When I was a student, "teacher" has always been a figure that people look up to in my mind, which makes me fascinated, but this fascinating figure always gives me a sense of being out of reach. of mystery. After joining the teaching profession, I gradually realized that I should not be the "back figure" of students, but should shorten the distance with students, enter their hearts, and be a charming teacher. What exactly is a charismatic teacher? In my opinion, a charming teacher may not have ideal working conditions, or he may not have a handsome appearance or a beautiful face, but he must be naturally simple, optimistic and confident. He will treat students kindly with a beautiful heart and bring joy and happiness to students with his outstanding work. So why do you want to be a charismatic teacher?
The ancients said: "Know the teacher and believe in the teaching." The teacher's affinity is the key to opening the window of students' souls, a bridge that structures communication between teachers and students, and a link to build a good classroom atmosphere. It can inspire students to respect and admire you, thereby achieving the purpose of "believing in the truth". Charm is a teacher's main source of attracting students. I often hear students comment that they like a certain teacher and are very interested in listening to the class; but they don’t like a certain teacher and always feel drowsy during the class. Whether he can win the respect and love of students is not determined by unilateral factors. The teacher's knowledge, ability, temperament, moral cultivation and other comprehensive qualities, it can also be said that his charm determines whether he is popular with students. And it is whether this is popular with students that determines whether we can deliver joy and happiness to students while achieving our teaching goals. ?So, how to become a charming teacher? I think we can start from the following aspects:
1. A charming teacher must first have personality charm
Use healthy and correct ideas to educate students, and use their noble ideas to educate students. The soul, words and deeds infect and influence students. This is the charm of teachers' personality. The famous Russian educator Ushensky once said: "Only personality can most affect the development and formation of personality." Only with the spirit of selfless dedication of "come with a heart and leave without a blade of grass." Only by nurturing talents with enthusiasm can it have a mind-shaking power on students and have a lasting influence. This reminds me of my history teacher in junior high school. He was talented, but he paid too much attention to the rewards. He transferred his anger to the classroom many times because his salary was not entrusted to him, and the whole classroom was in a mess. Just imagine this. Teacher, how can we educate students with healthy and correct ideas? .
An educator said it well: "Cultivating personality with personality is the simplest, clearest and most effective educational method." Personality in education is to combine social moral norms and socialist spiritual civilization It is required to be personified and to embody this moral code through human personality. This kind of personalized education has a profound and long-lasting impact on young people. In the implementation of quality education, we must not ignore the potential role of teachers' personality and should give full play to the unique charm of teachers' personality.
2. Charming teachers who are also extremely knowledgeable
Teaching and educating people is an art, and the charm of teachers lies in their wisdom. A charming teacher should have profound knowledge. The so-called "learn from the high to become a teacher". The cultural image of teachers is the core of the teacher's image. As a teacher, you must have a certain professional level, and you need to constantly learn, update your knowledge structure, master more cultural resources, and constantly innovate your educational concepts and improve your concepts.
Students cannot acquire knowledge without the teaching of teachers. The domestic education circle generally agrees that teachers must have a compound knowledge structure in four aspects: first, self-knowledge, that is, knowledge that is good at self-knowledge and self-criticism; second, general knowledge, that is, basic humanities and scientific knowledge; third, professional knowledge. That is to have a deep understanding and mastery of the knowledge system in the subject field in which one is engaged; the fourth is educational scientific knowledge, that is, the knowledge to optimize teaching practice. It can be seen that it is not enough for teachers to master basic knowledge such as psychology, pedagogy, and computer operation.
"As a teacher in the 21st century, his knowledge should not be limited to the subject he teaches. He can also know what the Internet is, what a chat room is, and even what OICQ and MSN are. A teacher with broad knowledge and skills "Teachers can always bring surprises to their students. We like teachers who can give us a sense of freshness and charm," one student said.
3. Attractive teachers should have the spirit of pioneering and diligent learning
Today, with the rapid development of science and technology, various disciplines are intersecting and multiplying, emerging disciplines are emerging one after another, and society is becoming more and more complex. There is an increasing need for “comprehensive” talents—including, of course, “generalist teachers.” In this case, the amount of knowledge relationship between teachers and students can no longer be reflected by the "bucket of water" and "glass of water" in the past. Therefore, teachers can no longer rest on their laurels and satisfy their existing academic level and knowledge capacity, but should redouble their efforts. You must learn deeply and thoroughly about the knowledge and skills of this major. At the same time, you must read widely, read extensively, and strive to expand your knowledge. In the eyes of junior high school students, teachers seem to be omnipotent, and what students admire is teachers who specialize in multiple skills. Therefore, if a teacher wants to win the trust and love of students throughout his life, he must be a person with a strong sense of innovation, a person who is constantly learning, diligently studying, good at learning, lifelong learning, courageous and enterprising, and enterprising with the times. They should have the excellent qualities of being tireless in learning, tireless in teaching, and striving for excellence. Therefore, no matter how busy you are as a teacher, you must find time and create conditions to study diligently, study unremittingly, and develop a tireless habit of learning. Only teachers who are never satisfied with knowledge can become role models for students to learn and pursue; the spirit of pioneering and diligent learning is the charm of teachers.
4. Charming teachers should be full of happiness
Happy teachers are full of ideals and pursuits. He loves his career and understands the profound meaning of "making every student a talent and an adult" and "for the development of every child". He should pursue it, because only a brilliant life can cultivate brilliant vitality. There is passion only when there is pursuit, pursuit and passion are together, passion and life vitality are together, and life vitality and joy are together.
