As a "worker", Tang said: "I think there are two kinds of people who don't want to compete with others for their interests and values. Who just entered the first business? Not to mention the first five years, can you give me a little salary? The most important thing is what can be learned in the enterprise, which is not conducive to development ......" Less inspiration
always gains equality from the experience gained, and learns too much suffering from it; I have learned a shallow lesson and learned a lot from hardships. When a person experiences pain when he is young, for example, out of the dark is right, that is a person worthy of admiration. The most important thing is to practice internal skills. The best time is after graduating from college, when the skills are five years old. Only by practicing internal skills can we climb a higher future.
where is the way out? Lied thoughts!
actually, no money, no experience, no experience and no social relations are not terrible. Without money, you can earn it through hard work; Without experience, it is easy to operate through practice; Without experience, you can accumulate step by step; Without social relations, you can knit bit by bit. However, no dream, no thinking is the most terrible, very scared, very want to escape!
there must be a correct direction. No matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how hard you spend it, without a clear direction, you will be at a loss, gradually lose your fighting spirit and forget your original dream, and you will take a detour, even if you don't return, wasting your talents and missing his youth.
In the motto
Homer's Odyssey: "Nothing is more unbearable than wandering aimlessly." This is five years of chaos, leading to graduation panic, 2 years of struggle, and even 1 years of mediocrity. If you can't graduate, as long as there is chaos and fog in five years, we really have no face after his face for 1 years and 2 years. Five years after graduation, we have many uncertainties and many possibilities.
five years after graduation, we must make sure that both sides have many decisions.
Everyone will experience confusion, fear and escape, but don't be confused with self-confusion, give, be willing to forgive mediocrity, and don't become a bitter liqueur of self-pity and sacrifice frustration. You need to consider your own life and your own destiny, but you also need to grasp it. After finding the direction five years before graduation, the sooner you get out of the confusion, the easier it will be to achieve success in life and create wonderful things. If you can't find a headless direction, it will be a mess; A person can't find a way out, only confusion and fear.
when we encounter difficulties in life, we often feel desperate. Don't be discouraged, stick to it, I believe there is no dead end to young life, the difficulty is just around the corner, and the hope lies ahead. As long as we have the right ideas, we will certainly be able to take fewer detours and find a way out!
successful people don't win at the starting point, but at the turning point.
There are many young people who have just graduated.
They always hope to find their ideal jobs soon. However, many good jobs cannot be a long wait. You must choose a job as your life experience. The first job in the career journey is undoubtedly the starting point for universities to enter the society. Maybe you find a unsatisfactory job, so from here, settle yourself well, and accumulate wealth from the valuable nutrition of this job. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you set out, there is hope to reach the end.
the starting point can be the same, but if you choose different inflection points, the ending point will be very different!
After graduating in the past few years, there are many uncertainties in our life, feelings and careers, which are full of possibilities for the future. This time, we must learn to choose, know how to give up, give ourselves a clear position and stabilize ourselves. If you don't take the initiative to locate, people and society will be "fixed"!
It can be said that the habits cultivated by people who graduate in these five years will determine the height of their life. Our success depends on part of their own evaluation, which is positioning. Positioning is what you give yourself, what you are. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change fate. The ugly duckling turns into a white swan, just a pair of wings; To be a beautiful princess Cinderella, there is only a pair of crystal shoes.
A person's life is one third of the sky, and seven points depend on hard work and the dream of "red" victory. No one can bind you to fly unless they trap themselves in a cage.
reality is far from what they think. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns to depression and loss, or even feeling, when he is convinced that he is "sand", anger, confusion and inferiority begin to increase.
actually, you should be careful, if you really weigh yourself? It is real gold, and you have unique skills in your hands to work on some scenic spots. Bottom line: Real gold is proved by strength. Only by cultivating one's own ability first, East and West horses are eligible to be considered < P > The original sand of every pearl, but not every sand can become a pearl.
to do it in the right way, you should stand up for the capital. It is difficult to achieve glory if you can't stand blows and setbacks and bear neglect and dullness. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must turn themselves into priceless pearls from a grain of sand.
rainy sunrise, peak forest and life canyon days.
don't cover your eyes for floating clouds, the scenery looks long.
