Second, some people look polite and civilized, but they always give people a strong sense of distance. They must feel that they don't want to be disturbed and don't want to make friends with others. But if it is really difficult to ask for help or take the initiative to help, he will be unexpectedly warm-hearted and put himself in others' shoes. So you gradually find that he is not cold, but he is not used to dealing with people, fearing that he will look stupid if he is too deliberate.
Third, an uncertain tomorrow, an unknown future. Suddenly confused, but learn to stick to it.
In fact, many people don't hate their present life, but they just can't afford the life they want.
Everyone has a hard time. After going through it, you will feel that the things that were going to kill you at that time, so many situations that you think will not last, will gradually get better. No matter how slow it is, as long as you are willing to wait, it will become a thing of the past. And those you can't overcome temporarily, those you can't overcome, those you can't stand, those you can't stand, tell yourself that whatever can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.
Where are you when I'm black and blue, when I'm lonely and helpless, when my heart is too cold to curl up in the corner?
7. The older you get, the more you think those people who are dark, full of tricks and conspiracy theories are because they are not smart enough. This is roughly the opposite of what I knew when I was a child. Although there are individual differences, on the whole, people who are smart enough and evolve better are more inclined to choose fairness and justice, and are more likely to have frank and kind qualities. Luo Yonghao
8. What you can't forget is the memory, but the continuation is life. What I missed was just passing by.
Nine, we always like to constantly guess each other's feelings, constantly doubt each other's ideas, and then start to be afraid, start to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and start to blame ourselves for not doing well enough. Telling you too many facts is the beginning of loss.
Whether I am funny or not depends on whether the person standing opposite me and I are good or not.
Eleven, love this thing, time is critical, know too early or too late, will not do. - 《2046》
I don't want to love many people, even if you are as lonely as you see.
Thirteen, I used to think that quarreling with people I like won't destroy feelings, and we can abuse them. As long as one night passes, the smiling faces will pile up the next day and the complaints will disappear. When a person calmly chooses to leave, you will find that some of the damage you have given has overflowed his tolerance drawer. As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Learn to be calm before you speak.
14. True love is not a temporary affection, but an impulse to persist when you know that there is no result.
Fifteen, the heart is given, we must know that it is impossible to get it back unscathed.
Sixteen, the most is to stare at the infinite meaning, as if we met in previous lives.
17. How painful is it to gouge out the bone? I hope you will never be so miserable.
I will still believe in love, but I won't believe that love can last forever.
Nineteen, as long as you never give up, I am willing to accompany you to the end even for a lifetime. Friendship or love?
Twenty, the so-called happiness is: eating with parents, sleeping with lovers, and having friends at work. Happiness in life is not wealth, but affection, love and friendship. With these three things, we are very happy, and it is precisely this that is the most rare and extravagant happiness.
Give yourself more love and have more confidence in life.
Twenty-two, I have to meet four people in my life. The first is someone you love but don't love, the second is someone you love but don't love, the third is someone you love but can't be together, and the fourth is someone you don't necessarily love but end up together.
23. Those who are too busy criticizing others forget to review themselves.
The most hurtful thing is that the person who made you feel special yesterday makes you feel dispensable today.
25. It is you, yourself, your rich experience, your unique experience, your elegant or interesting hobby, your beautiful gesture of going all out to study and work, and your truest soul. He loves you only because you are you.
Twenty-six, don't rely too much on friendship, or spend a lot of time guessing whether people around you are sincere to you. Living alone won't kill you. Feeling lonely is a compulsory course for growing up, and everyone has to experience it. Life is a long road. If there is really no one to accompany you on a busy road, you should tell yourself that it is good to walk this road, there are better scenery ahead and better people are waiting.
Twenty-seven, love to leave, blame others, give up the roots and go to the west, all kinds. It's just an empty eye, an illusion.
28. I like your voice, just like I liked the smell of him at first.
I don't believe that my lover can become bosom friends after he leaves. I have friends from all over the city to get together for you.
I know when I look up, I will wait for you.
Thirty-one, always wait for a long time, always wait until there is no retreat, only to know that what you gave up with your own hands will never be encountered again in the days to come.
32. graduation photo's photo may be the only photo of you and your crush.
Work harder and be more successful.
Lofty ideals are like flowers growing on high mountains. If you want to do it, diligence is the rope to climb.
