In marriage, I can accept that my partner has private money, because private money is usually the exclusive property of the man in the family. As a male, I will definitely accept the private money project.
Since ancient times, married men have hidden their private money. After all, according to traditional concepts, men have to support their wives and children. As a result, the income earned will be given to my wife, and when I need money, I will take it from her.
However, as time goes by, men may feel that they do not have the freedom to spend money, and their wives are strict in controlling it. Sometimes it is difficult to even use it for serious things, so there is a situation of hiding private money.
The reason why men agree is that when they need or want to spend more, they can use it freely without having to let their wives talk about it.
But wives also have the same worry: they are afraid that their husbands will use the money to do bad things...
So when wives find out that their husbands are hiding private money, they are basically worried. Confiscated.
However, with the development of the times, in many modern families, the husband’s money is no longer managed by the wife, but managed by himself. When the wife wants money, she has to ask her husband for it.
But because more and more couples always quarrel over one thing or another after marriage, it often happens that the husband does not give his wife money, leaving the wife with the child unable to even eat. .
As a result, many gay wives will suggest that such wives keep some money secretly in case their husbands refuse to give them money, so that they can be used for emergencies. Or one day, if you have to get divorced, this money can be used as living expenses...
In fact, since they are husband and wife, they are a whole, so they have to work hard and focus on the same place. . Money should be put together, reasonably arranged, controlled, and mutually restricted.