My wife's recent behavior makes me feel very uneasy ... I want to ask, will men be moved by women outside after 50 years old?
I was puzzled when I saw it: 50 years old? Then why do you have to get married for more than twenty or thirty years? The children are probably getting married soon. Are you still cheating at your age? What is the picture?
Generally speaking, men may cheat for novelty, or they can't control their lower body at all. But an old man in his fifties has experienced all the ups and downs of his marriage for more than thirty years.
A 50-year-old man is not only mature and steady, but also thinks a lot. Of course, it is men themselves who know men best, so I made a survey on purpose. The theme of the survey is: Is it possible for a man to be moved by a woman outside at the age of 50?
See what these 50-year-old people say.
I once loved her, male, 52 years old, a civil servant.
To tell the truth, I never thought I would cheat when I got married.
I still remember swearing to my wife at the wedding that I would be loyal to her all my life. I really thought so at the time. Later, we had children, a family, a little quarrel and almost divorced, but we persisted in the end. Now that the children have grown up, there is nothing to worry about.
Not long ago, I contacted my first love again, and everything changed. We talk a lot every day, recalling stories of our youth and feeling our present life.
You know, my wife and I haven't talked much for a week.
Later, we made an appointment to meet. Her figure is a little out of shape, not as beautiful as when she was young. We swore at each other and then hugged each other tightly. Has it been 30 or 40 years? I didn't expect to fall in love and have sex with my first love at the age of 50. This is like a dream!
I swear I never covet her body, but I still can't control my body. Maybe first love is like a complex, which has been buried deep in my heart.
@ Life is like a dream, male, 50 years old, company executive.
I loved to play when I was young, and I had been entangled with many girls. I thought it was impossible to get married or get old. Indeed, my 50-year-old body no longer has the vitality of my 20 s and 30 s, which I deeply feel. But I still have a crush on beautiful young girls.
I enjoy her considerate care very much, and I can feel that life is passing by day by day, so I want not to regret it in my lifetime.
I also want to live a good life with my wife, but I can't help it when I see a beautiful young girl.
@ Story and Wine, male, 54 years old, office worker
Two years ago, when I was driving home, I saw a drunken girl lying on the side of the road. It is dangerous for a little girl to be alone on the side of the road. I thought his wife was not at home, so I took her home.
I didn't do anything wrong, just took care of her until midnight. Later, that girl was going to treat me to dinner to repay me. She went without much thought, and she got to know me in the long run.
This girl called me uncle, and praised me desperately every time, saying that young men are unreliable now, so I often chatted and ate with her as a little girl's intimate uncle.
Once, we were all drunk and opened a room in a daze. As a result, ... maybe it was because we were drunk or old, and there was no response below, so we put it down and never mentioned it again, and it never happened again.
So, it is better to earn money and live a good life. I'm tired of cheating, and I don't want to toss about any more.
@ Lost Lamb, male, 52 years old, freelance.
As a man, I can say responsibly: every man wants to cheat! Is to see if there is any actual action in the end. So men over 50 will be attracted to women outside, and I am the best example.
Last year, my son wanted to take us to travel abroad. I was too busy in other places to go. I'm the only one who comes home from work. My wife and children are still playing abroad, so I go drinking when I'm bored. Actually, I just want to have some fun. Men know that.
A few days later, I was chatting with a woman. In fact, there is no * * * topic. She is also an old woman, and she is a little lonely. Finally we went to bed. I lost touch with my wife after she came back. She also realized that she didn't bother me again.
My life is back on track. My son said that he would take us abroad again next year. I wonder if I want to go. ...
In fact, after reading the voices of these men, we will find that cheating is not the patent of bad men, and so are good men. Cheating is not a young phenomenon, it still exists after 50 years old.
A man's playboy really has nothing to do with age. A man's infidelity may be due to years of reunion, loneliness, or impulsive control of his body, but in either way, infidelity exists.
Maybe a man who looks honest to you has actually cheated many times. These uncertain factors have brought many difficulties to many people's marriage.
What should you do if you really meet such a man and make sure he is cheating?
First, don't try to kill him with a stick. After all, life is not for decades. He may have cheated and had an affair, but he is also a man who has been with you for half his life. How bad can it be?
Of course, don't forget this. After all, women should have their own dignity. You can file for divorce and make other demands that you are satisfied with, provided that the result is really what you want.
Don't jump to conclusions just because your husband is cheating. Other people's suggestions are based on other people's views and attitudes. All you have to do is choose the result you want, or you will regret it in the end.
In fact, instead of obsessing about whether men will be attracted to women outside after 50, it is better to spend energy on themselves, so that they can have more possibilities and choices in their lives, so that they can live with confidence at any age.
Do what you want to do and wear clothes you like. No matter what age, your mind can't change with age. A 50-year-old man may cheat, and a 50-year-old woman can have a "second spring" in life.
Don't always think that you are married and have children. Marriage is not the end of a woman's life. People who regard marriage as the ultimate goal of life are often difficult to be happy.
We all hope that our marriage will be happy, but if our husband really cheated, if misfortune really befalls us, we should have the confidence to say to ourselves: It doesn't matter, I deserve better.