Just a flick of the haze, Lang Lang will be able to reveal the clear sky. If you have some unhappy jobs, I believe they will not always be at the bottom of their lives, and one day they will be able to break through thick clouds. Tell yourself: I didn't fail, but I didn't succeed As long as the heart lights the lamp of hope, it can dispel the dark clouds and usher in the light.
Indeed, as far as qualifications are concerned, their career is an absolute novice, their business is not deep, their contacts are poor, and they often run into a wall. They don't necessarily like the pressure of crushing stones, but because of the onset of rain and the weather before the gray is low, there is obviously room. He is gray to fill every gap and can only wait for the clear sky before the heavy rain pours down.
"Get up earlier than a chicken, sleep late than a dog, do more than a donkey, and eat pigs." This is what many people like to laugh at after their graduation, and then live in conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many people have indeed been shrouded in a gray mood-my heart is always cloudy and cloudy. I remember a philosopher once said. "Our pain is not caused by a problem in itself, but by our views on these problems." From another perspective, life is a breakthrough, a relief, a transcendence, a higher level of indifference and tranquility, and freedom and happiness.
a philosopher said. "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are completely in their own hands. As long as they work hard, they will eventually have a job or career. So is starting a business. As long as they are willing to do it, they will be successful. Are you ready to commit all your life to others?
Five years after graduation is the golden age to change your destiny. When most people decide their own destiny, if you are not sure, when will you wait? I am in charge of my life, and the fate of the people does not help.
don't live in other people's mouths or eyes, but your destiny is in your own hands.
don't say you have no background, you are the biggest background. Jack Kerouac, an American writer, once said, "I am still young, and I am eager to get on the road." In the journey of life, we are always young, and every day should be full of longing. Everyone's potential is infinite. The key is to find their own potential. They can have a correct understanding of their talents and find the full potential of a stage, which is not only not suitable for the stage. It is your own ability, combined with your actual situation and preferences, objective and fair view to cool the choice, as far as possible to give your own needs, the most suitable place.
In the field of human resources management, it is particularly popular to say that the theory of "horse, cow, pig and dog" is: good character, strong ability, swift horse, we should ride him; But the general ability of good character, and the ox, we have to hold him; Character and ability are common, that is, "pig", we should kill him; Great ability, poor character, this is a "dog", we want to hit him.
I think you have just graduated for a few years, and you are ambitious, because people want to be an understandable, galloping galloping horse, right? So, you need to solve. Being low on the floor is not equal to being inferior. Looking down on the floor today is for tomorrow's work. The so-called value of life, our existence is a valuable person. It is a good thing that people can use it, but it is really sad that no one cares!
a competent job and a good job are the basic guarantee for the survival of the workplace.
The work that anyone can do is a prerequisite for his ability to finish the work. Competency is the most basic standard for qualified employees, and willingness to work is an attitude. Many people are competent for a job, and they should do a basic job well. However, what they can do better depends on whether they are practical and willing to do it, and their attitude towards research is affected.
on the basis of competence and hard work.
You have done more work and life than others, and you feel cheated. If you have less money than others, you feel cheated; Often working overtime, you feel cheated ... In fact, there is no need to care about this. Losing is not a disaster, not a failure, and losing is also a philosophy of life. The success of paving the road with little loss of eating now, maybe at some point in the future, your great happiness will suddenly come.
Being able to bear hardships is a realm of life and a wise attitude towards life.
it's not work or what others do, but the shortcomings of living a little bit. If the leader asks you to work overtime and catch up with the task, don't think that you have suffered a big loss, but you should be thankful, because the leader only calls you, but doesn't ask him to trust other people and appreciate you. Shortcomings are a kind of contribution. The more you contribute, the more you will get back. Being willing to work overtime is such a shortcoming.
if you are willing to give up, you will get it if you give up; Learning to eat properly is definitely not a retarded person, but wisdom.