Different beliefs determine different fates!
Diligence is the password of your life, and you can translate a magnificent epic.
Time wasted casually will never be won back.
The brave fight the stormy waves without sinking, and the coward will drown in the calm sea.
Work harder and be more successful.
Success, you are the boss!
It is better to act at once than to grieve secretly.
Never say "I won't" or "impossible" because you haven't done it yet!
It doesn't matter where you stand now, what matters is which direction you are heading.
The firmness of goal is one of the most necessary sources of strength in personality, and it is also one of the sharp tools for success. Without it, genius will be in vain in the maze of uncertain contradictions.
What is success? That is, after all the roads leading to failure, there is only one road left, and that is the road to success.
Great undertakings are not accomplished by strength, speed and physical agility, but by the strength of character, will and knowledge.
The so-called genius is deceptive, and hard work is true.
Life without stress will be empty; Youth without stress will wither; Life without stress will be miserable.
Life is like a cup of coffee without sugar. It tastes bitter, but it has an endless aftertaste.
Set yourself a goal, one year, two years, five years. Maybe you are born worse than others. Through hard work, 70% of the fate can often be changed. Broken pots and broken falls can only be friends with cowardice.
When the tears run out, the rest should be strong.
What is failure? Failure is the first step to a better place.
No sowing, no harvest; Without hard work, there is no success; There is no glory without suffering; Without setbacks, there is no glory.
As long as the road is right, we are not afraid of the long road.
The most difficult time is that success is not far away.
Positive people see an opportunity in every worry, while negative people see some kind of worry in every opportunity.
Success lies not in strength, but in how long you persist.
God never complains about people's ignorance, but people complain about God's unfairness.
Any restriction starts from your own heart.
The arrival of the God of Luck is often just because you take one more look, think more and take one more step.
With the support of a lofty goal, persistent efforts, even if slow, will certainly succeed.
Mood phrase: Work harder and succeed more.
They say geese fly south, but all the birds I see fly in circles.
Giving up is helplessness, giving up is incompetence, not giving up is ignorance, and not giving up is perseverance.
Not telling the truth is a personal shame, and not telling the truth is a shame of the times.
Some people won't forget because they don't want to give up; Some people have to forget because it's not worth it.
Love is also an invention, which needs constant improvement. However, this invention is different from other inventions. It has no patent right and will be taken away at any time.
Don't comfort me if you leave me, because every sewing will also meet the pain of puncture.
Hope: people you like don't get involved; More hope: people I don't like fuck off.
Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
When the boss uses you, you are a talent, and when you are not used, you become a layoff!
Life is like a road, with ups and downs and flatness; In the process of growing up, it will not be smooth sailing, sometimes it will fall, sometimes it will not fall, but it will always move on.
Because I love someone and know that I will lose my freedom, I am willing to make a promise.
Work harder and be more successful.
Nothing is work without hard work; You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.
The loveliness of a woman lies in her temperament, imperfection depends on her IQ, and perfection does not depend on her beauty.
When we were young, we gave up, thinking it was just a relationship, but later we learned that it was actually a lifetime.
If steel corrodes like memory, is this a happy city or a ruin?
The world is inherently painful, without exception.
Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease.
Is it necessary to be big? Dinosaurs didn't go extinct as usual!
Sometimes you can't let go of a person, not because that person is irreplaceable, but because you spend too much time and energy on that person. Once separated, it's like a castle carefully built by yourself with time and youth crashing down.
Life test has four topics: study, career, marriage and family. You have to get a high average score to pass, so don't spend too much time and energy on any topic.
Bargain like a poor man and pay like a gentleman.
Hope: people you like don't get involved; More hope: people I don't like fuck off.
To learn to forgive is to learn to obey your heart, and the word "forgive" means "as heart".
Friendship is established among comrades, consolidated in sincerity, developed in criticism and destroyed in flattery.
Positive thinking leads to positive life, and negative thinking leads to negative life.
Play hard: You can only play if you have a life. If you have no life, what can you play?
When we believe that we are already quite important to the world, in fact, the world is just ready to forgive our naivety.
Pain comes from desire.
Dissatisfaction is a substitute for vacancy, which makes people have the desire to climb up constantly in comparison.
