First, our desires and reality are intolerable, so we should suppress them. Incomplete suppression will lead to all kinds of mistakes. For example, the aversion to others has to be suppressed for practical reasons, and it is always difficult to concentrate in the process of interacting with this person, or always with a contemptuous attitude. This repressed disgust may make you forget the existence of ta or never remember its name. This kind of mistake will occur in many places, and slip of the tongue, slip of the pen and mistake of action may imply subconscious wishes that are not completely suppressed.
The second is dreaming. Freud introduced the principle of dream interpretation in detail in his book The Interpretation of Dreams, and put forward psychological assumptions. The Interpretation of Dreams is also an introductory book for psychoanalysis. The unsatisfied subconscious suppressed during the day will escape into dreams at night and realize it with the help of dreams. The word "sweet dream" explains the feeling that dreams give people, because they satisfy the subconscious desire, so people will feel comfortable.
Third, various neurosis symptoms. Psychoanalysis believes that people's hearts are always full of contradictory ideas, such as some compulsive ideas, just to resist another inner idea. In a family with two children, who are not much different in age, we can observe that my brother was not "polite" to his younger brother at first, but because of his parents' opposition, he "suddenly" began to take care of his younger brother and was extremely active; Because of my resentment towards my younger brother (dividing up my parents' love) and the obstacles in reality (parents' education or threats), I have to suppress my initial resentment and force myself to "love" my younger brother.
These views are described in Introduction to Psychoanalysis. In my own opinion, the subconscious affects people everywhere. Even in the hearts of the healthiest people, we still need to allocate energy and psychological energy to suppress the subconscious, because the subconscious desire is always an instinctive impulse, which is often unacceptable in reality. The ego must always pay attention to the subconscious and reality and make coordination.
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The so-called subconscious, psychological terms, refers to people's "psychological activity process that has occurred but has not yet reached the state of consciousness."
Subconsciousness and consciousness are relative, that is to say, consciousness is the part that people can perceive, while subconscious is the part that people can't or can't perceive.
For an everyday example, we know what we said. What did you do? All belong to the category of consciousness. We learned to ride a bike, and we can still ride it even if we don't ride it for 20 years. This is the category of the subconscious.
An iceberg diagram well explains the relationship between consciousness and subconscious, and the part suspended on the sea is about 3%, just like consciousness; 97% hidden under the sea is mostly subconscious.
Generally speaking, the subconscious plays a negative and positive role in our behavior.
1. jung once said: the subconscious is manipulating your life, but you call it fate.
Some people say, I don't know why. When you know it's impossible, you must do it. A visitor's three marriages ended in each other's cheating. None of this is accidental!
2. At the same time, we can borrow the wisdom of the subconscious, generate inspiration and creativity, and solve various problems in life and work.
From the above two aspects, the subconscious contains our old patterns and ideas, as well as unlimited potential in the future, which has a negative or positive impact on our behavior.
The core of entering the subconscious is relaxation and meditation.
Do you have such an experience? When running, taking a bath or even doing housework, inspiration will come out inadvertently, which is unexpected in meditation.
When you are nervous and anxious, it is impossible for your brain to be full of ideas, inspiration and creativity!
In addition to everyday casual actions, there are many ways to connect with the subconscious mind-for example, meditation, painting, writing, dreaming and so on.
Let life have a sense of ceremony. Choose one day a week, light candles and incense lamps, and through the above methods, talk to the subconscious alone and undisturbed, and seek answers from the subconscious.
To know that wisdom is beyond our reach, an inspiration may bring wealth, opportunities and good luck to your life and work!
I hope my answer is helpful to you.
I wish you a happy, prosperous and fruitful life!
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As hypnotists, we always deal with the subconscious. Use the following picture to show you that a person's subconscious mind is like the root of a big tree. The trunk, leaves and branches outside rely on the roots below to absorb nutrition, survive and grow. Whether the root under it grows well determines whether the tree grows tall, good or not, dense and so on.
So from the human point of view, the subconscious mind is like a video recorder with storage function, which records your life and stores all your experiences, emotions, feelings, thoughts and beliefs from birth to now. And these determine the way you interact with the outside world, behavior habits, thinking patterns, expressions and so on. Moreover, when you encounter an event similar to the past experience recorded in your subconscious mind in the future, it will often make you feel the same emotional feelings as the previous experience.
It has a protective effect. It judges what kind of behavior is safe for you based on your past experience. Even if some behaviors don't seem enlightened. For example, some people have been hurt in interpersonal communication, want to find a place to hide, and are afraid of being hurt again. Although we know that this is not a long-term solution, at that moment, hiding is the simplest and most direct way for this person to keep himself safe.
In addition, the subconscious will play a protective role, and you will not remember all negative emotions and feelings at the conscious level. Just like some people are afraid of the dark, but they don't know why. In hypnosis, we can find that it was an experience in childhood that made him afraid of the dark environment.
Because of this, when people have some negative emotions because of certain things, they often don't know where the sources of these emotions are. Superficial events are only incentives, and the real root lies in the negative experiences of past experiences stored in the subconscious.
Subconscious, as its name implies, is a person's latent consciousness, which usually refers to the phenomenon that ideological activities and behaviors occur first without our attention.
It sounds strange, but it does exist in everyone's mind.