Being too radical means leaving room for yourself, making it easier and more convenient for others. Being kind to others means being kind to yourself.
A fool is blessed, because he has no calculation. With such people, relax, don't be too wary to get close to each other. Stupidity in many cases means persistence and loyalty, as well as generosity and honesty, which makes people stand beside him unconsciously. What a fool gets unintentionally is better than what a wise man gets with all his efforts. In recent years after graduation, there are only a few snowflakes floating in your sky, so are you satisfied? Success requires persistence and accumulation, instead of focusing on the collection of snow, it is better to save energy to snowball. Buffett said: "Life is like a snowball. The most important thing is to find a very wet snow and a long slope." Let yourself settle down, learn to find "very wet snow" and try to find "a long slope." Remember: scattered snow will melt quickly and disappear. Only snowballs are realistic and long-term.
In the past few years after graduation, if you can make an extra minute of effort than others, it means more capital accumulation than others, and successful people have more opportunities than others.
what occupation? Professionalism is a state of standardization, standardization and institutionalization, that is, at the right time, in the right way, saying the right things and doing the right things, such knowledge, skills, ideas, thinking, attitudes, psychology and meeting professional norms and standards. "In every industry, there are many outstanding talents, so they can exist because they are harder, smarter and more mature than others, but most importantly, they are more professional than the average person! That's why I can now. Your boss is not only a professional, but only a professional who can fly in front of others, making it difficult to surpass! "Don't think that our life is very calm now. For those who graduate in five years, we must admit five upcoming challenges.
1, support parents.
second, get married and have children.
3. Promote br salary increase.
4 br, high working pressure.
5 br to improve the quality of life.
Some people are excited about survival, and their eyes always stop behind them. They fish for three days and dry their nets for two days, which never ends.
some people struggle for development, and their eyes are always fixed on the front every day, making a little progress and being consistent.
In recent years, graduation can't be separated from pursuit and exploration, and it can't be without ideals and goals. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. The status quo is no longer willing to live in advance, and it can no longer keep up with the times. We must seize every second to learn, to understand that students' learning is not patented. Smart people are most proud of: what did you do? What a wise man craves most: what must he do?
tactical cleverness and great wisdom are strategies; Cleverness sees sesame seeds, while great wisdom sees watermelon.
In this world, there are both big people and small roles, others have their own way of life, and some people are a little more chic. Everyone has his own way of life, and no one can force him. However, only a small intelligent performance and viewpoint, a small field of great wisdom, can have great achievements and great realm. Small business owners look at the system in the enterprise, and large enterprises look at the culture.
There is no difference between a small company and a large company in order to survive, but the impact on a person at different stages will be different.
Small companies definitely want to develop into large enterprises, which is a goal. Young people should cultivate their own career goals. How many years have you graduated, if you often feel that you have no stage fright or confidence? Be alert, it is definitely not an alarmist! Take a nap at this moment, you will have a dream; Study at this moment, and your dream will come true. In the competitive battlefield of life, napping is a loser!
Everyone seems to be young and not afraid of anything, but with the growth of age, the house of ideas and the common things of working every day to support their families do not have the courage of young people to "explore the stars and find the moon in the sea". Have we changed our lives or have we changed our lives? Our thoughts are getting more and more complicated. Because of more and more reluctance and more and more attention, we have been wandering and always hesitating. One or two years after graduation, the burden of life will remain, and setbacks and obstacles will block the port. In all directions, we will often get our own oppressive play potential, deus ex, and find a way out. But after two or three years, we began to reduce the burden on our bodies, and the work began to be smooth sailing. We relaxed and gradually forgot the potential dangers. Until one day, when the crisis suddenly came, we were defeated and lost money. In the past few years ... After graduation, we are still in danger. We must be vigilant and work hard, so that we can have a real safe life!
happiness born of worry. If you want to surpass your current achievements, you can't draw self-limitation, but you must have the courage to accept the challenge. For the timid, the real danger is to take risks!
youth under the pressure of society.