Who moved whose strings sounded missing, who alone guarded whose sadness and tears.
Coming is accidental, leaving is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged.
People are actually quite contradictory. I always want to be understood, but I am afraid of being seen through by others.
You can't be friends after breaking up because you have hurt each other; You can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply, so you should be the most familiar strangers.
The mind is a commodity, not an ornament.
The real inner strength is to live in your own world, not in the eyes and mouths of others. Life is nothing more than laughing at others, and then letting others laugh at themselves.
Dream your own dreams, go where you want to go and be who you want to be, because you only have one life and one chance.
The most urgent thing to walk is the most beautiful scenery, and the most painful thing to walk is the most true feelings.
To really let go is not to let go of others, but to let go of yourself.
The result of diligence but inefficiency is that stupid birds fly first and then disappear.
The saddest thing is that when I meet a special person, I realize that I can never be together and I have to give up sooner or later. People who really like you can't be friends. Even if you look more, you still want to have me. I never gave up loving you, but I changed from being strong to being silent.
When you can hold hands, please don't shoulder to shoulder; Please don't hold hands when you can hug. Please don't say goodbye when you can fall in love; With love, please don't touch ambiguity.
Only your future can squander my present; Only my favorite has given me the most fatal injury.
It's not that love has changed, but that love and being loved are in the wrong position.
The same bottle of drinks costs $20 in convenience stores and $20 in five-star hotels. Many times, a person's value depends on his position.
Some things are only worth remembering. Some people can only be passers-by Never look back, why not? Since there is no chance, why call names. The world is so dirty, who is qualified to say sadness?
Friendship is established among comrades, consolidated in sincerity, developed in criticism and destroyed in flattery.
Phrase: Work harder and succeed more.
The compulsory course of life is to accept impermanence, and the elective course of life is to let go of persistence. Life is like this. You can live according to your own ideas, at least close to your own ideas. You can't grasp your own mentality, you can only grasp it by your own mentality. This is a sad way of life, you can't be sure.
Work harder and be more successful.
People are most comfortable with a clear conscience, quiet and carefree. . Strive to cultivate optimism, act calmly and not be discouraged. Setbacks, gains and losses, and accumulated experience are all for you to climb a ladder. Be broad-minded and know how to advance and retreat, and learn to be low-key and humble!
Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way, and it is difficult to have someone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye.
You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood. You cannot change your appearance, but you can control yourself. You can't foresee tomorrow, but you can cherish today. Only with dreams can we create a miracle of happiness. As far as the heart can go, the dream can go. A person without a dream, like a ship without a rudder, is always adrift and helpless, and it is inevitable to run aground, and the failure caused by frustration and disappointment is also inevitable.
Only when you taste the pain, can you cherish the happiness that you ignore; Only when you know how to appreciate the ordinary can you collect the happiness that was discarded at the beginning. Without pain, the feast of life will be dull; Without the ordinary, the picture of life is shallow. It's no use complaining. No matter whether you laugh or cry, no one will listen to you. Fantasy is useless, whether you go or stop, we have to face the bloody cruelty in reality.
Deep feelings need not be expressed, but time will always show. The distance between heart and heart is not far, as long as communication; It is not difficult to wait for love and affection, as long as you are tolerant. Friendship can only be owned by heart; Feelings must be sincere to last. Love warms people's hearts, and winter is not cold; If the truth is there, the end of the world is just around the corner!
You charge hard, work hard, stay in shape and smile at people. These are not to please others, but to dress up, light up my heart and tell myself that I am an independent and upward force.
Accept what has happened with a normal heart. With a broad heart, tolerate those who are sorry for us. Adhere to the correct concept with an unchanging heart. Face difficult things with a relaxed heart. Appreciate things around you with a beautiful heart. Treat everyone sincerely. Be grateful for what you have.
Life is better to look down than to see through it. Many people in life are not ignorant, but helpless. All my life, I just want to be happy. It is better to ignore those headaches that you can't figure out and people and things that you can't understand.
Don't let life lose to your mood. Mood is not the whole of life, but it can control the whole of life. In a good mood, everything is fine, in a bad mood, everything is chaotic. It is often not that we lose to others, but that our bad mood devalues our image, reduces our ability, disrupts our thinking, and thus loses to ourselves. Control your emotions, and life will be peaceful everywhere.