More often, women can't stand men's cold violence, because women are emotional animals in born to love. Once a man's thoughtfulness and warmth are few and far between, women will feel very cold, and then think that this is a man's deliberate behavior.
Generally speaking, cold violence can be divided into these two types:
First, there is no language after seeing through it. In other words, the other party sees through the relationship between two people, either they can't live in peace, both sides have to compromise, or one side has to make concessions. If one side refuses to retreat, then embarrassment will arise and the cold war will begin.
Second, hold other people's emotions and become the winner of feelings completely. In this case, it is usually absolute injury, even if there is no obvious trace, but this kind of torture is very hurtful. If you really love, you can't do this. Not loving enough, so playful and casual.
No matter what kind of cold and violent force, how to deal with it, not to let yourself get hurt, and to bypass the intentional or unintentional injury of the other party is the correct way. So is there any good way?
This is the quickest way to deal with cold violence. First, change your personality, try to be humorous, have some fun for yourself, and try not to always rely on each other psychologically.
Second, reduce disputes. After all, when two people get along, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and running-in. Less controversy, less competition and more understanding.
The ultimate goal of love is not to win, but to win and realize.
Third, actively participate in society, including socializing, work, hobbies, and so on. Try not to stare at each other. After all, no one is perfect. If you want to find a problem, find it. Don't make life too monotonous, and there will be no such thing as cold violence.
When your heart is full enough, no matter what people around you are like, they can't do anything to you, but they are infected or influenced by you. Only people with strong hearts can reconcile with each other.