First, parents feel that their children lack venture capital in starting their own businesses.
Children who have just graduated from college, start a business with loans. In case of mistakes. Needless to say, in addition to my daily life, I am used to debt collection every day. Since then, the family has been living a miserable life.
Second, parents feel that their children's self-employment lacks the probability of success.
Many young people are in high spirits when they talk about starting their own businesses. But I have no skills, no assets and no work experience. Fourth, there is no operating brain. It will not succeed in the end. So I don't agree with him to start his own business.
Third, mom and dad feel that their children lack the hard-working spirit.
If you really want to start your own business, some areas will suffer. If children can't afford to suffer, self-employment can only be reduced to empty talk. Most people who don't work hard to start a business are: little bald heads and haircuts, and spending money for nothing.
Fourth, I feel that my child is not deeply involved in the world. Maybe he was cheated by his partner.
Many entrepreneurs put it bluntly. Grab some money and cooperate with others to start your own business. How many rooms are there? The partner left with the money. The child who is busy starting his own business has only two lines of tears left.
Fifth, find a job with a low salary, two or three thousand a month. Can basically meet their own expenses. They won't lose money from home anymore. At the same time, it is also relatively firm and will not be cheated. It can make mom and dad feel more secure.
People who really start a business with their heart. You don't have to start your own business when you leave college. Because it's dark all around at the moment. Lack of work experience and assets. Self-employment is doomed to fail.
They usually make money by working for others. On the one hand, according to the accumulation of working money. On the other hand, in the whole process of working to earn money, we study technology diligently, learn and train others' work experience, investigate market trends, investigate the sources of production factors and the sales market of goods. After two years of wandering. When you have the first 1 barrel of gold. Proficient in technology and operation. People also exercise more diligently and can withstand the wind and rain. At this moment, the ability to start your own business will have a higher probability of success.
Some young people are very arrogant and think that they will definitely make money by starting their own businesses. If what you get turns out to be someone else's money, you can pay for it yourself.
This is the direct reason why parents would rather let them get two or three thousand yuan a month's salary than agree to start their own businesses.
Children and parents often have different suggestions. At work, parents don't stipulate their children's wages just because they don't expect their children to get lost. There has never been a shortage of entrepreneurs in social development, and the small businesses run by parents are also sluggish. Therefore, parents feel that starting a business is risky and tend to find a job for their children to get paid.
Mom and dad received different education from others. In the period of rapid development trend, they can't see the direction of popular development trend clearly. Parents encourage their children to have too high rules, even if they get two or three thousand wages. Mom and dad are employees of state-owned enterprises. They run small businesses smoothly in their work, and there is a certain pressure to do business intermittently. Mom and dad don't expect their children to do business. They expect their children to have a comfortable office environment and a stable job, even if the salary is not high.
Self-employment is risky, and not all entrepreneurs are successful. Mom and dad feel that it is not easy for their children to work smoothly and start their own businesses smoothly. It is good for children to have their own overall goal of starting a business, but there are also many unsuccessful examples in real life. Mom and dad can't give their children the work experience of starting their own businesses, and starting their own small businesses is also risky. Self-employment should also have strong working ability. If the economic strength is average, but the ability is insufficient, entrepreneurship cannot be successful.
Mom and dad earn more money, enough for their children's daily life, and their children don't have to bear too much pressure of economic development. Family conditions are enough to support a family's daily life, and children don't need to start their own businesses to earn a lot of money. If the standard deviation of economic development is in urgent need of money, children will make their own decision to start their own businesses, and parents will also apply for their own businesses. When there is work pressure at the level of economic development, there will be motivation to earn money. Only when you have the courage to explore can you succeed.
It is suggested that children can slowly share family responsibilities, improve their working ability and find a stronger job.
Thanks to the invitation of friends, why do some parents prefer to let their children find jobs and earn only 23 1000 yuan a month, rather than agree to start their own businesses to earn more money? It's easy to understand. Adoptive parents have the spirit of heroic self-employment. They care about the past and the future and consider it more complicated. They worry that they may lose face, lose face, and some may not be able to pay the money. Some children lost everything and their families were ruined. What should they do when they see the money? What to fill this hole with, so they would rather earn two or three thousand dollars, which is different from what I hope to explore. It makes sense that children can understand their concerns. Starting your own business is a risky transaction. Young people are generally full of vigor and have the courage to innovate independently. Failure is the mother of success. Many parents refuse to pay for the adventure, but they will always be standard adoptive parents. You lose the ability to start your own business and your mind becomes fragile. If you carefully inspect and scientifically demonstrate new projects before starting your own business, you can make money, have the opportunity to make money, and dare to do it. If you succeed, your parents are not easy to blame, apply for and support, and fully support your assets afterwards. If you don't succeed, you will be accused and reprimanded, and you will be cautious about the rigidity of the relationship and the loss of true feelings.
