First, educating children is not only a family matter, but also a social matter. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. What parents do, how children learn. In addition, schools, society and children's education also have unshirkable responsibilities. Everyone is a child of the environment. A good environment is very important for children's growth and development. Schools give children positive traditional education; Society, giving children love and responsibility. Parents, schools and society jointly build a great cause of educating children.
Second, in the face of Xiong Haizi, education is definitely necessary. But it doesn't have to be stopped directly. Dayu's water control is not blocking, but dredging. So is educating Xiong Haizi. Just stop, Xiong Haizi probably ignores it. Only by persuasion. The reason why the child is Xiong Haizi is because he has no sense of rules and only considers his own feelings, which is a bit selfish. For such children, it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine. The best gift for children is an example. Do what you want Xiong Haizi to do.
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Generally speaking, parents are in charge of their own children, because even if their children have bad places, others will correct them, and parents will have bad feelings in their hearts. If Xiong Haizi is rude, his parents should be the first to stop him. Followed by his relatives. As a stranger, just watch. Well-intentioned dissuasion and teaching will not work.
Perhaps it is because many parents have no certificates that they know nothing about educating their children.
Besides, I feel like a parent. If I have the ability to have you, I can control you. I can control you at will. Unreasonable. Call if you want, and buy if you want. You are my patent. Although there are not many such parents, they do exist.
Some parents are above me and think that you have to listen to me. It doesn't make any sense, let alone negotiate.
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Every move of parents will affect their children, so what parents say and do is very important.
Ordinary parents love their children very much, but they can't spoil them. Children often make a lot of demands. Parents should guide correctly and not promise everything.
For example, many children have a partial eclipse at the dinner table, and correctly guiding children to have a partial eclipse is not good for our health. Then eat less, but not everything.
How long does the child have a regular rest when studying? How long does it take to bathe him? It's time to make a timetable and implement it in place, especially for primary school students.
There are also parents who have to study at the prescribed time. For example, if they see good things in books, they should also share them with their children. If they see something bad, they should correct it in time. You can also let your child read a book and tell it to you, saying that his ideas are easy to understand and remember.
You can show cartoons to your children at a fixed time, and you can accompany them. After watching an animated cartoon, talk about your own ideas. Different opinions, so sure. Deepen parent-child affection
Many times, children are regarded as their friends and communicate with each other at the same level, so that children will tell you what they really think.
Every child is very smart, and sometimes he will deviate from the right track. Just put it right in time.
I hope every parent can read more books, educate their children well and let you live a happy life.
Education is not only a matter for schools, but also for families and the whole society.
Should Xiong Haizi's unreasonable words and deeds be stopped? This problem is worth discussing.
First, behind every bear Haizi, there may be a bear parent.
Some people say that children are "copies" of their parents. If the information on the "copy" is wrong, it must be that the "original" is wrong. When children grow up, they will unconsciously imitate the words and deeds of adults.
My son was injured by a boy in his class in the second grade. After communicating with the teacher to understand the situation, I communicated with the parents who beat the children, trying to guide the children to solve their own problems properly in order to minimize the harm to the children. As a result, the husband and wife are more excited than the other side, and even want to "contract the war." Maybe the way children solve problems by force is what they hear.
Sometimes we can see that some Xiong Haizi has no respect for the elderly. It is very likely that his parents revealed their dissatisfaction or disrespect for their elders in their words and deeds!
For Xiong Haizi, who obviously has a father and a mother, unreasonable words and deeds have probably become a habit, and one or two interventions by onlookers will not immediately make Xiong Haizi better. This requires all of us to kindly point out when Xiong Haizi's words and deeds are inappropriate, and form a good social atmosphere.
Second, Xiong Haizi's growth environment and stage
We often hear some very young children swear in immature voices, mostly out of imitation. Either parents and family members or people around them often say, and sometimes they don't even know where to hear a word they don't understand. Say that finish, everyone around you laughed. At this time, the child is encouraged and thinks that he is very capable! When we meet abusive children, as bystanders, we must not encourage them. At the very least, you should show your disgust at swearing.
For adolescent children, they are extremely sensitive and rebellious. For children's improper words and deeds at this stage, we should pay special attention to the ways and means when intervening in children's improper words and deeds, and we must not cause harm to children.
Third, in the face of Xiong Haizi's improper words and deeds,
If we are victims of children's improper words and deeds, we should deal with them directly in person. The first is to safeguard his dignity and interests, and the second is to let Xiong Haizi know that his improper words and deeds have had adverse consequences and he has to bear them. If we are bystanders, we should also take care of it in order to maintain the social atmosphere. Every child has self-esteem and wants to be respected by others. Therefore, we should try our best to control Xiong Haizi's unreasonable words and deeds, but we must pay attention to the ways and means.
What would Xiong Haizi do if he only bears in his own house? What do his parents care about? What does it have to do with me? No matter what he does. But if he plays with bears in public and affects the interests of the public and others, I will definitely care! What is the need for me to spoil him? What qualifications does he have to make others put up with him? You should let the frog know that the sky outside is not only the size of his window, but you should also follow the rules of walking in the world when you leave home. His play with the bear influenced others. His parents ignored him, but we ignored him, which not only educated him, but also protected our rights.
1. If you meet Xiong Haizi and do something bad, you should educate him even if he is not your own, but you should also pay attention to whether his parents allow you to teach his children a lesson. Generally, there are parents behind Xiong Haizi. Some children have done something wrong, and their parents are particularly eccentric. Therefore, the recently proposed "proof of parents' employment" is quite reasonable.
2. Some Xiong Haizi are just influenced by bad family education, and they are not bad in essence. If he can listen to your education, you can educate him more and guide him to the right path.
Educating children is the same thing for parents, families, schools and society. It will definitely be stopped, or someone will stop it in the society in the future.