A successful man? How can I put this? Different people have different outlook on life, world view and values, so naturally the definition of success is different.
No matter what others think, let me tell you what a successful man looks like in my understanding:
1. Successful career!
When we bless others, we usually say that we have a successful career, so I think a successful man is a successful man!
No matter in the ancient feudal society or our present socialist society, how can a man be successful if he doesn't even have his own career?
without your own career, how can you support your family and enjoy life! Without a successful career, how can you give your family a happy living environment and how can you make your family worry about food and clothing!
and am I a successful man? Strictly speaking, it is unsuccessful! Although I have a decent job and a stable income now, I can only say that I can't survive and I can't be hungry. There is no big development and no big future, and it is not a successful career.
two: harmony between husband and wife!
The husband and wife live in harmony, and the young couple's loving man is definitely a successful man!
If you want a harmonious husband and wife, at least this man should have a wife! How difficult it is to marry a wife in this society now! This means that this man has survived a series of processes, such as blind date (love), buying a house, bride price, marriage, running-in period and so on, before he slowly came to today.
Such a man has not only withstood all kinds of difficult tests, but also met a wife who is very sensible and considerate, so the young couple will be kind and loving, so I think such a man is a successful man!
as for me, I'm a successful man! I have also withstood all kinds of tests before marriage, and now I live with my wife with kindness and love, which is very harmonious. So from this point of view, I am really a successful man!
three: good health!
As the saying goes, love your wife, love your child and love your family. No health is zero! So I think a healthy man is a successful man! Because he managed to avoid too much damage!
In today's materialistic society, many black-hearted businessmen think about how to make money all day. The potential threats around us are not only food safety and building safety, but also other natural disasters and man-made disasters. Since a man has successfully escaped so many disasters and still maintained a healthy body, do you dare to say that he is unsuccessful?
Of course, there are some subjective factors that affect our health, such as whether this man has developed a good living habit and whether this man knows how to cherish himself. If a man doesn't even know how to cherish his own body, how can he cherish the people around him?
Needless to say, I must be a very successful man in this field!