It is a long wait before you find the person who really makes your heart beat. Netizens once launched a survey online - how many men should a woman sleep with in her life? Combining multiple viewpoints, the final conclusion is as follows: Zero = Living in vain One = Losing two to three = Traditional three to five = Normal five to ten = Enough ten to fifteen = A bit busy Fifteen to twenty = A bit chaotic twenty To thirty = a bit tired. Thirty to fifty = too open. Over fifty = I looked at this set of numbers completely. The women found it very interesting, and the men were shocked. Statistics were an activity that was only reserved for men a few years ago. . Women are so fierce today! In fact, before studying "how many relationships do you need to fall in love before getting married, and how many men do you need to find enough to be a good person?", let's try to figure out what is "a good person"? If it could be quantified, it couldn't be simpler - age, physical loss, makeup, shoes and socks, time spent on gifts, meals, contraceptive pills, and brain cells dying due to mood swings." According to this calculation, the more men there are, the thinner the losses will be spread. The problem is that love is not a smile. , how many women originally calculated their input and output in this way? After all, it is just for happiness and satisfaction. Who has sex between men and women? Whether it is a man sleeping with a woman or a woman sleeping with a man, both men and women have different opinions, and it is difficult to tell the winner, but the opinions of the people around them still influence people's thinking. You might as well imagine such a scenario, a handsome guy and a beautiful woman. After a night, the next day, the man showed off to his buddies: "I slept with a beautiful woman yesterday. She has a slim waist and long legs." Everyone next to her was drooling. At the same time, this beautiful woman was also talking about her. One of the sisters announced: "I slept with another handsome guy yesterday, and he surrendered within a few minutes." Someone in the audience showed a look of disdain. The same thing, the same propaganda, the attitude of the audience determines the sense of accomplishment for a man. Who is the woman sleeping with whom? Answer: Neither the man nor the woman is sleeping with the other, or the answer is a bit convoluted, but it is true. One way of saying is that the man is sleeping with the woman or the woman is sleeping with the other. Men are unfair and one-sided. In nature, if there is yin, there must be yang, and if there is a female, there must be a male. The combination of yin and yang, and the mating of male and female create a colorful world. With organs that can invade the body of the opposite sex, it is said that a man has slept with a woman. There seems to be a story in Mr. Lu Xun's book: The emperor saw many palace ladies listless and depressed, and many imperial doctors could not find the cause. At this time, there was a visiting doctor called "Ten Strong Men". After a few days, all the palace ladies were in high spirits, but all the strong men looked yellow and hungry. The emperor was puzzled and pointed at the strong man and asked, "What's going on?" The eunuch replied, "This is medicine dregs." You said, who is sleeping with whom? So, as long as a man and a woman are in love, everything will be fine. There is no such thing as someone sleeping with someone. The famous "Spiritual Victory Method" expert said this: "You hit me?" It’s just the son beating up the father! "Everyone knows that hitting someone in the face with your hand hurts the face. The face is the recipient of the attack, not the initiator of the attack. If you insist that it was your face that hit someone else's hand, you really think that if someone steps on you, it means you are hurt. It is undoubtedly ignorance and self-deception. When the hand and the face collide, is the hand hitting the face, or the face hitting the hand? The answer is clear: "Spiritual victory". It is tantamount to "beating the hand with the face." I think the way biologists distinguish male and female, male and female, and male and female has already destined the emergence of such a psychological state. When we see a new higher animal, we must determine its gender. , generally speaking, those who are pregnant with offspring are called females, those with protruding external genitals are called males, even plugs and sockets are divided into male and female, and those with electrodes for insertion are called "males" , and the opposite is called "mother".
Women are easily injured psychologically and are at a disadvantage both physically and socially. Now we don’t even allow them to use the spiritual victory method. It’s so inhumane! So when I heard an 18-year-old girl say that she started playing with men when she was 15, I remained silent. When "Muzi Mei" claimed to have had more than 60 men and wanted to scare everyone, I remained silent. Women thought The effect of hitting men with words and spirit is tantamount to "slapping the hands with the face." Every woman who shouts "sleeping with men" must have deep scars in her heart, because they always carry a sense of humiliation in their hearts that they are "sleeped" by men as women, a sense of being messed up by men. The frustration of abandonment is their revenge. They desperately tell themselves that they have the same qualifications as men to abandon and sleep with each other. They imply that they have won, but in fact they are losing more and more. Being beaten is being beaten. After receiving a slap, if you want to turn your face into iron so that you will no longer feel pain, it will only lead to this result: Although there is no hand to hit you, there will never be another hand. Although you won't feel pain if you touch it, you will never have a mouth to kiss again. The last thing you should do is to use other people's mistakes to punish yourself. When playing with women's bodies and emotions is called "getting on", "doing", "playing", and "playing", these are morally despised things in themselves. It's just wrong. Women treat the entire society in such a wrong way, trying to "punish" those who hurt you. Who will be hurt in the end? Women with a revengeful mentality are inherently at a disadvantage in sexual matters because they have no protrusions on their bodies, and they do not have the external organ form to invade the body of the opposite sex. They have been passive for thousands of years, and now they are shouting "We are all sleeping" This is a psychological revenge on men. The root cause is that they once expected their emotional destination but could not get it, so they embarked on the road of revenge on men. They thought they were following the way of men and repaying them. Human body. Every injustice has its owner, and every debt has its owner. When you can't punish the person you hate, but can only hurt yourself and innocent people, who will suffer in the end? Let me give you a very simple example. Cold viruses have been around since ancient times. When someone infects you with a cold, you may hate it, you may be afraid, you may cry bitterly, but instead of actively treating it, you may If you use revenge, you will infect others, and you will take revenge on others. Will your disease be cured as a result? Can you expect that the person who infected you will be able to infect the person back to him one day? To give another simple example, a netizen sent you a virus. You were poisoned, but from now on you no longer trust anything sent to you by anyone, even if it is Mid-Autumn Festival blessings or birthday cards. Who is the loser? It’s still you, you’ve lost your happiness, you’ve lost your trust, you’ve lost your friends, you’ve lost the joy of surfing the Internet, that’s it, loved ones are in pain, enemies are happy, virus perpetrators are proud of their victory, this is retribution. When can it happen again? We should think deeply about whether this kind of "sleeping" between men and women is a state, a result or a behavior? If it is just a unilateral satisfaction that does not involve any emotional factors, it is indeed a low-level, low-quality, animal-level way of venting. It is not much different from burping, farting, and pooping. If you treat a woman as a toilet, you yourself It becomes excrement. If you use men as sex toys, you will be no different from an inflatable doll. Sex without soul and love is unfulfilling. Men should not think that by lying on the ground, the whole earth will be destroyed. Women should also be reminded here. Don't think that by changing the posture of a woman on top of a man, wearing pants that open in the front, and using a toilet where you stand to pee, you will take revenge on everyone in the world. man. Men and women should never be ashamed of sex or use it as a way to show off. It is a private matter. Generally speaking, moral traditions and social values ??have stricter requirements for women. Women should respect themselves, and men should respect women even more!