I'm not very good at talking. You are well prepared.
You earn a hammer's money and start your own business to open a physical store. You just bought yourself a job. You don't have to get hit by a car and break your leg all year round. You just need to open and close the door immediately.
You think you can make money by opening a physical store. You pay the rent first, and say that you think it is enough to open a physical store to install your grandchildren. Then you are not a real grandson.
Perseverance is not afraid of failure, strong ability to resist pressure and work, and it will last for three days. You are too worried to sleep.
Think for yourself, but you are right. If you want to get rich quickly, you will lose two years first.
First of all, please think about a difficult problem: what are assets used for? As the saying goes, boys are "CCB; The girl is "China Merchants Bank".
Second, if you have a certain amount of cash on hand, such as 300,000 or 500,000, where is the most commercial insurance method for long-term investment? Is it in the sales market or in financial institutions? Is the deposit financial institution a time deposit, a deposit investment financial product or an insurance financial product?
Third, analyze the people and problems involved.
First of all, mom and dad. Judging from the topic, mom and dad are employees of state-owned enterprises. In short, they are diving to trade audio-visual materials and make money. It was not easy to sell audio-visual materials in the 1980s, so I sold cosmetics instead. Most of the customers who buy skin care products are female friends. It is very convenient to set up a fucking market to entertain customers and sell skin care products. On the one hand, the contact and communication between women is very easy. On the other hand, skin care products are generally used on site, so that consumers can feel the quality of high-quality painting and makeup products. So, I made money again. It turned out to be awesome. In other words, I can bear hardships and stand hard work, and I am not afraid of hardship. Where is his father? No, we can't guess at will.
Second, "I, of course, will think that the cost of going to college is earned by his mother's business after graduation. In his mind, a deal can make money, and it is better to do business than to find a job for a job.
Third, the problem. There are differences between mother and daughter. The child thinks that doing business can make money and wants to do business by himself. Mother just doesn't agree, and would rather let the children earn only 2500 yuan than do business. Children feel that they are gnawing at the elderly and are unwilling. Therefore, it has created a difficult problem why some parents would rather let their children earn only two or three thousand yuan a month at work, and even don't want to start their own businesses to earn more money.
Fourthly, let's talk about the root of the problem.
First, the annual household income. First, because mom and dad are employees of state-owned enterprises, according to the rules and regulations and current policies of social endowment insurance for employees in China, they can definitely receive old-age insurance after retirement; Second, the business has made money over the years, and the family property is relatively strong.
Second, the concept of project investment. Mom and dad have been operating for a long time and have the concept of profit from project investment. The mentality of this concept applies everything in use value as the profit of project investment. Therefore, it is also possible or possible to regard children as their own fixed assets and invest in projects as assets. Children are newborn calves, start their own businesses and make big money; My parents have been in the sales market all their lives, and have tasted everything through difficulties and obstacles. They will think about their children's happy life and physical and mental health.
Fifth, the final result. It is often said that parents would rather let their children find a job and earn only 2,000 to 3,000 yuan a month than make more money by doing business. The reason is that parents don't want to see their children suffer what they have suffered.
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Thank you for inviting me to discuss this difficult problem. Parents are generally reluctant to let their children start their own businesses. The key reason is that the risk of self-employment is high and the pass rate is too low, so it is basically difficult to have a success probability of 10%. Knowing that it is unsuccessful, the people are struggling, working hard and losing everything. How can they agree that children will be severely hit as soon as they leave school? At the moment when there is a large-scale overcapacity in the manufacturing industry, the masters who start their own businesses are very cautious and let students with assets and work experience start their own businesses. Obviously, how risky it is! Secondly, it's really hard to start your own business. Since we have our own patent right, the new project has a bright future and our own business can be successful, but how much hard-earned money has been invested? Experienced people know that such suffering is generally unwilling to let children try again. The third reason is the harm of conservative thought: learning to be excellent is to be an official, and the order of influence of agriculture and industry bureau. After graduating from college, I will go to work in administrative organs to make my parents face. The fourth reason is that the work is smooth, easy, well paid and easy to mix, especially if you are a national civil servant, then you will have more face. In particular, parents of institutional classes will do their best to persuade their children not to start their own businesses. Parents are successful entrepreneurs, and most of them also enable their children to work and start their own businesses. I sincerely hope that young people will embark on a journey of entrepreneurship and think twice before you do!
