In modern society, whenever we see that people around us need help, we will choose to take the initiative to help. When taking the subway or bus, many people will give up their seats if they find old people and pregnant women around them. There is nothing wrong with this behavior itself. Even many subways and buses will specially mark the love seat, but the love seat does not mean that it is only provided for these people. Normal passengers can also use the love seat.
What's the news
The news happened in Shanghai. In the process of a girl taking the subway, an old man came in and forcibly gave up her love seat. After the girl refused, the old man around her forcibly pulled the girl and said some abusive words. According to the old man, it is natural for young people to give up their seats, so he doesn't think there is anything wrong with his behavior. The behavior of the old man has aroused the resentment of many netizens.
Love seats are not so-called patents.
Personally, we do take the initiative to take care of the elderly around us, but taking care of the elderly is our business, not our business. In real life, not only the elderly and pregnant women need the help of people around them, but also many passengers themselves will have discomfort symptoms. I don't think all passengers need to give their seats to these old people. Such behavior itself belongs to moral kidnapping.
We are not qualified to force others to give us their seats.
There is a very good saying: it is not that some people are getting worse, but that some people are getting old. I think we need to treat people around us as fairly and kindly as possible, and at the same time, we need to try our best to understand the motives of others. For an old man, young people can really help him give up his seat, but the old man can't take this kind of thing for granted, because this idea is too arrogant.