about by people. Because it transcends all the features of the era when the story happened, both in form and content, and has a hint of modernism. Shallow researchers will draw a description of homosexuality from it. Further, this is the great power of love, which can transcend the shackles of all times and concepts and make people do things that were not understood by the society at that time but can be talked about by future generations. The finishing touch is become a butterfly inside. Humble life often represents freedom. People who yearn for love and freedom often do this, because these two points are their lives. Conclusion: Helpless love can only find the continuation of their love in another world.
(8) Maurer and Paul
No one will deny the greatness of maternal love, but maternal love is one-sided. If maternal love can be rewarded, it can only be the love of children from children. However, in "sons and lovers", Lawrence strongly challenged this concept. No one will deny that Lawrence is the most important writer in the twentieth century, and no one will deny that Freud is the greatest psychologist in the twentieth century. However, I am afraid that there are far fewer people who can publicly agree with the story told in this work than those who study this work. Mrs. Morel poured her surging passion into her son, and from her son, she got the feeling of love that she couldn't get from her husband. For this Mrs. Morel, in her heart, she has already regarded her son as her ideal lover. She has taken care of him and raised him, and everything she has done is beyond what a mother can do. She really regards her son as the object of her love. This kind of love is not a simple family love, but a manifestation of love to a greater extent. And Paul also regards his mother as his lover in his mind, so that he feels that as long as his mother is there, he can't find his lover in the next life. Because this lover is beside him, and that is his mother. In this controversial work, people discuss more about the psychological level and social level. Most of the time, the love in it is interpreted as an Odipus Complex. This English word originated from ancient Greece, although it has a long history, has been studied by people for thousands of years, and until today, there is no real result. Perhaps human beings dare not face up to what exists in themselves that is not in harmony with the real society. Perhaps this society has formed a fixed pattern that no one can break. We have to follow the path we set for ourselves, go on and never look back. In conclusion, the most human love is neither fish nor fowl, which is a kind of love, or at least a fork in the tree of love.
(9) Liu Xin and Dong Xian
Brokeback is an idiom we learned when we were older. Literally, it is very obscure, and it is really impossible to understand the true meaning without doing some textual research. Liu Xin, the bad king of the Western Han Dynasty, turned out to be a true lover. When they were sleeping on the same bed, when he had something important to leave, Dong Xian's body pressed down his wide sleeves. He could not bear to wake his lover and leave with his sleeves broken. This meticulous love for his lover was enough to make anyone in any era feel ashamed. Of course, his other half, Dong Xian, also did the same. He committed suicide at home the day after his death, and when he died, he still kept the decree left to him by the emperor. Unfortunately, this pair of lovers are two men, that is, homosexuals who are despised by many so-called gentlemen today. Many of us now, when we see this idiom, will understand it as a bad aspect and ignore the interpretation of love. No one has stipulated that love belongs to the patent between the opposite sex, and the love between the same sex may be more sincere and soul-stirring. Liu Xin and Dong Xian are the representatives of this kind of love. The truth of love, the eagerness of love, imagine that today, even between the opposite sex,