The question is simple. Parents of different ages and experiences have different views. Most parents have lived in the countryside all their lives, earning little by freelancing and working, and feel that starting their own business is risky. Winners are happy and losers are worried, so it's better to be steady. There are also some working-class parents in cities who have worked in state-owned enterprises all their lives, and their income is still reasonable and retired. They lack the meaning of starting their own business and feel that it is not easy to start their own business. Although they have experienced the initial stage of China's reform and opening up, and their friends and relatives around them have also succeeded in starting businesses, they either expect their children to choose a job with a stable income like them and not look down on others. There are also a few parents who start their own businesses and start small businesses when they are young. Although they made a little money in the past, their business has become more and more dull in recent years. Of course, they don't expect their children to go their way again, and they don't need to explore.
In fact, self-employment is a simple and complicated problem. Perhaps, some people are born with entrepreneurial materials, and some people really have their own destiny when they are bosses. Some people have failed in starting their own businesses several times and achieved management success in small and medium-sized enterprises. Of course, their sales are also very good. There are also some people who work in the original enterprise with average sales performance and income, but they are very successful in their own business. Therefore, starting your own business should be combined with your own work ability, and don't blindly follow suit. Sometimes, if a person chooses a good job, he will get a good job through his own diligence. Starting your own business is not to be a better boss, but to survive in the early stage, make money in the middle and late stage, and create and fulfill corporate social responsibility in the middle and late stage. It is very important to treat self-employment correctly and understand mom and dad.
As a worker, dad will tell his children that you don't have to be like me. But when the upright child really wants to "fall into the clouds and find another way out", he feels unreliable and uneasy. Although I am looking forward to my child's marriage and career, I dare not let my child go to work for fear that I can't make a budget. In the final analysis, I think the concept of hereditary system cannot be shaken, which is the reason of poverty. As a young man, I should resolutely get rid of the shackles of this concept, find a breakthrough point in life, lay a good foundation and work hard to start a business.
First of all, starting your own business and making more money are undoubtedly different. Just because some parents don't agree with their children to start their own businesses doesn't mean they don't expect their children to earn more money.
First, parents don't agree with their children to start their own businesses.
1, self-employment is risky, and children are not expected to get lost.
Devote one's life to children's education. Now they are all only children, and parents can't afford to win with their children's development prospects.
Starting your own business does not necessarily make money. It has become more and more difficult to do business in recent years, especially for parents who do small businesses. Of course, they don't expect their children to repeat their mistakes. Self-employment is too risky, and losing money is likely to make them lose their money. You can still earn money home if you lose money, but you can't afford to play in the future.
For parents, it is natural for children to earn money, but the future development of children is more crucial. Compared with self-employment, work is more stable, and parents don't expect their children to get lost.
2. Some people are born to start a business, while others are born to work.
Mom and dad have been wandering for half their lives. First, they have a certain cognitive ability to the market environment and social status quo. Second, they have a better grasp of their children's situation, such as whether they have the characteristics of doing business, whether they can integrate into the natural environment of self-employment, whether they have the perseverance to stick it out, and whether they have strong enough endurance once they are heavily in debt.
Mom and dad don't agree with their children's entrepreneurship, that is, they feel that their children are inherently unsuitable for entrepreneurship, and they are uneasy about whether their children can stand the test of entrepreneurship.
In addition, if children really have the ability to work, although they earn less at work now, they can get high returns after a period of tempering. Starting your own business is not necessarily the only way to make money.
3, mom and dad heartache children, don't expect children to work too hard.
To start your own business, you should not only work hard, don't complain, but also know a lot of professional knowledge and master a lot of work experience. After half a lifetime, my parents are very aware of the pressure and hardships of starting their own business. At the beginning, everything needs to be done, leaving early and returning late every day, day and night. Compared with personnel work, it is both troublesome and laborious.
Many parents are heartbroken about their children and expect their children and grandchildren to have a stable daily life and a higher quality of life. So, they don't agree to do business by themselves.
4. When students start their own businesses, their parents will feel humiliated.
It is not only difficult to start your own business, but also has a low status. Especially after graduating from college, parents feel that they must have a decent job, and they will have more face in front of their neighbors, relatives and friends. This is also the key reason why many parents disagree with their children's self-employment.
Second, some suggestions on self-employment
Young people may not be able to start a business, but they must do what they can.
1 First of all, you should evaluate your business advantages and working ability. Because of personality, working ability, hard-working spirit and other reasons, some people are suitable for starting their own businesses, while others are more suitable for work; Because of the availability of resources, some people have advantages in starting a business, while others are more likely to succeed in their work.
2. Self-employment should do a good job in the early stage of market research, make effective overall planning and layout, and make steady progress step by step. Of course, you can't think about getting rich overnight.
3, to do a good job of debt-ridden early response measures, can not afford to play.
In short, there are reasons why parents don't agree with their children to start their own businesses, but if their children choose to start their own businesses, their parents will undoubtedly support them.
I am a veteran who just entered the workplace. The above is my experience sharing, and I look forward to enlightening you. If you want to have in-depth communication, please care about your workplace life.