What's it like to be in love? 1. The feeling of being in love is to be able to perceive your thoughts and understand your implication. No matter whether the other party is straightforward or euphemistic, you can feel the content of the other party's thoughts, and even you can get the only answer that the other party wants, which is simply the same frequency and channel.
2, the feeling of love, even if the beauty is in the eyes of the lover, you can look directly at your own shortcomings. Even if you are madly in love, you have rational thinking and always have a relatively objective understanding of each other's advantages and disadvantages intellectually. You won't regard people with many shortcomings as perfect, and then you will continue to forgive those who constantly tolerate this shortcoming.
3, the feeling of love, that is, unprincipled questions generous, principled questions do not give in. After lovers enter the role of love, they often make the parties lose the basic principles of communication with others. I'm sorry it's not love. Is to use each other. True love is to stick to your principled position and never let go of what you can't let go.
4, the feeling of love, that is, emotions must be equal, such as obedience is pure humility. Although a girl in love has the privilege of being a princess, true love should not appear as a princess. The love status of the two is equal. Even if the other person is obedient to you or absolutely respects you, it should be the humility of the other person to love you.
5, the feeling of love, is not a day, such as Sanqiu and each other's inner world. Not only do I miss Sanqiu every day, but I trust Sanqiu every other day. The former should have sweet aftertaste rather than thinking, while the latter should have certainty and self-discipline rather than drifting with the tide.
How to find the feeling of love? Who says shopping and watching movies is the patent of love?
When you are in love, you will feel that shopping and watching movies are normal. But after marriage, because of the troubles of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, you will think that watching movies is a waste of money. If you think shopping is a waste of time, you will have a dull life. However, don't be blinded by the life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar after marriage, and pursue a wonderful life. As a wife, it is also good to accompany her husband to see a movie, go shopping and relive the feeling of love in the busy life, adding a little excitement to life.
Find some fun in a boring life.
After marriage, many people will work and have families, but there are many temptations outside, so my husband's boring life is easily infected by the outside world. In the face of this monotonous day, wouldn't it be better if the wife could let her husband add some fresh feelings to her life? As Connor, the master of saving marriage, said, "When life changes and interests change, there will naturally be a sense of freshness between husband and wife, which will promote the sublimation of feelings." Showing tacit understanding in front of everyone, isn't this a bonus for feelings?
Know how to create some emotional appeal
Copying lifestyle can easily cause men to get bored, and even rationalize it as' life with you is boring'. When marriage has reached the end of boredom, it is easy for a husband to have an affair outside.
Eight skills to find the feeling of love. Listen.
How long do you usually spend listening to your partner? According to a statistic, lovers in love spend an average of 75% of their time staring at each other, while the average eye contact of their partners is only 30-60%. Psychologist Rubin pointed out that looking directly into each other's eyes can induce the brain to release phenylethylamine, which is a natural enkephalin and one of the chemicals that fall in love. When you stare at your partner intently, let him know that his words have been heard and you are interested in his topic. Once you really "hear" the other person, your self-awareness will disappear, open your heart to the other person and keep emotional intimacy.
generous
Do a job that TA doesn't like for your other half, such as mopping the floor, cleaning, washing the car, or unexpectedly giving a small gift, squeezing a glass of juice for him and helping her put bath water, so as to ensure that TA is extremely moved and immediately adds points to love.
Body contact
Not necessarily devoted sex, such as squeezing together on the sofa while watching TV, hugging, kissing, rubbing, touching the back of your partner's hand or massaging his shoulder and neck when riding in the car, can increase intimacy.
support
Bless or participate in your partner's hobby activities, give praise and support; If you meet the other person for further study, meeting or business trip, take the initiative to help take care of the children and help them realize their dreams.
Share a sense of humor
Private jokes, slapstick or playing dumb are all good ways to enhance feelings. Many men complain that the other half only concentrates on being a mother and forgets to be a woman after having children. "I only give orders to the whole family all day, and the girl who used to love to spoil and dream is gone." Parsons' No Friends profoundly describes the disappointed and lost men and women in marriage.
Happy together
"Play is like lubricant," said Dr. Brown. Couples who can play together can enhance their adaptability and make their feelings last. Otherwise, old Yan Xi will either go their separate ways or become "you go your way, I'll cross my wooden bridge" ... and both sides are living in an unpleasant relationship like a survival endurance competition. Brown suggested that instead of sitting there blaming and criticizing each other, we should stand up and explore real happiness.
* * * Grow together
Don't trap the relationship between the two sides in a fixed pattern, but constantly explore new areas of each other. On the one hand, join his camp, but also give the other side room to "be yourself". For example, if the other half likes reading, he should be allowed to have his own quiet corner; The other half likes playing ball. You can try to be his friend, or at least be a cheerleader on the sidelines.
Try new things
You don't need a dick like Coolidge effect jokes, and you don't need to change partners. Life can still be full of fun and excitement. For example, cook three meals together, travel to places you have never been before, and then take wedding photos.