Happy teachers should be full of confidence. Self-confidence makes people self-improvement, and appropriate "pride" can make people successful. Only self-confidence can maximize a person's potential and talents. We must fully believe in the infinite potential of students and ourselves. Only self-confidence can enable people to obtain "peak experiences." Don't lose your self-confidence due to temporary setbacks. Only by constantly hitting every dark spot of success can you spark the spark of success. If the teacher stops banging, it means that he has lost the meaning of life and lost confidence in his own existence.
"Teaching should be a profession that makes human beings and themselves better. He should not be a candle, weeping until dawn, burning himself and illuminating others. Teachers should be like the morning glow and auspicious clouds, Reflecting the red sky and illuminating the world, it also shows its own beauty and splendor, enjoying the joy and happiness of education. ”
Teachers can’t just talk about “dedication” – just “dedication”. Teachers of this type are "withered", and "withered" teachers lack stamina and cannot provide continuously upgraded "nurturing" to rapidly growing students. Some people say that education is hard, but I firmly believe that "education is also hard, tiring, and refreshing." Yes, not to mention the relief of being among the top students after hard work, just the colorful rainbow reflected by the sunshine in their pure hearts is enough to comfort them. Isn't it? When you receive letters and greeting cards filled with admiration and gratitude, filled with fiery passion, and when you learn that they have achieved fruitful results in various fields, you will feel that you are the happiest person in the world. People, you will throw away all worries and anxieties without hesitation and devote yourself to a new round of burning.
5. Charismatic teachers must be loyal to the cause of education
The charm of teachers also comes from loyalty to the cause.
They do not regard teaching as a means of making a living, but devote themselves to it without any selfish thoughts. They regard teaching and educating people as their noble duty, and they can enjoy the joy of life from it. They exchange their sincerity for the students' sincerity, use their own integrity to build the students' integrity, use their own purity to shape the students' purity, and use their own noble qualities to cultivate the noble qualities of the students. They are the ones who best lead by example. Teachers who regard teaching as a means of making a living and care about gains and losses of fame, fortune and money all day long are unlikely to train students correctly in their outlook on life, values ??and money. Teachers who only care about gains and losses of money, fame and fortune but not students are obviously incompetent in the eyes of their students. Uncharismatic. This reminds me of a story I saw in the newspaper: an ordinary teacher worked hard for decades and dedicated all his love and knowledge to his beloved students. Later, he fell ill due to overwork and died prematurely. After his death, students, parents, and mourners turned out in large numbers. The resulting shock wave broke through the campus and shocked the society. Why is this teacher so shocking? I think it is precisely because of his loyalty to education that he has great charisma, which creates a powerful shocking force.
6. Charming teachers should care and love their students
"Having students in their hearts" is not something to talk about, but to truly keep in mind. I believe that teachers who have students in mind should do the following:
1. Care for students. The 83-year-old Mr. Huo Maozheng, a famous special teacher in my country, said: "Teacher love is the soul of teachers' ethics. Without love, education will be impossible." Wei Shusheng also said that we must give students a "broad and profound love" ". An article on teachers' moral education that was once popular in Tianya Community also mentioned "If I don't beat you or scold you, I will torture you with love." To look at students with the eyes of love is to develop the students' strengths, discover and strengthen their shining points, and at the same time tolerate the students' shortcomings and give them patient guidance and opportunities to correct their mistakes. On the other hand, loving students not only warms the students, but also warms themselves. The teachers themselves become comfortable because they see the beautiful side, and they also have enthusiasm and motivation for their work. This is a realm of education as well as a realm of life.
2. Face the students with a smile. The charm of smile education is endless, and smiles can enhance students' self-confidence. Psychologists believe that self-confidence is the source of releasing potential and an important guarantee for people to overcome difficulties and achieve success. Excellent students will improve themselves and surpass themselves in the teacher's smile; timid students will build confidence and courage in the teacher's smile; students who have made mistakes will feel understanding and tolerance in the teacher's smile. Therefore, let us give students more smiles and encouragement.
3. Have a sense of humor. Humor is not only a display of teachers’ personality charm, but also a manifestation of educational wit and innovation ability. Surveys by Chinese and foreign education show that among the types of teachers most popular among students in the future, having a sense of humor has become one of the indispensable qualities of teachers. one. Humor is the catalyst that creates joy in teaching. Humorous teaching language is full of magnetism and charm. The knowledge students receive while laughing can often be remembered for life. Humor is the lubricant that integrates the relationship between teachers and students. As the pace of life and study accelerates, many students yearn for that moment of relaxation in the midst of heavy homework study. When students doze off in class, when students forget to bring their textbooks, when students fail a test and are sad, you might as well show a little bit of your talent for humor. Your inadvertent bit of humor brings not only laughter and understanding to students, but also confidence and happiness.
In short, to be a charming teacher is to sincerely care for students, tolerate students, embrace students, and make them feel that you are a real person, not an unreachable figure. Let them feel that you are not an educational machine, but a learning partner. Only in this way can teachers gain the respect and trust of students, and education will have magical power.
Being a charming teacher is not the exclusive preserve of those educators and special teachers.
If our teachers can dedicate their sincere "emotion" and sincere "love" to the children, use their noble personality to conquer the children, and make them love the teacher and like learning from the heart, then they can also become a teacher. A charming teacher. Teachers, let us use our wisdom and innovative spirit together under the guidance of the new curriculum reform concept to become charming teachers in the new century!