For example, a basketball player, after a long period of exercise, can accurately throw the basketball into the frame according to the position of his feet without even looking at the frame; Old drivers can also grasp the direction and speed of the car while thinking about the problem. There are many such situations. When you don't know, the subconscious has done a lot for you.
In fact, this is also a sign of familiarity with others. Similar to muscle memory, your body has taken the first step before your brain reacts. It is in the same scene that too much experience and simulation will lead to habitual reactions.
Of course, the role of the subconscious mind has applications in many commercial and catering service places. For example, some fast-paced songs will be played in general fast food restaurants, which will make you subconsciously speed up eating, which will also promote the growth of passenger flow; In general business places, you will choose cool colors and more formal and solemn decorations, which will make you feel solemn subconsciously, help you stay focused at work, and effectively avoid frolicking during working hours; The dim atmosphere and colorful lights of KTV in nightclubs can give you a feeling of venting indulgence.
They use colors, lights, sound effects or other factors to stimulate your senses, make you feel different in different scenes and convey different information to you. These are the functions of the subconscious mind.
Several people upstairs have introduced the definition of subconscious completely. Here, I want to talk about how the subconscious controls people. A person's values, outlook on life and world outlook are constantly improved through the growth of age, forming a set of evaluation system that people are beneficial to things, people are harmful to things, and right and wrong are good and evil. Conversely, think carefully about whether your actions follow this system. Everyone's behavior is combined into group behavior and social behavior, which eventually forms the lifestyle of a country or nation.
So, what you think is good, yes, useful can guide you forward, and what you think is evil, wrong and harmful can guide you away. It can be used for personal and group influence.
What is the subconscious? Without effective training, it is difficult to distinguish the subconscious from the conscious. For example, your child is going to attend a speech. He may not take it too seriously, but it's just an ordinary thing in ordinary life. However, if you are worried that he will be nervous, just tell him: don't be nervous, it's okay, don't be afraid! Your child's subconscious signals are negative energy such as "tension", "fear" and "don't". Because the subconscious does not distinguish, it directly receives and feeds back to the consciousness, and the behavior and spirit begin to be nervous and afraid, and even panic, and even ask themselves, "Don't" participate?
Accordingly, if you are relaxed, and the language conveyed to your child is "relax", "go bravely" and "you are the best", then his subconscious will tell him that he has finished his words easily and that he is the best.
This is the energy of language. It's all energy waves. Thoughts are expressed through language, which affects the subconscious through energy waves, and the subconscious decides everything. Therefore, you are rich, you are happy, you are full of love, you are light, you are the universe, you are the energy body of love. You should say this every day. For yourself and the people around you, the law of attraction will naturally bring you into the incredibly powerful energy center of the universe.
You are full of energy!
Hello, thank you very much for your invitation. My view on this issue is:
The subconscious mind can guide our life towards goodness, beauty and health.
If your heart is chaotic, you can see that the world is chaotic.
The more you think, the more trouble you will encounter; If you don't want anything, there will be no trouble.
The more you are afraid, the more others will bully you; Nobody dares to bully you.
If you have a good personality, others will take advantage of you. If you have some skills, you will make you happy.
So don't just give in. When you feel wronged, you must bravely say "no".
You can smile and face the best life.
The subconscious mind is like the subconscious mind of your actions. If your subjective consciousness is strong, you will have selective obsessive-compulsive disorder. In fact, the stronger your subconscious mind is, the stronger your feelings will be, and you will be more decisive when choosing a decision. However, if your subconscious is too strong, you will easily commit crimes, and even your IQ will deteriorate, without guilt or fear. Because you follow your subconscious and don't even consider the consequences, there are many crimes that you regret afterwards.
Sometimes you can't feel the subconscious, even some original sins, the source of evil. If you can try to be friends with your subconscious, just like the little demons and angels in comics.
Affect the subconscious. Personally, smoking, drinking and eating lead will greatly affect subjective judgment, and then the subconscious will come up. Easy to get angry, like unrestrained, casual. People who are often vegetarians are calm, don't want to invade others, and some even tolerate others and look honest.
The subconscious has a great influence on people, but it is not impossible to completely control it. It needs systematic and repeated training, because subconscious actions and habits are the most difficult to change.
Why is it so difficult to lose weight? Even most people's troubles, your food intake and eating habits are remembered by the subconscious mind. Eating less is very cold, just like some people are infected with drugs.
There is also a subconscious called vanity, lying and bragging, and doing whatever it takes to achieve its goals. The subconscious contains too much. To sum up, your personality, your hobbies and even your lover are all subconscious choices. If you remove the subconscious, you are a fool like a robot, but at the same time, if you remove the subjective consciousness, you are a walking corpse. The devil and angel in people's minds are the whole person and your own soul.
How does the subconscious affect a person's behavior?
I don't know how to interpret the subconscious. Personally, I think it is a kind of subjective consciousness, and it is the inner thinking that foresees what will happen or appear. Its emergence is related to the innate inspiration sensitivity of individuals, as well as the acquired social experience and life experience.
When a person subconsciously feels that something or a job will continue, there will be risks or some uncontrollable situation, so he must immediately stop or take preventive and control measures to prepare for the unexpected. Believe in the sixth sense, because this is a potential, unknown but real three-dimensional space to perceive the world (don't be afraid), hee hee!
The subconscious is a wonderful thing, which dominates people's speech and behavior. But we don't know.